Brandon Martin
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4 Expert Secrets to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Quickly & Effectively

“My boyfriend broke up with me and I want him back!”

A breakup with the man you love is one of the most confusing, frustrating and devastating situation a woman can go through.

It seems like no matter what you do or how hard you try, you can’t get your ex-boyfriend back.

He seems to have lost the feelings he once had for you and there’s no chance of getting it back.

This type of situation can APPEAR hopeless.

But there is GOOD news – there is a way you can get him running back to you in a heartbeat.

I’ve spent more than 10 years coaching thousands of women from all around the world to successfully get their ex-boyfriends back. I have shared my expert knowledge with numerous women about how to get an ex boyfriend back.

I’ve researched the psychology behind breakups, why men leave relationships, why men choose certain women and not others, and what a woman can do to make her ex thirst for a relationship again… even if she’s really screwed up in her situation.

I spend my life coaching women in their relationships, dating and breakups and give them the “key” to lasting love with men.

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I need to tell you something right now...

I don’t “B.S.” or console too much about how hard it must be.

Regardless of however much you whine, “my boyfriend broke up with me and I want him back,” don’t expect me to coddle you.

We both already know you’re in a heart-wrenching situation and you need help badly.

We need to get down to business and talk about exactly what you need to do to get your ex-boyfriend back.

We need to get down to business and talk about exactly what you need to do to get your ex-boyfriend back.

Sound good?


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  • Why men really leave relationships and 7 big mistakes women make after a breakup
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  • How to make him want you as badly as you want him
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The fact is that it is possible to get him running back to you.


It’s easier than you may believe to make him feel that “spark” again and want to be with you… even after he’s said something as brutal as “I don’t love you anymore”.


I’ve seen it happen with my own eyes many, many times… often in not normal circumstances.

You just have to change your approach to your situation.


You must understand and accept that at some level, you’re valuable enough for him to have once chosen to be with you.

And you’re an intelligent, driven woman with admirable qualities because you’re here seeking answers from people with different perspectives to yours and your friends to achieve your goal of getting your ex back.

And he could just as easily choose you again if you demonstrate the right qualities.

So with that in mind, it’s completely possible to get your ex boyfriend back if you know how to do it.


Men experience love in a completely different way than you do as a woman.

It’s important to learn what your ex-boyfriend wants and what causes him to fall in love – that’s how you get him running back to you.

This misunderstanding is the source of all of your pain and frustration right now.

When you have the right understanding and knowledge, your actions will follow automatically.

The reason, by the way, why men say things like “I don’t love you anymore” or “I don’t want a relationship with you” has nothing to do with how he really feels.

This is his logic speaking.


But if you can target his EMOTIONS instead, you can surprise even him about how his feelings for you.


You have to avoid the “traps” that most women fall into that prevent men from coming back after a breakup, and you also have to know what to do to spark his interest again.


These techniques I’m about to share with you about how to get your guy back are very powerful, so please use them carefully.


Most importantly of all, if you actually want to stand any chance of getting your ex-boyfriend back in your arms again one day, you have to take your level commitment from interested to committed to doing whatever it takes to bring him back.


You won’t get far with a half-hearted effort.


Let’s get into it.

Men experience love in a completely different way than you do as a woman.

1. Target His Subconscious Desires

Men subconsciously desire challenge, and it’s such a deep and powerful process that it goes below his awareness into his subconscious mind.


After years of studying psychology, I’ve found that on some deep subconscious level, he never wants to “win” completely. He always subconsciously wants some sort of gap.




It’s basic male psychology that men VALUE that which is harder to achieve.


If you ask a man directly if this is true, he may tell you “no”.


Many men believe that they want an easy, relaxed life, and while there’s nothing wrong with having a relaxed life, men don’t always respond to a woman who he doesn’t have to do much to achieve.


That’s his LOGICAL side talking, not his emotional side… and if you watch what men SAY they want and what they ACTUALLY respond to, you will find two very different things.


If he knows that he has you completely, he’s very likely to immediately lose interested, ESPECIALLY in a breakup situation because he’s already decided he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

Here's what he REALLY wants...

He wants the chase, the mystery, the excitement.


That’s why it’s important to plant the seed of doubt in his mind.

When he knows that you want you him and you can’t live without him, there is no challenge or mystery left.


Not only that, but you’re also allowing him to feel COMFORTABLE with the breakup.


It’s much easier for him to leave when he knows that you can’t live life normally without him.


If you begin to become slightly less available to him, you will start noticing a BIG difference in his attitude towards you.


BUT… you have to pull it off in the RIGHT way or you could end up hurting the situation, and add to the fact that it can be tricky to pull this off in a breakup situation given the fact that you two probably have much more limited contact now.


In my free “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” eLetter I’m going to help you with the details of the “how to’s” of how to pull this off correctly.

2. Be Unpredictable In A Breakup

Men become bored, passionless and “commitment-phobic” when they know what’s going to happen.


Just the opposite is true.



When a man doesn’t know what a woman’s next move will be, he becomes alive, alert and suddenly drawn in.

Why do you think guys wish to bring women into their lives in the first place? Am I right?



A man brings a woman into his life in the hopes that she will bring adventure, excitement and unpredictability into his life (if you don’t feel like you have these qualities, don’t worry it’s very easy to create this).



In the context of this breakup, being unpredictable can create a sort of OBSESSION around you in his mind.


That’s because he doesn’t know where you are, what you’re doing, if you like him or don’t like him, and you’re acting differently than he’s used to.



Psychologically speaking, men become obsessive about something when it’s unpredictable and they can’t control it.



But you must understand how much is needed for your situation. Too much and you can upset him, not enough and you won’t spark any fire in him.



You must find the BALANCE – that’s how you get him running back to you.



Again, that’s what my “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” eLetter helps you do.

3. Make Him Uncertain Of Your Feelings

One of the biggest mistakes most women make with getting their ex-boyfriend back is letting you know that YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM…


Now listen, I know that you love him. And I know you want to be with him, and you DESERVE to be with the man you love.


The problem is on an EMOTIONAL level, telling him you want to be with him gives him a sense of COMFORT for breaking up with.


Please read the above sentence again so it really sinks in… I’ll wait….


He may be a great guy, but even so in the back of his mind he knows he’s always got you in his back pocket if things don’t work out for him so he’s free to move as far away from you as he wants.


It’s essential if you want your man back to take this feeling of comfort away.


You have to give him a feeling of uncertainty to get him running back to you.


And it’s not difficult with the tools I will give you in my “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” eLetter.

4. He Wants A Girlfriend Who Is Non-Needy

One of the most attractive traits you can possess is truly not needing a man… ESPECIALLY if a man has broken up with you.


When you have an abundance mentality, you’re unafraid of losing him, and you have a positive mentality that things WILL work out for you in the future, that’s when you will be MOST LIKELY to get this man.


It’s this attitude that captivates his interest.


Right now, you’re probably very afraid of losing him and all sorts of fears are running through your head…

For example…

  • "Does he still love me?"
  • "Is he going to find someone else?
  • "Am I going to be alone forever?"

You must do yourself a favor and stop thinking in this way and think more POSITIVELY.


When he starts to get the feeling that you could take him or leave him, and he starts getting the sense from you that you know you deserve love and you can have someone very special, he will start trying to get YOUR attention instead of the other way around.


Your attitude trickles into your actions:

a. In all of your interactions with him you're now relaxed, happy and carefree... instead of tense, worried and holding on.

Men are attuned to female energy.


On a subconscious level, we INSTANTLY recognize a woman’s energy… even if her words contradict it.


If you want to stand any chance of getting this man back, you must be spontaneous, unpredictable, happy, light-hearted, feminine and have a sense of humor.


You can’t be those things if you are afraid to lose him and are attached to the outcome. You might even end up losing him.

b. You're allowing him to truly rethink things.

At this point, I’m willing to bet he hasn’t thought about things AT ALL.


You’ve sort of pressured him too much to think about the relationship. Perhaps not even with anything you’ve said directly, but your “energy” has said it for you.


The more you have “relationship” on your mind, the more you’re going to stop him from truly rethinking things.

Instead he will leap to conclusions and become stubborn about his decisions.


It’s the same thing when a child asks for a toy over and over again and the parent keeps saying “no” over and over again.


Soon all the child has to say is “can I-” and the parent shouts “ugh, No!”


It becomes a reflex. The parent isn’t even thinking about WHY they are saying “no” anymore.


The child will get the toy INDIRECTLY by being good and accomplishing goals.


Just how you will get the relationship back by going about it indirectly by exhibiting all of those qualities I mentioned above… But not directly.


So you might be thinking “HOW do I show him all of this?”.


That is what my best-selling audio program “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back” is for.


Inside, I show exactly what to do in each breakup situation (no matter how unique the situation appears on the surface, there are only about 9 situations all breakups fall into) and how to get your guy back.

There are root causes that all breakups fit into, and I go through each of those situations in detail and show you exactly what to do to get him back, including (but not limited to):

  • Long Term Relationships (4 months +)
  • Short Term Relationships (Less than 4 months)
  • Marriage and Divorce
  • Long Distance Relationships
  • Issues with cheating, jealousy and flirting
  • and much more...

My eLetter is completely free, and inside I will show you strategies and insights into your breakup that you won’t get anywhere else that will get you results with getting your man back.


I will illustrate how you can get him running back to you and falling head over heels in love with you again.

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Inside you will learn these secrets about how to get your ex boyfriend back...

  • Why men really leave relationships
  • 7 BIG MISTAKES most women make after a breakup
  • 2 SECRETS that will cause him to come running back to you
  • Turning The Tables: Make him want you as badly as you want him
  • How to make him REMEMBER his loving feelings for you

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Learn Brandon's Advice For How Communication In Relationships With Men Works

The “Great Wall of China” has nothing on the wall a man can surround himself with when it comes to communication in relationships.


Why is it so difficult to communicate with a man in a relationship… on a psychological, emotional and even physical level?


How do you get him to listen to your feelings? And get him telling you his feelings and connect on a deeper, spiritual, “us against the world” level?


Are most men just broken in this department?

The answer is… not most.

But seriously…

Most men are perfectly capable of communicating, opening up and sharing an emotional connection in a relationship… they just end up not wanting to.

Confused yet?

One reason why relationship communication stops (or never starts) has a lot to do with a man’s past relationship experiences.

But there’s another special thing most women fail to make happen when creating communication lines with a man. We’ll talk about that in a second.


Here’s the reality if your man is not communicating in your relationship. 


If he is not communicating and opening up with you, you could lose him.


It has little to do with something going on outside of the relationship.  


It’s not because of his job or his friends or family or anything else going on in his life.

Limited or no communication in a relationship is a symptom of a deeper problem.

Usually when a man is not open or communicating in a relationship, it’s a sign of something going on inside the relationship.

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Nine times out of ten it has to with this special ingredient that most women don’t know how to create in a relationship.

That ingredient is emotional trust.


When I say “trust”, I don’t mean your fidelity.


The literal translation of the word trust is reliance on the integrity, strength, ability of a person or thing (pulled from


Now, let me ask you a few questions, and try to be really honest with yourself.


Do you ever get overly-emotional, upset or needy with him?


Have you ever demanded things of him?


Do you feel the desire to control your relationship… that things will fall apart if you don’t?


Can you truly say that your man feels a deep sense of reliability in your integrity, strength and ability to handle him?


Does he honestly believe that he could reveal his deepest darkest secrets to you and nothing would happen to the relationship except that a deeper connection would form with you?


These are tough questions to answers.


We both know that you would absolutely, without thought, be his “rock”, but does he know that?


Communication in relationships goes both way.


Chances are, if he’s not communicating with you in the relationship, then the answer is “no”.


Where most women go wrong is assuming that he “should” just know that because she loves him.


But more often than not, men are not what you would call “mind readers”.


And they’re usually not relationship communication experts either…

In fact, most men can be a pretty dense.


Truth is, most women never learn HOW to communicate in relationships or demonstrate their trustworthiness to a man in a way that he understands and opens up.


The way MEN understand communication in relationships is much different than woman.


You have to talk to a man like a man, or he won’t get your messages.

You do that by understanding male psychology, emotions and heart.


If your man isn’t communicating openly in the relationship with you, then it’s time to start building trust with your man (before it’s too late) by understanding his PSYCHOLOGY.


A distant, non-communicative boyfriend is a sign that a relationship is in danger and quick actions is needed.


The question is, how do you make a man trust you so much so that he WANTS to communicate in the relationship openly, and even allowing himself to unleash his “inner dork” with you?


The “trick” is to create an atmosphere of trust with him so that he feels absolutely SAFE being around you.


When your man has a DEEP level of for trust for you, he will open up to you on his own.

When he starts communicating with you, you have to be ready to talk with him the right way so that he continues to open up and even deeper.

If you handle a man’s truth in the wrong way like most women do, you risk slamming the door shut on his communication for good.


No matter how much both you and I know that you’re a trustworthy person deep down, it’s more about communicating this to him in the right way so that he understands.


You must learn how to bridge your “female world” with his male world.

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12 Things A Woman Does That Men Find Irresistible

Follow Brandon's 12 Heart-Centered Tips To Being Irresistible To Men

What makes men feel a woman is psychologically and emotionally irresistible?


Why do many women today experience men suddenly becoming disinterested, pulling away or shutting down… and what can you do about it?

After more than 10 years coaching thousands of women...

And years researching relationship dynamics, I’ve discovered “secrets” about what makes a woman desirable and what men find irresistible, which most experts aren’t talking about.

Secrets that cause a psychic-spiritual “spark” that make men feel irresistibly attracted to a woman.

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Thing is, being irresistible is not what most women think it is: youth, beauty, success or being an independent woman.

What men find irresistible is the ongoing emotional & psychic-spiritual experience a man has with you.

If you’ve had trouble keeping a guy interested, you’re likely either making one or more common mistakes that take from his emotional experience, or you’re not doing enough of the right things to create it.

It’s important that you learn how to be irresistible to men in today’s competitive dating world.

Being in the top 5% of women will change your love life and make men effortless to deal with.

Unless you understand how to be irresistible to men, you’ll likely deal with men losing interest, falling out of love or avoiding commitment. Learn about how to be irresistible to men by reading on!

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 12

The "Energy" All Men Find Irresistible

I've observed this interesting little trap many women fall into...

Many women already believe they know what men find irresistible and what makes a woman desirable.

For example, most women believe men want a young, beautiful girlfriend.

But if this is true, why do we find so many decent guys end up with “average” looking women? Why do men find these women irresistible and not others?

I’ve discovered that most women don’t truly understand male psychology or emotions and what men find irresistible… even when they think they do.

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This can lead to frustration and not getting love or interest from men because a woman is attached to an idea of what you think he wants.

Who could blame women? Men aren’t exactly “open books” about their inner world.

After years talking to guys about women, love and what men find irresistible, I discovered an odd quality that most men instantly respond to…

Men universally find child-like energy irresistibly attractive (not childish energy mind you).


Most women get “burnt out” from their bad past experiences with men.

It’s tough for women in today’s dating climate, and this can cause stress, heartbreak and fear towards men.

Problem is, no matter how much you and I know this, men tend to lack feelings of interest for a woman who is afraid, stressed, or cynical.

Listen closely.

What makes a woman attractive is childlike, playful, innocent energy. This is of the reasons why men will choose one woman over another.

A girl playing on the playground hasn’t been used, betrayed or burdened by stress yet.

She simply plays in the sand, swings on the swings and counts the grains of sand she can hold in her hand. She is alive and living in the now. That’s what men find to be irresistible in women.

I’m always amazed when I see 18-year-old girls who seem like they’re 48, and then when I see 48-year-old women who feel 18.

It’s a matter of learning what “energy” men respond to in a woman and how to make a man feel emotional attraction.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 11

How To Handle His Cold Attitude To Create Trust

What I’ve found after observing thousands of women interact with men is that when men do stupid things like not call/text back or not give attention, many women react emotionally.


Men often do hurtful and brainless things.


Reprimanding them out of spite and hurt can cause men to pull away suddenly, act distant and cold.


Then many women find themselves in frustrating situations where they are:

  • Trying to logically “convince” a guy to feel love
  • Giving him a “taste of his own medicine”
  • Trying to control his behaviors through emotional manipulation

Most men are dense don’t realize when they have hurt you, so these things often cause men to feel like they can’t make that woman happy.


But most men will simply see an emotional woman who they don’t know how to handle, and that scares them.


Men universally crave light-heartedness, humor and relaxation in women … ESPECIALLY when things get rough.


That’s what makes a woman desirable. Unfortunately, this is rare for men to find. Unfortunately, this is rare for men to find.


The combination of humor and light-heartedness is like a billboard mounted to a woman’s forehead that says, “I’m the one”. The combination is what makes a woman desirable to men. If you lead with a sense of humor when things don’t go well, it can instantly turn a situation around and spark emotional, irresistible attraction in men.


If you’re in a situation with a man like this, you need to learn how to reverse this and become irresistible to him before things get worse.


If you’re in a situation with a man like this, you need to  learn how to reverse this and become irresistible to him before things gets worse.

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Inspiring Trust & Respect

When men do stupid things like getting distant, not call/text back or other hurtful things, most women let their emotions build up and lash out.


You and I know many women don’t mean to do this. But something as simple as this makes men start to lose trust, respect and attraction and distance themselves emotionally.


It took me a long time to understand that that emotions scare men and cause them to close up out of fear.


Expressing positive emotions in the right way has the power to get a man literally addicted to you.


has the power to get a man literally addicted to you. Emotional strength and independence are what men find irresistible.


Ultimately, what makes a woman desirable is emotional independence. All men secretly hope to meet a woman who adds emotional value to his life.


It just takes a meaningful readjustment of the way you approach men and relationships to be irresistible to men.

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How to Create Irresistible Comfort With Men

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Let’s face it, many of today’s women have an A.D.D. situation going on… oh hey look a butterfly… er back on track.


But seriously, that can be cute to some guys at first. I find it hilarious and love to make light-hearted fun of women like this. But A.D.D. can turn into impatience, and this can turn into frustration and emotional aggression when things don’t happen fast enough.


What I’m talking about is relaxing more and being more open to going with the flow with him.


This is the same attitude that rockstars have, and rockstars male or female are some of the most irresistible people on the planet.

What makes patience an important quality for a woman to be desirable? Because it’s RARE and sub-communicates confidence and desirability.


Here’s a clue to being irresistible to men that most women will never know.


Men are purpose and goal-oriented. Men value the vision they want to create in life above all else. It could be that he wants to start a family, travel the world, build a business… it could be anything.


The point is when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax with his path. If she does he will literally feel that she completes him.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 8

How Good Body Language Makes You Irresistible

Behavioral psychologists recently found this…

Body language accounts for 55% of all communication between men and women, while vocal tonality accounts for 38%.


If this is true, it means… words are only 7% of all communication.


It’s possible that 93% of the signals we give socially are based on body language and vocal tonality alone.


Many women ask me “what do I say to him to make him want me?”


Instead of focusing on just 7% of communication, I’d like to suggest that you can get more leverage with men by focusing on the other 93%.


Body language is a fascinating subject to me, and I’d like to give you what I consider to be a “magic formula” for body language that subconsciously tells men you’re irresistible and you know it. Learn about body language and how to be irresistible to men:


a. The first part of the puzzle is to lead your body with your hips.


You may have mixed feelings about her (I’m not her biggest fan), but Paris Hilton is a master of this and has irresistible body language.


Walking this way conveys sexuality, confidence and feminine swagger. Simply walking like this can instantly get a respectable guy’s attention.


b. Next, consider arching your lower back to allow tension off your upper-back and shoulders. 


Your shoulders can be sub-communicate many things to men. When you use them correctly, you can emulate what men find irresistible.


Hunching sub-communicates low self-confidence, which is not what many high-quality men look for.


Shoulders should be rolled back a bit as to not hide your chest (no matter the size) and to avoid hunching.


c. Raise your chin.


A chin up in the air conveys self-confidence instantly.


This will also help focus your body to stand straight up, as if you’re laying vertically on a bed.


d. Show those beautiful pearly whites.


What makes a woman desirable is a winning smile.




Because smiling is a display of confidence and self-assuredness.


When you have powerful body language, it’s as close to “magic” as it gets to seeing men respond instantly with irresistible attraction.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 7

Sparking Irresistible Physical Attraction

Are most high-quality guys really looking for “supermodel” good looks?

I’ve learned that most guys are, in fact, not looking for a supermodel.

Physical attraction is created simply by a man seeing that you care about your presentation.

If a man is “talking” to you, it means he’s physically attracted enough to you to be in a relationship with you.

Beauty, healthy hair, good-looking skin, well-done makeup, healthy weight; these are the superficial things men adore.

Where many women get tripped up is believing that external beauty is everything… it is not.

Have you ever stopped to think… what is beauty?


It’s a question I like thinking about.

I believe beauty is the outward expression of femininity. men are attracted to like NOTHING else.

But it’s against femininity to be obsessed with looks, or you become an insecure rollercoaster seeking approval from men. When you chase after validation, you can’t be irresistible.

Here’s what I believe makes a woman desirable:


The fact is inner is just as important as outer.

There is a way to spark internally beautiful to men in a way that makes men respond like crazy.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 6

Create Irresistibly Attractive “Energy” With Him

I know something about you…


You are a goal driven, intelligent woman.


I know because you’re seeking answers to this essential area of life called “love”.


However, many smart women get tripped up thinking too much… usually about the past or worrying about the future.

The problem is, getting stuck in your head kills attraction with men.


A woman who is “here now” is sharp, responsive, alive, witty and keeps a man on his toes.


Men can look into her eyes and see that she is with him here and now and not over-thinking and allow him to fall in love.


A woman who is in the “now” is completely attractive and irresistible to men.


Most men never find this woman, so when she does come, well let’s just say, have you ever heard of those stories about guys proposing after dating for three months?

There is a way to cultivate this aspect of yourself, and I believe you have this ability inside you… you just have to learn how.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 5:

Stop Being “Needy” & Get Passionate Instead

Many smart women fall into this tricky trap….

Confusing neediness for love.

I’ve come to discover that neediness can disguise itself as “love”.

Let me explain…


I think we can agree that true love is when we think about the other person’s happiness before our own.

Neediness is a fixation on how our own needs are not being met.

Love is courageous and feels blissful… while neediness is fear-based and feels painful.

Many guys sense neediness the more time they spend with a girl, which can cause them to slowly pull away.

When a woman starts to get emotionally attached to a guy and hopes that he gives her more love and attention, men often pull away because this is not what men want in a girlfriend. It is far from what makes a woman desirable in their eyes.

What most men find irresistible and want is a woman who LOVES them rather than needs them.

Need is not being able to live without a man, while love is wanting him to be an addition to your life.

A woman who has the confidence to love and desire gets the love from the man she wants. Women who are overly-attached, on the other hand, will find it difficult to acquire the love they want.

It is possible to develop high levels confidence with men – this is what men find irresistible.

If you deal with neediness everyday and want to become confident and free of fear, anxiety, neediness, self-doubt or jealousy, then check out my emotional balancing tips.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 4:

Nurture Him

Most men say they want independence, which is true.

But I’ve found that men secretly want to feel taken care of as well.

To many women this comes naturally. The problem is when men do hurtful things, many women pull back this quality out of fear, insecurity or anger.

The Indian mystic Osho once said “a man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother.” Profound stuff.

Could you imagine what would happen if you were able to make him feel the happiness he once felt in his mother’s womb?

Is it even possible?

There are ways to make him feel this way that I don’t have time to get into now (you can learn more in my products and programs).

It’s a basic female, motherly instinct to nurture.

Most guys do want a tiny bit of mommy in the woman they’re spending their time with.

But because of society, “responsibilities” and the resentment many women subconsciously feel towards men, many women end up losing touch with this part of themselves. Instead, they reprimand their man for not being able to wear the pants in the relationship.

If you’re not nurturing to a man, there’s a good chance that he will feel a level of distrust in your ability to fulfill him emotionally.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 3:

How To Be Irresistible To Men In The Bedroom

There’s no denying it…
Sex is a powerful, emotionally bonding event.


And mastering the bedroom can trigger a man’s heart to open up to you and massively change how a man feels about you.

Many magazines come out with “tricks” for the bedroom.


But there’s something simpler and more effective you can do to be irresistible to men in the bedroom.


It comes down to this…


You must know how to create a relaxed environment in the bedroom. Most women create tensed environment in the bedroom by worrying about how they look or if they’re “pleasing” him.


That all you need to start making men feel irresistibly in love and attracted to you in the bedroom.


This simple shift can cause a man to feel that you are different from other girls. It’s easier than you might think to master the bedroom with men, you just have to know how and then act.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 2:

Be An Expression Of Love

There are women who live in fear, and women who live in love.


In my experience, most women live in constant fear of:

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  • Fear being left
  • Not being loved
  • Heartbreak
  • Getting Used
  • Being cheated on/used
  • Dying alone

The list goes on.


Fear can kill a man’s attraction because men are universally drawn to women who live in love, positivity, joy, creativity.


Unfortunately, most women live in constant worry, self-judgment, guilt or anxiety due to not knowing how to get what they want from men.

On the other hand, what makes a woman desirable is choosing to love over fear. When you base your actions with men off of love-based thoughts, you act in ways that attract love from men.


A woman who sees dance, celebration and music wherever she goes is one of the most desirable qualities a woman can have.


Love is, in fact, the most powerful energy in the universe.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret 1:

Be Irresistible To Men By Having Integrity

I’d like to ask you an obvious yet powerful question…


Why do so many women fail to make men irresistibly attracted to them?


Some women would say a lack of confidence or not being pretty enough.


Well, the truth I’ve found after coaching women around the world for over 10 years is most women aren’t irresistible to guys because they lack integrity.


Unfortunately, many women simply do whatever they think will get them the results they want… even if that means dishonest behavior or games.


Ironically, this is exactly what robs women of their power with men.


Some women feel “entitled” to act this way because of how they have been badly and unfairly treated by men in the past.


What makes a woman desirable is having admirable love-centered values.


When a man knows a woman can be swayed to dishonesty to get what she wants, he will lose trust and may leave because he knows one day, it may be him at the business end of her sword.


A woman who stands up for love and won’t play games is a beacon of light to men.


This can and often does inspire men out of their own B.S.

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