When your man – your “one” – won’t come back after a breakup, there is one thing that never seems more important and more impossible to do: get him back.
And not just get him back, but get him in love with you with that deep glimmer when he looks at you that says you are the only one for him, and he wouldn’t rather be with anyone else.
The good news it’s NOT impossible to get your ex-boyfriend back… actually far from it.
I’d like to ask you a few questions, and as I ask them try to answer them with an open, rational mind as best you can.
The LAST thing you want is for things to be over – perhaps you even imagined yourself spending the rest of your life with him – but it seems like now there’s nothing you can do.
And everything you have tried like:
Doesn’t seems to get through to him to love you and be with you again.
He’s shut down from you completely and isn’t open at all like he used to be before he left and everything that led up to it, and you’re more confused about how he feels than ever.
You can’t figure out whether he thinks about you or doesn’t care.
And every time you try to get closer and it doesn’t lead somewhere, you feel that deep sinking feeling in your stomach of hopelessness.
Here’s another important question:
You try staying friends and assuring him you’ll always be there for him and that he’s the only man for you… or you told him that things would be different and tried talking about the different way that you could “patch up” the relationship?
I’m guessing that everyone around you told you things like “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” or “you deserve better, he was just a jerk.”
But the more you hear this, the more it only makes you feel the pain of losing the man you really want to be with.
He just doesn’t open up to the possibility at all and keeps drifting further and further away and even started doing things that deeply upset you like hanging out the guys more, or even hanging around other women.
You felt completely out of control.
Here’s one more.
You felt the relationship ended because of things you shouldn’t have done or didn’t do well enough.
You felt that there was more you could have done… and many things you could have stopped doing that would have kept him from leaving, but your emotions overtook you and made you do things you later regretted.
You thought too much about how much your needs weren’t being met instead of what he needed from you, and then you later paid the price.
If you’re like the many women I’ve coached through breakups, you’ve experienced this.
And what’s the most painful part of going through all of this?
Well if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part of all of this is having to go through the most agonizing experience of your life ALONE.
Your friends don’t get it.
Your family doesn’t get it.
And the only person who can help you is no longer there for you.
The most FRUSTRATING part is not getting any positive response out of him that LASTS no matter how hard you try and no matter what you do, and that’s the part that really makes you pull your hair out (or cut it off).
And the SCARIEST part of all is thinking about whether he’s going to meet someone new – or that he already has – and if he will be happier than he was with you.
There’s one thing you must understand if you’re to get your man back…
BUT, no matter how “bad”, unique or messed up you’re situation is right now, and no matter how lot or little hope you have left in the tank, if you go about handling your situation the RIGHT way, there IS hope that you will get you man back.
The billion dollar question is…
Why did he really leave, what’s going on in his head and why is he so resistant to coming back to you?
This is one of the most confusing and insanity driving things about a breakup, because you’ve probably found he won’t give you very straight answers. Not to mention he’s being very cold, distant and acts almost like he was never in love with you at all.
He’s almost like a completely different person now.
From all of the women I’ve helped in breakups, what most can’t help but do in a situation like this is simply eat all of the ice cream in the fridge… or stop eating all together and stay in bed for days, or even weeks or months.
Some women end up obsessing and over-analyzing every little thing that happened with him sometimes for years over trying to answer what happened.
What’s more confusing is in some cases he’s even telling you “I love you”.
And what more disheartening than anything else is when he tells you coldly that “it’s over” and “you should move on”.
It got me thinking… why? What the hell is going on here?
As a guy myself, I’ve said and done things like this in the past. But if you asked me at the time, I wouldn’t have been able to explain what was happening.
The best I would have been able to say is “a switch went off”, and after talking with a lot of guys on the subject, that’s the experience that most guys have… and it’s NOT for the reasons that you think.
It’s hard enough going through an excruciating breakup where everything you’ve grown attached to and love has been torn away from you, but the fact that now he’s pushing you further and further away makes things ten times worse…
Well, before we go on any further there’s something you should know.
None of this is your fault or really has anything to do with you… no matter how “to blame” you feel or how badly you messed up… and more importantly I’ve seen many couples get back together even when a guy coldly says he has no desire to get back with a certain woman and that it’s over for him.
What’s more is after many years of researching breakups (sometimes seriously screwed up situations) I have found the underlying root causes of why men leave and stay away from women… and what to do about it so that instead of moving away from you, he’s running back to you.
The answers that I found were that most women completely overlook or don’t understand, even the so-called “experts” out there, and I believe that these secrets will help YOU in your situation right now.
There ARE reasons why he is pushing you away, why he doesn’t care anymore, and why you can’t get him to come back no matter how hard you try.
After spending years helping thousands of women get their man back, I started seeing consistent patterns in most breakups.
What I found was a pattern of easily avoidable mistakes women were making after a breakup that was pushing the man far away and preventing him from ever coming back.
What is more interesting, most women are completely unaware they’re making these mistakes and are under the believe that doing these thing actually help their situation…
When I show women to stop making these mistakes, their man’s reaction changes almost instantly.
It’s actually shocking how easy it is, like twinkle dust.
I’m about to share with you the seven most common mistakes that women make with their boyfriends during a breakup that pushes a man further away and actually prevents him from coming back.
If you understand how YOU are making these mistakes and then STOP doing them, you can avoid pushing your man away for good.
By the way, if you see any that you have been doing for a long period of time and it worries you, it’s nothing to worry about just so long as you stop doing them immediately… there is always hope no matter how bad the situation is.
What most women do after a breakup is call, text, email or hang out with their now ex-boyfriend even more.
Logically, it makes “sense” to keep in contact with him so that he doesn’t “forget” about you. You think if you call enough times maybe he will realize the mistake he made and take you back… not to mention that the feelings of wanting to be with him and around him now are overwhelming.
As much as I’d love to say that increasing your contact with him will bring your man back to you, the reality is this is based in an emotionalized fantasy created by the immense pain and rejection you are going through. In reality, this is basically illogical wishful thinking.
The truth is this.
He has broken up with you, which is another way of him saying that he wants his space. The reason for that is because of mistakes you may were making with him throughout the relationship when you were still together.
But the more you start calling, texting emailing or hanging out with him, the more annoyed he’s going to become and the more he’ll want to pull away and not come back.
Sadly, I’ve seen many women ignore this and give the man almost NO space after a breakup, and they continue calling, emailing, faxing etc. more and more until he can’t take it anymore and makes the break for good.
I’m NOT saying to not contact him at all (and depending on your situation if you stop contacting him it could be a disastrous move). But if you continue to listen to and act on your irrational, fear-based, painful emotions instead of following a logical, planned out map for your situation that has been proven to work to get men back many, many times, you can move this breakup into far more dangerous waters.
When you stop this mistake, and you lay off a bit on calling or messaging him, you’re setting yourself up correctly to take the power back in this situation, which is exactly what we want.
A mistake that most women tend to make in a breakup (and it’s another one that seems “logical” when you’re doing it) is talking to him about your feelings about the breakup.
Why is this a mistake?
Because in 99% of cases, when you’re having a conversation about the breakup, you have an another motive: to try to convince him to be with you again.
In a more understanding world where men were more sensitive, this would be a great thing to get him to open up about his repressed feelings towards you.
But sadly, this is NOT the situation… no matter how “sensitive” your man is, and he’s not going to open up in a situation like this, especially if he feels pressured.
It saddens me when I coach women through breakups and they blatantly go into denial about their man being “different” and believes that her “intuition” is accurate in this very painful and confusing life event.
I’ve got news for you.
He left you and doesn’t want to talk about the relationship anymore.
I know it’s hard to hear, but the more you talk about your feelings with him, the more he’s going to want to get away from you and never come back, EVEN IF HE SAYS HE WANTS TO TALK.
Because the more you fall into his “version” of reality, which is that you two are over, the more he wins and the more defeated you will feel.
If you haven’t been making the RIGHT changes, then his version of a “talk” is not going to help you get what you want.
You must first learn what rebuilds your desirability and attractiveness in his eyes after this breakup where you’ve lost these things, and talking about the breakup is not going to build any desire or attraction.
This is one of those things that I’ve seen many “relationship experts” and books out there say to do, but I can assure you after seeing thousands of women do this unsuccessfully with men, it just doesn’t work this way.
And the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
You must think less “logically” and think more “emotionally”.
Attraction is an emotional phenomenon.
A man never says “Hmm, this woman is a good communicators, has the proper hips to waste ratio, and has all these other qualities, so I’m going to decide to be attracted now.”
But you always hear men say “I don’t know what it is about this girl, but I can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve been up all night telling myself this is going to end up bad, but who am I kidding, I can’t stop thinking about her”.
Bingo. Think gut level.
And if you understand what ATTRACTS your man on a biological and psychological level after this breakup, that woman can and WILL be YOU.
There’s one common thing that all women share when they are in a breakup.
Immense FEAR of him dating another woman and moving on.
What does this cause most women to do?
They want to go out and find someone BEFORE he does.
So she can feel more in control, and hopefully to make him feel jealous and want her again.
I’ll admit, in SOME cases this might work, but you really have to be fully aware of the situation… and in most cases there are so many emotions happening that it’s nearly impossible to see the situation clearly without outside help.
But the fact is in MOST cases dating another man after a breakup will cause a man to pull away completely.
But that’s not a “death sentence” if you’ve already done this.
If you know how to steer the situation correctly, you CAN bounce back, and still win his heart.
One huge reason why this breakup are so hard is because of one thing: ego… from one or both sides.
Many women, often women who have been broken up with many times before, go into a mode of pride and ego with a man they’ve been broken up by, and often insist “I was going to breakup with him anyway”.
The underlying truth is they are trying to avoid being vulnerable and feeling REJECTED once again, and they tell the man that getting broken up with doesn’t hurt.
She’s afraid to be honest about her true feelings and that she actually is really hurt because she doesn’t want to give her power away.
What she’s really doing is trying to communicate to him that she doesn’t need him.
The problem is this is NOT what will get him to come back.
If he doesn’t want you, then he’s not going to care whether or not you want him… that only works when you already have his interest.
And if he does want you, you can actually end up pushing him away for good without even realizing that you are hurting him.
There are three reasons why this is a big mistake.
One, if he’s already fallen out of love with you and wants to move on, this won’t cause any kind of reaction in him to want you again… and chances are he will know on some level what you are doing.
Secondly, pretending not to care may actually STOP him from thinking about being with you again even if he was thinking about it, because you will trigger HIS prideful side.
The last is depending on WHY he broke up with you, you are PROVING his decision to breakup with you.
You must give him an easy pathway to come back to you… and with getting your boyfriend to come back, it’s all about paving the way so he can easily come back to you.
The good news is it’s not too late to fix things.
You must learn to spark attraction and trust again.
If you truly want him back, and you learn to put aside your ego and do not what you want or think should work, but what truly works to make him attracted on a gut level, you can get him approaching YOU for a relationship again.
When you’re overly sensitive and emotionally raw, you haven’t accepted the breakup as reality and you’re also asking him to do things like:
And then you get deeply upset when he does, you’re not just preventing him from wanting you again, but you’re killing his attraction, trust and respect for you.
When you are needy, overly emotional, and are trying analyze everything about him and the situation, you’re at the same time losing his attraction for you.
When you lose his attraction and desire, you have nothing to motivate him to come back to you.
You want him to still be your boyfriend, but after this breakup you are emotionally raw and you just want to be with him, and you can’t almost stand to be around him when he’s just your friend.
I agree with you, he shouldn’t be doing these things out of respect for your feelings.
The problem is by acting this way, you’re not commanding the respect you deserve, and you’re actually leading him to walk all over you and your feelings.
Acting needy and emotional with him is a big TURNOFF to him right now, and that’s why you’ve probably found he’s pushing you away aggressively, and may even be downright rude.
What he’s going to find attractive instead of repellent are things like unpredictability, femininity, light-heartedness and VALUE.
It may seem difficult right now, but with the right tools at hand it becomes a lot easier.
These are things that men find attractive UNIVERSALLY, and a breakup doesn’t change that, in fact a breakup will only amplify his attraction for these things.
If you learn what he truly needs from you to be attracted and DESIRE you again, why he broke up with you, and what he wants and needs from you to want a relationship again, you’ll put HIM in the place of wanting you as badly as you want him right now.
This is probably the most painful mistake to admit to doing, because it involves seeing through a “fantasy” you may have set up in your situation to make yourself feel better.
But once you see the REALITY of this breakup situation, that’s your only chance of getting him to truly desire you.
Here’s what I’m talking about.
Many women go into deep depression after a breakup… and incidentally, they get excited any time he makes any step towards her and think that him making contact with her is a positive sign that he still wants her and is thinking about coming back.
I hate to say this, and the last thing I want to do is hurt your feelings, but this is simply not true.
The truth is your negative emotions right now are creating many optical illusions.
An optical illusion is when one thing looks like something else.
Have you ever seen those 3D pictures you have to cross your eyes to see? When you just look at the picture normally, it doesn’t look like much more than squiggly lines and bright colors… But once you cross your eyes, all of a sudden the whole picture appears… you can see a dog flying through the air chasing a hot dog with wings…
But seriously, the first time you look at the picture, you have to learn and practice seeing it differently so you can see past the surface illusions and see what is really going on beneath what appears to be happening on the surface.
If you think he’s coming back, but there’s even the slightest change you’re misinterpreting his behaviors and are “talking” with him on the wrong level, you’re going to, in essence, “rat yourself out” and show him that you don’t “get” it and wind up pushing him away.
That’s because in order for him to want you, you must be what he wants… and if he has left you that’s a clear sign that from the beginning of the relationship to the end, you became something he didn’t want.
And what’s worse is if you allow this breakup to toy with your emotions and drive you crazy, you can actually become even LESS of what he wants even after he broke up with you.
But there is good news.
If you stop living this fantasy, or trying to pretend everything is “okay” when you actually really don’t know what is going on, you open yourself up to the possibility of learning what he is truly thinking and taking the right actions towards him and then that’s your chance to change how he is thinking about you… and get him thinking about being with you again.
Learning how he feels is scary at first, but it soon turns into more HOPE because now you know what you need to do.
When you truly KNOW the reality of your situation, why he left you, what his behaviors REALLY mean, then you open yourself up to the only possibility you have of making your relationship with him once again warm, loving, secure and most of all happy… and becoming the woman that he truly can’t stop thinking about in REAL LIFE.
One of the most COMMON mistake most women make when a man has left them is demonstrating LOW VALUE… and then hoping that he will “save” her because of it.
Let me explain.
Do you remember when Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt broke up a few years ago?
From what went on after the breakup, it was very obvious that Brad left Jenn.
Is this true?
Before, Jenn was living the high life as an A-list celebrity. But when Brad and her broke up, it was visibly obvious that she was shaken, her movie roles decreased, her value as a celebrity fell and she became the “butt” of many celebrity jokes from comedians.
She was considered “B-List” by most of the magazines for a long time, and is just now starting to make a come back.
Now whether it was intentional or not makes no difference. But, did Brad feel bad and sorry for her, pity her and decide that it was time to save her and get back together?
They never got back together, and Brad got with the younger, more attractive Angelina Jolie.
Men are attracted to women with HIGH value… but you don’t need to be attractive, young or famous.
All you need to know is exactly what your man truly finds valuable, and then do those things… and there is a long list of things you can start doing to easily raise your value.
One thing is simply to STOP demonstrating that you are of lower value.
The biggest thing that most women do that is a CLEAR indicator of low value to a man is when they start going out with their friends frequently after a breakup hoping that he will find out about it and get jealous.
This triggers alarm bells to go off inside his head because he knows that: you’re desperate, you don’t know what you’re doing without him and you’re trying to manipulate him.
I’m not saying not to go out and have fun, but don’t do it for all the wrong reasons.
Don’t make the same mistake that Jennifer Aniston made.
If you hope that he will come back because he feels sorry for you because of how much pain you are in and how life isn’t going the way you want, you’re not going to get what you want.
He’s not going to “save” you, and the more you demonstrate lower value, the more resistant he’ll be to ever seeing you again.
Your man wants to be with a woman is has higher value and higher status, and these things don’t come in the form of youth, attractiveness or fame… they come in the form of your ATTITUDE about yourself.
The truth is he is looking for something of HIGHER value than what he had before with you… but if you know what he is looking for, that higher value something can be YOU.
The problem is it can feel like we feel “stuck” in a negative way of acting in emotionally tough situations.
But there is good news.
If you learn and understand him as a man, his psychology, why he left the relationship and the right way to approach and handle this “breakup” with him, that’s enough to get you feeling 100% CONFIDENT that you CAN turn everything around. You’ll take back the power and make him fall in love with you again quickly and easily… no matter how bad or “different” your situation seems.
I’ve spent the last five years teaching women all over the world how to create and enjoy a better relationship where men are easily attracted, open, communicative and in love LONG-TERM, in my books, seminars and programs.
It’s been my personal goal (and privilege) to help correct many of the travesties and easily avoidable heartbreaks of love and relationships that so many women face. They face it simply because of a lack of understanding of men, of their own psychology, and the truth to making a man fall in love even after a breakup.
After helping women with their relationships for year (when they still had their man around), I found that most women were coming to me in the worst possible relationship issue there is: a breakup.
And it made perfect sense to me. A breakup with a man is the the most painful and confusing situation to be in.
So I decided that I wanted to do something about it.
The big problem I found was that what many so-called “experts” on breakups had to say did really make much sense and didn’t really work very well, and what they had to teach was often dishonest, manipulative and actually pushed men away more.
I myself have never been broken up with by a man…
BUT (and you may not be very happy with me about this) in the past I have been the one who has broken up with women.
And to tell you the truth, I have also experienced the unbearable agony of being broken up with (by women)many times in the past, and for me, those time were the WORST times I can remember in my life. Perhaps these are two of the reasons I became a teacher of relationships years later.
For me personally as a teacher of relationships with men, the worst part of breaking up with a woman was knowing how much she was hurting simply because of a lack of knowledge.
It affected me deeply.
So after all of this, I wanted to do something about it, because contrary to popular believe, in the mind of all men is the desire to be with one special woman who fulfills him.
And the truth is, it doesn’t matter if he’s been with that woman before and failed with her or not. If you know how to trigger his attraction right, NONE OF YOUR PAST WITH HIM MATTERS AT ALL. All that matter is if you trigger specifics part of your man’s mind to respond to you.
And this is something that all men WANT very badly, but rarely get.
Look I know, it can be embarrassing asking for help.
But the truth is asking for help is the first step to getting what you want, otherwise you’re going to continue doing the same things over and over with no new information entering into your life, and remember, the definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again and expecting a different outcome.
There are just two simple reasons that literally STOP 99.9% of women from getting their boyfriends back.
And this is something that I’ve seen every woman who does get their boyfriend back avoid like the plague.
And if you want your boyfriend back, you’re going to have to avoid these two things like the plague.
The first mistake is allowing yourself to feel hopeless and sulk about your situation and doing nothing about it.
Thinking that your situation is so bad that you can’t do anything anymore to earn his trust, respect and get him to desire a relationship with you… and that your man doesn’t want you anymore so all hope is lost.
When you think fear-based, emotionally negative thoughts (which is one reason that caused this breakup with your man in the first place) the simple fact is you’re not living in line with reality.
Actually, you’re living quite far from the reality.
The REALITY is I’ve seen some pretty MESSED UP situations where if the woman kept even a droplet of hope alive, she was actually far more likely to get her man back.
When you think negatively, pessimistic, cynical thoughts about your situation, not only are you hurting yourself and your self-esteem and INSPIRATION to get your man back, but you’re also hurting his psychological attraction for you.
Most women completely miss this point and thus never get their man back.
Now, the second more dangerous mistake is acting out of desperation.
When you are in a mode of emotion, fear, anger and pain, any action that comes out of it will be the WRONG action. Period. Because despair speaks louder than any action that comes from it.
It’s just like in that old romantic comedy Breakfast at Tiffany’s.
Remember when Audrey Hepburn is paid a lot of money to have these hour long conversations with that incarcerated moss boss and then deliver his messages to the someone on the outside?
What she doesn’t realize is that these conversations are NOT INNOCENT. She’s actually delivering secret coded messages WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT.
She ends up paying the price later by getting arrest and going to jail, even though she had no idea what she had done.
So why am I going on about this movie?
Because this is EXACTLY what most women are doing after a breakup.
They think that acting out of desperation is innocent, and they might as well do something rather than nothing, but they only know what what they are doing and saying means on the SURFACE. They don’t understand what they are ACTUALLY communicating has another meaning that is being closely paid attention to by him.
In fact, it’s the only thing that’s being paid attention to.
When you act out of desperation, you send so many negative signals to your man that you would be incredibly bored listening to me list them off for hours and hours…
If you’re doing this, then in reality you are “breaking the law” and “landing yourself in jail” of another kind far more painful.
It’s like saying you didn’t eat the cookies from the cookie jar, but the smudged chocolate all over your face tells the REAL story… no matter how hard you try to convince everyone that you didn’t eat those cookies, the proof is blindly obvious to everyone EXCEPT YOU.
The lesson here is to STOP acting out of hopeless confused desperation and START acting out of FOCUSED INSPIRATION.
It’s time to start thinking more RATIONALLY about your situation, and leave all of those bad feelings behind and start working with your man and this breakup situation in a way that has been proven to work time and again.
Something DRASTIC needs to change for you in order to bring you out of the darkness of not knowing what to do to get him back in your arms… and put you back “in the know” of exactly what you need to do to bring him back to you as soon as possible.
You need somebody with CLARITY to take you by the hand through this confusing and painful situation and show to you the REALITY of what is happening (not what your fear-based thoughts think is happening). Then you need to be shown what needs to happen to get your man back for good.
What you need most right now is somebody who understands those “coded messages” your boyfriend is sending YOU. You’ve got to know what they mean and what to do about them.
You could use some awareness of your seemingly “innocent” actions that are actually making the situation worse and stopping you from getting your ex-boyfriend back.
And then, you need to learn EXACTLY WHAT TO DO to get him back… and keep him back.
If you allow me and trust me, I can be that person for you… just like I’ve been for thousands of other women just like yourself in bad, unique or messy breakup situations where getting him back seemed impossible.
They have seen their men come back after seemingly impossible odds and go on to form wonderful, fulfilling, loving relationships with the man they love in their lives again… and now for the first time YOU can too.
If you are truly ready to get your ex-boyfriend back and get back the love and happiness that not only do you deserve but rightfully BELONGS to you…
And you’re done living out the heartbreak of him not being in your life anymore…
I’m about to share some really good news with you.
I’ve just finished creating a program that I’ve literally been researching and working on for years with all the answers you need to know to get your ex-boyfriend to come back to you and stay in love with you for good.
What I’ve found is that not only do most women not know how to handle a breakup with a man properly in a way that will bring him back, but they also don’t know WHY he left and the role she played in it and the role she’s continuing to play in her inability to get him back.
There are two aspects to getting your man to come back that you must very closely pay attention to.
The first is becoming the woman he wants to come back to. And THEN the second is using a proven strategy that will pave the way for his return.
You must learn what triggers your man PSYCHOLOGICALLY on a GUT level – below his conscious ability to “reason” about his feelings – that causes an emotional chain-reaction inside of him to want to come back to you and love you.
Then you go to demonstrate it to him in a way that avoids you looking like you’re playing games and having him pull away for good, and instead that will cause him to come running back to you.
You must know what will make HIM see it in his own best interest to come back to you without forcing him to.
Most women get the process backwards.
Most women think they need a strategy first to show their undying love for him, for instance calling all the time or acting prideful, and then when they have him back, THEN she will be the woman he wants.
When you put it this way, obviously this can never work because you’re not allowing him to see it in his own benefit to be with you.
Love or strategy alone won’t bring him back.
I’ve had too many friends do this in breakup situation, and I’ve seen what happens… and what happens is NOTHING.
You must understand strategy, psychology and what MOTIVATES him on a gut emotional level – beyond his conscious control – to come back after a breakup.
If you know how to stimulate a man in this way, getting him back is a SURE THING.
Over the last few years of helping women all over the world heal their relationships, I had a huge number of women coming to me wanting to know how to get their boyfriend back after a breakup, which was actually quite surprising to me at first.
But it slowly started to make sense.
I realized that it was the one area I had neglected with my programs.
A breakup is the MOST serious relationship issue there is.
So I decided to create a full length program that shows you EVERYTHING you need to know about getting your man back, getting him more in love with you that ever, and exactly how to do it for your specific situation.
My brand new audio program is called “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back”.
In this one of a kind program, I’m going to get DEEP into the psychology of breakups.
You’ll learn exactly why he left, how to motivate him to come running back to you, and how to change your entire approach from the ground up so that he’s literally begging to be with you and ONLY you forever.
With the powerful information in this informative and easy to follow program, it’s easier than you think.
You’ll learn how to take a breakup and spin it upside-down, and use it as POSITIVE leverage to getting him back and more in love with you than ever.
Going through this program is like going from a pitch black room to having the lights suddenly turn ON… Suddenly knowing exactly what to do is GLARINGLY OBVIOUS.
You’re going to find out EXACTLY what he’s thinking, what he really wants and needs from you, and best of all you’re going to feel INSPIRED knowing EXACTLY what steps to take to get your man in love with you again once and for all.
You’re also going to find out how to earn his trust to where he’s openly communicating with you and respect so that he never walks on your feelings or hurts you. And most importantly you’re going to learn how to create a more fulfilling relationship.
This is the program I wish many of my ex-girlfriends had, but sadly in the past nothing like this was available. Thankfully today, you don’t have to live in the dark anymore about YOUR situation.
As you can see, this priceless and powerful program will show you EXACTLY what you need to do in ANY breakup situation imaginable, no matter how complicated, “messed up” or beyond repair your situation seems.
This is something that I wish was around a long time ago, but this is the first time a product like this has ever been offered.
And trust me, I’ve seen some pretty messed up circumstances!
What I’ve come to learn is that no matter how specific, “different” or beyond repair the circumstances of a breakup are, there are ALWAYS fundamental core issues at the root of the problem that can be fixed.
If you want to get rid of a weed in your garden, you always go to the roots of the weed. If you continue ripping the weed out, but the roots stay in the soil, you’ll never get rid of the problem.
The question that must be on your mind by now is:
“Where’s the proof?”
To be honest, the amount of proof backing this program would take me days to talk about with you.
So instead I’m going to share several stories with you with women who got their man back and more in love than ever using the powerful material contained in this program.
I asked them to send in their stories and here’s what they had to say…
As you can see, the proof is pretty great.
I get emails, success emails like these every day from women who have used the material “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back” to get their boyfriend running back and falling in love all over again.
I chose these particular stories to demonstrate both the flexibility of this program and the power of it in both pretty bad and unique situations.
It’s sad to know that most women will never know this information and will go through heartbreak after heartbreak.
But luckily, it doesn’t have to be that way for you.
By now, of course, there’s one question that might be screaming out in your head.
And you’d be right to ask.
The only way for you to truly know if for you to try my program and find out how great it is for yourself.
And that’s why I’ve first offered you a sample audio clip of the program, and secondly I’m going to offer you a guarantee that you can’t refused with all of the risk on me…
I want you to know for sure without any doubt that this program is for you and your personal situation, so I’m going to get detailed here.
Firstly, if you don’t fit into anyone of these categories, than this program probably isn’t for you:
If your man is keeping constant contact with you and is telling you directly that he wants to work things out with you, then this program may help you a little, but probably isn’t completely for you.
If he is saying things like “I don’t know why I left, I love you”, then this program is probably not for you.
If your man has come back to you and has STAYED back with you with no indication that he wants other things… and you’re not going through a cycle of breaking up and getting back together, this program probably isn’t for you.
However, there are certain situation in breakups that seem to feel like gut wrenching agony over the loss of control with someone you deeply love and care about.
Read through the list below, and if you find yourself agreeing with any of one these, then I highly recommend you download this program now.
However, if while you’re reading you find yourself agreeing with more than one of these, this program will save your life.
The bottom line is if you need this program, you just know it.
Once you learn how to first become the woman he can’t stand to be without, and then understand the right way to DEMONSTRATE that to him, he almost won’t have any choice BUT to come running back to you.
He WANTS to be with you, you just need to demonstrate to him that you’ve change and do it the right way before time runs out.
Before you decide whether this program is for you or not, I want to show you why this program is different than everything else you’ve seen on this topic.
Reason #1: It’s the first time an audio program has been created SPECIFICALLY to help women get their boyfriend back.
Sure there are a lot of “breakup” or “get your ex back” books and programs out there, but almost none of them are design to help a woman naturally get a man back, and none of them are in audio format either.
Most of these books and programs are made by “generalists” and not made specifically for women.
They’re made as “get your ex” rather than “get your ex-boyfriend“, and what’s extremely important to understand is male psychology is very different from female, and those broad unspecific programs can land you in a lot of trouble if you’re not addressing his thoughts and concerns as a man, and I’ve seen it happen before.
I personally guarantee you that you will not even come CLOSE to finding anything available like this program.
Let’s face it, we’ve all wanted to use the shortcut “trick” to get someone we love to do what we want (and I’m not saying there’s nothing like this lined up in this program).
The problem is, “dirty tricks” alone never truly get us what we want, because they never go to the ROOT of the problem.
It’s the very same thing with weeds.
A great “trick” to get rid of a weed is just to rip it out of the ground. The only problem is in a few short days the problem weed is going to sprout up again.
That’s because the root of the problem was left completely untouched, and it’s exactly the same with a breakup.
You may get a man back using tricks, MAYBE, but even when you get him back, you’re not going keep him around for very long, even if you think you just want the trick to get him back so you can fix the problem.
I’ve seen this happen many times.
You MUST address the roots to get what you really want.
That’s why this program addresses the ROOTS and uproots the problems you’re going through with this man at the very core.
I always say that if you want something, go to someone who has what you want.
If you want to get a man back, you need to go to man for help. Period.
You wouldn’t necessarily want to learn from a makeup artist how to smog your car…
I am a MAN and I’ve had tons of experience working with women, coaching women, and especially dating women.
This program is design with one outcome in mind, to get you back into a loving long-term relationship with the man you love. That’s it.
And when you use the tools in this program, that will be your outcome too.
One thing I’ve learned over the years is it’s hard to learn with words alone.
When you’re listening to me teach my system, you’ll instantly learn that it’s easier to learn, you can hear the tonality of my voice and you make no effort at all. Listening is the easiest mode of learning because it’s the most relaxed.
Here’s a reality check for you. Most men are very frustrated with the women that they get into relationships with.
If you listen to a group of married guys, the conversation inevitably turns to their wives and how they’re “in the dog house”.
And they do NOT say it because they feel bad. They say it because they’re frustrated with who the woman has TURNED INTO.
Here’s something that’s going to make or break your success with getting your man back: if you want him back, you must become the woman he wants. You must become a real woman. Tricks are *cute* at first, but they’re not going to keep him around.
If you want to get him back and have things LAST, you must learn how to become an attractive woman from the inside out and then know how to DEMONSTRATE it without triggering his alarm bells.
Once you master the material in “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back”, you will understand exactly what he is looking for in a woman… and you will feel confident and self-assured knowing that he’s thinking about YOU instead of other women and wants to be with only you.
I’d like to ask you…
What is having the love of your life, your one and only, back in your arms again right now this second worth to you?
Could you even put a price on it?
Would you give $5,000 to wake up tomorrow morning wrapped in his arms, looking deeply into your eyes and softly saying “I love YOU” and meaning EVERY word?
The fact is an experience like that is priceless.
What if he simply kissed you slowly one more time with every fiber of his being… as if it were the first time he ever met you, with that intensity, that passion… and he was enjoying it because it was with YOU.
Would $1,000 be worth it just to start to see that experience happen again?
The answer is a HELL YES.
What price would you put on getting your LIFE back and never again feeling the agony of having the man you love walk out on you when you KNOW it’s wasn’t supposed to be that way.
Maybe all of this is worth a new outfit, or perhaps a new pair of designer shoes.
With some women I help going through breakups, they go through sometimes up to five or more one-hundred twenty dollar phone coaching sessions before they start seeing the results with their own eyes that their man was coming back and desiring them again.
That’s $600, and to them and was it worth it? The answer is it was worth EVERY penny.
But of course this won’t cost you $5,000, $1,000, or even $600.
Because I want you to have the opportunity to benefit from using this program and make this decision as easy as possible for you to make, I’ve included everything you need to know and more in “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back” and have decided to price this program at the reduced price of 1 easy payment of $99.85 or 5 easy monthly payments of $19.97.
And better yet, to easy your mind I’m going to let you try this program with all the risk on ME…
I’m 100% confident that the information contained in this program will help make your man come back to you, want to be in a relationship again and want to stay.
I know that it’s going to help transform this crazy situation you’re going through and guide you into being the most desirable woman he knows.
And I’m so confident about this that here’s what I’m going to do.
I’ve gone ahead and made this a RISK-FREE offer for you to try for a whole thirty days at MY risk.
That means you can try “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back” out and if you didn’t find it was for you, or the information wasn’t useful, I’ll give you your money back no questions asked.
The fact is, you must take action, and the sooner the better.
I believe in this program works and I stand behind it. I’ve seen this program work in “irreversible” circumstances and I know it will help you too.
I believe you won’t find a more complete “get your ex back how-to guide”.
Listen to this program from beginning to end, then start to focus on the parts that you need to focus the most. You will see results… and he will notice.
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Realistically, I can’t promise you that your man will come running back to you an hour after you purchase this program.
It has happened before (in certain cases) where a woman uses this material and gets her man back the same day, but each situation is unique. It will take longer or shorter depending on the unique nature of your situation.
However, with the knowledge in this program, I promise that you are going to get your ex-boyfriend back as quickly as the situation will allow… instead unknowingly putting roadblocks in the way of yourself that will draw out the situation even longer. And you are going to feel like a brand new happy woman.
And you won’t have to wait long, because very rapidly you’ll start to see 6 major improvements. You are going to notice:
And there’s something else you’re going to see too.
I can’t say exactly when, but I know you WILL see it down the road. It may happen as soon as you finish the program, or it may happen a little later on.
But you are going to see…
It’s your dream come true because you’ll see exciting changes happen in your life, but you’ll pinch yourself because you won’t quite believe it’s happening.
When it happens… you suddenly find yourself awe struck at what is happening to you in your life. You stop what you’re doing. You all of a sudden notice that the vice that has been clenched around your heart is gone. And cry out of joy.
Why? For this many reasons.
First, any doubts or skepticism you have about getting your man being completely in love with you disappear.
And second, for perhaps the very first time in your life, you see an incredibly bright future full of love and happiness and lacking any negativity unfolding in front of you.
The dream may come true when your phone starts ringing, and you look at the caller ID and see that he is calling YOU and wants to talk to YOU… and he wants to make up with you and be with you again.
Or maybe it will happen when your at lunch with the girls… and the entire conversation at lunch is them probing for information on how you got back the love of your life… because they just aren’t used to seeing you have that much power and control with men and are happy for you… but secretly jealous.
Or maybe you’ll realize it when you’re out at dinner with him at your favorite place… and he looks over at you with that smile and those eyes that say in a thousand and one ways that he loves YOU and only you.
You’re one of the few people in the world who has gotten what they truly want. And the love, joy and colors in your life are brighter and more wonderful than they ever have been. No one else sees it happening, or the abundance of love and ease with your man that is taking place…
Or perhaps when you wake up in the morning with his arms wrapped around you… and all he wants to do all morning (or a day) long is hold you in his arms… that says YOU are the only woman in the entire world for him. Maybe that’s when you’ll realize it…
I want you to experience your dream, and turn this situation you’re in into the exciting love affair it’s supposed to be.
And now it’s only up to you to make it happen…
Make the decision right now to give yourself the amazing gift of love and happiness… with the man that you love and belong with.
Don’t wait until your window of opportunity has slammed shut.
The more I talk to women in breakup situation, the more I realize that there’s a direct connection to the amount of time you wait to ACT and the likelihood you’ll get your man back.
I’ve seen too many good hearted women like yourself miss their opportunity to get their man back simply because they waited too long.
Make your chances as HIGH as you can possibly get them to getting him back.
Whatever path you take to getting your man back, you’re going to need as high of chances and as much luck as possible, so I’m wishing you the best of luck.
Thank you for reading and I’ll talk to you again soon and good luck.
P.S. Don’t wait until it’s too late. Now is the time to stop being depressed or confused, and to take the power back into your own hands and take action now… before the man you love gets too far out of reach. The sooner you act and begin putting the right strategies into place, the sooner you’ll get the love of your life back in your arms, and KEEP him there for good. I can’t tell you how many women I’ve seen lose the man the love for good after a breakup simply because they didn’t take the right action at the right time… and I also can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this material bring the man they love back to them after a breakup.
P.P.S. I know that after going through this material, you’re going to wake up with your boyfriend’s arms wrapped around you again. You’re going to look into his eyes and see that smile for you again. You’re going to feel the love coming off of him towards you and only you again. Or you can decide that it’s time to move on and possibly start a new relationship, or begin dating again. The choice is yours. But whatever you choose for yourself, know that you HAVE a choice.
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