4 Essential Secrets To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back In Your Arms That He's Keeping From You

Even If He Rejected You Or Has A New Woman

“He broke up with me and I want to know how to win him back and get my boyfriend back fast!”

I get hundreds of emails like this every week from devastated women wanting to know how to get their ex-boyfriends back.

If you’re in a breakup with the man you love more than anything, it’s one of the most confusing, painful and aggravating situation you’ve probably ever gone through.

I bet it seems like no matter what you do or how hard you try:

A breakup situation can feel hopeless.

But the million dollar question you’re probably asking is, how do you get your ex-boyfriend back fast after a breakup?

Well, the good news is:

There IS a way you can get him back in your arms again - even if you "screwed up" bad.

This is true even if he has moved on with a new girlfriend or is dating someone new.

This may sound “impossible”.

You don’t have to believe me yet. 

I just ask: be a little curious about what you may learn today.

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I’ve spent more than ten years teaching women around the world to successfully get their ex boyfriends back. 

I have seen thousands of women gain knowledge that opened the door to getting their ex boyfriends back.

I’ve spent years researching the psychology behind breakups, why men leave relationships, why they choose certain women and not others, and what you can do to make your man come crawling back for a relationship again… 

Even if you’ve made big mistakes.

If he's Acting Cold, Then He's Probably Trying To Move On

I need to tell you something...

I want to show you how to get your boyfriend back into a relationship as fast as possible.

But I won’t “B.S.” or console too much.

Look, I know you’re in a tremendous amount of pain and confusion in this time in your life.

But regardless of what’s happened with him up to now, you and I must focus on getting you back into a relationship with him and wrapped in his warm arms.

No matter how much you whine, “He broke up with me and I want him back!” don’t expect me to coddle you!


But seriously, that’s a promise.

Why It's Not Your Fault He Left & Won't Come Back

Have you been fighting with yourself about whether you should try to get him back or move on like your friends may be telling you?

The fact is, it’s not your fault he left.

In fact, there are many factors that contribute to a breakup that have nothing to do with you, no matter how much you feel responsible.

You might be thinking, “Hang on. How do you know that? I did plenty to screw up my relationship!”

Most women think their breakup is so unique and broken that nothing will fix it.

But to answer your question, I know your not to blame because I’ve seen a thousand and one other breakups just like yours.

And I know you’re in a volatile emotional state and are blaming yourself for everything.

I’m the one with the clear eyes, remember?

And the fact is, it’s easier than you think to make him feel a “spark” and want to be your boyfriend again… even if he said “I don’t love you anymore”. 

But the thing is, you must change your approach to avoid keeping on getting the same coldness from him that you’ve been getting.

You’re an intelligent, driven woman with admirable qualities because you’re here seeking answers.

He could just as easily choose you again if you know how to demonstrate qualities he wants in a woman while avoiding ones he doesn’t.


Men experience love in a completely different way than woman.

When you have the right knowledge about men, your actions will flow effortlessly.

The reason, by the way, why men say things like “I don’t love you anymore” or “I love you as a friend” has nothing to do with how he really feels.

This is his logic speaking.

And what we want to do is target his EMOTIONS instead and catch him off guard about the feelings he remember he has for you.

But you must avoid the common “traps” most women fall into that stop men from coming back… and what to do to spark his interest.

The secrets I’m about to share with you are powerful, so please use them carefully.

Secret #1: "Convincing" Him To Come Back Will Actually Push Him Away

Here’s a widely misunderstood fact about male psychology… especially in breakups.

Most men crave challenge. 

It’s a deep and powerful desire to stems from his very core.

After years of studying male psychology, I’ve discovered that on a subconscious level, men never wants to “win” completely.


Men VALUE that which is harder to get.

If you look at what men DO rather than what they say, you’ll see that men don’t respond emotionally to women who don’t challenge him.

If you’re not challenging him and instead of constantly trying to “convince” him to come back and that things will be different, he’s likely to lose interest. 

That’s because he’s already told himself he doesn’t want to be with you.

Here's what he REALLY wants...

He wants the chase, the mystery, the excitement.

This is one reason why he wants to “freedom” now.

You properly plant a seed of mystery in his mind about you.

If he knows you can’t live without him, then you’re letting him feel COMPLACENT.

If you start to become slightly less available to him in the RIGHT way, you will see a BIG shift happen in his attitude towards you.

BUT here’s the BIG MISTAKE most women make…

If you do what most women do and play “hard to get” or try to make him jealous you could wind up pushing him away completely.

That’s because men only respond to healthy challenge… not manipulation.

Most women find that when they play hard to get or post a photo of themselves out partying, it makes their ex back off even more.

That’s because you trigger his EGO.

Then he’ll push you away, and a “cold war” could ensue.

What you REALLY want is to know how to challenge him on the level of the HEART.

In my free 27 page “Ex Boyfriend Psychology” report you’ll learn the “how to’s” of challenging him perfectly.

Secret #2: Become Unpredictable

Men get cold, distant and resistant to coming back when they know what’s going to happen.

If he knows what your next move is, he’ll get bored, uninterested and cold.


Let me ask you a question.

Why do you think he got into a relationship with you in the first place? 

Was it to become bored?

No. It was because he felt that you were a wild, unpredictable feminine energy in his life.

Beauty is skin deep! 

He fell in love with your energy.

He was hoping you’d bring adventure, excitement and unpredictability into his logical, masculine world.

But towards the end of the relationship and subsequent breakup, you became predictable by becoming needy and overly-emotional.

This is predictable because MOST WOMEN hold these energies.

But knowing how to be unpredictable can create a psychological OBSESSION about you in his mind.

That’s because you’re acting differently and he doesn’t know what’s going to happen.

This is extremely exhilarating to men…. and often why men get with “psycho” women.

Those relationships never last, but the initial attraction is BIG regardless of what men SAY.

What you must know is how to be unpredictable in a positive way in this breakup. 

That’s what my free “Ex-Boyfriend Psychology” report will show you how to do.

Secret #3: Telling Him Your Feelings Will kill attraction... & what to do instead

A HUGE mistake you may be making with your ex boyfriend is trying to establish the same level of intimacy you had before the breakup.

When you were together, you probably told him all of your feelings, what happened in your day and your favorite breeds of hamster.

And I bet you’ve been telling him how much you miss him, how hurt you are and how much you want to be together again hoping it will change his mind.

Look, I know you love him with all your heart and want to be with him forever.

You DESERVE to be with the man you love.

The problem is on an EMOTIONAL level, telling him those things right now is a level of intimacy he wants to avoid.

He may be a great guy, but you want to avoid making him feel bad for you

This doesn’t inspire his attraction

In fact, it does the opposite causing him to lose attraction for you.

Look, men don’t want a needy, desperate girlfriend. 

He wants a woman who INSPIRES him.

And you start by doing that by making him uncertain of your feelings.

You must know how to properly give him a feeling of uncertainty about your feelings – WITHOUT going too far – to get him wrapping his ams around you again.

It’s not difficult with the tools I will show you in my free “Ex-Boyfriend Psychology” report.

Secret #4: Being Needy Is Pushing Him Out Of Your Life - Here's Why

One thing that can make a man resistant to coming back is needing him badly and showing it to him… ESPECIALLY if he broke up with you.

If you have a scarcity mentality and believe your life won’t work out unless you have him, you’re not likely to get him back in your arms.

Listen, I get it.

Right now, you’re probably sh*t scared of losing him completely and fears are running through your head like…

But you must start thinking positively.

And you’ll think positive when you know you’re taking RIGHT steps to get him back instead of making huge mistakes like most women.

When he sees that you’re relaxed and confident in your future and you know you deserve love, he will start trying to get YOUR attention instead.

This happens in two ways.

a. When you talk with him, you're now relaxed, happy and carefree... instead of tense, worried or afraid.

Guys have a “sixth sense” about a woman’s “energy” in a breakup… even if her words contradict it.

When you avoid fear and get spontaneous, unpredictable, happy, light-hearted, feminine again, you send him clear signals that you’re the woman for him.

b. You allow him to truly rethink his feelings about you.

He probably hasn’t thought about things AT ALL yet if you have been forcing him to think about you and the relationship.

Maybe it’s not even anything you said directly. But your “energy” is saying it loud and clear.

The more you have “I miss him so much” on your mind, the more you’ll stop him from truly rethinking things.

Instead, he will become stubborn about his decision to breakup.

It’s like asking your boss for a raise over and over again until she/he shuts down and avoids you at the water cooler.

It becomes a reflex. The doesn’t think about WHY he’s avoiding you. He just does.

The reality is, you get the raise indirectly by being good at your job and accomplishing goals.

So, how does that relate to your ex?

Well there’s a lot you must must understand about his psychology and emotions to win him back.

That’s why I’ve created a free 27 page report for you called “Ex-Boyfriend Psychology” report that I’d like to send to you. 

Inside, you’ll learn many “secrets” about your man that unfortunately most women will never know & other “experts” won’t tell you.

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