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The holidays are often a time that breaks relationships.

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These pitfalls often lead to strained relationship and even often breakups.

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Learn Male Psychology Secrets from Brandon Martin, Author of "Relationship Goddess"

I get hundreds of emails a day from women asking me about male psychology in relationships and dating.

There’s no doubt about it…

The psychology of women when it comes to relationships and dating is complicated and confuses most women… from meeting, to starting a connection, falling in love, to staying in love.

As much as women know what they know about men, most women don’t understand male psychology when it comes to situations about love and dating… or why men do things like pull away or lose interest.

Many women want to know how to increase a man’s psychological attraction and love so she can enjoy the ecstasy of love.

But I’ve found that many women fail to reach this goal because they believe they already understand male psychology – especially when it comes to dating and love.

So today, I’m going to share with you two secrets about the psychology of men and falling in love. I will demystify men and make men EASY to interact with. But I ask that you keep an open mind as you read.

You will learn the basics of psychology – what drives men, how they start falling in love, how to make them stay, and how to control your interactions with a man.

If you’re like many of the thousands of women I’ve coached over the years, you want to know how to:

  • Spark more interest and attraction from men
  • Make a man fall in love or STAY in love
  • Stop men from being "hot and cold" and non-commital while dating
  • Inspire men to give more attention, affection

So, let’s jump right in.

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Inside you will learn....

  • Inside the male mind & sparking LOVE
  • 3 MISTAKES that make men pull away
  • Why men quit giving AFFECTION
  • How to get his mind OBSESSED with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 2 qualities that tell men you're "the one"
  • 6 SECRETS that inspire men to open up

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Male Psychology Secret 1: The Psychology of Men Falling in Love

I’ve discovered that men fall in love with women for very different reasons than most women think.

The obvious truth is...

Men fall in love for different reasons than women fall in love.

The male psychology about love is different from female psychology. Most men split women into two categories in their mind.

1. Women who they would consider falling in love with

2. Every other woman

So, what causes men to want to date certain women and avoid others?

Here's what most guys want but will never tell you...

The biggest difference between female and male psychology when it comes to dating is that most women fall for a man’s masculine qualities, like confidence, strength or dependability.

But most men fall for a woman’s feminine qualities, like softness, open-heartedness and even dorkiness.

Most of today’s women have an overabundance of masculine qualities, like leadership, control and independence.

Women today are independent minded and spend a lot of time studying, working, and securing a future.

In the public eye, most will tell you that these are good qualities for a relationship and men “should” like them.

But the reality is, what most people SAY men should want, and what men respond to emotionally are two different things.

Psychology, emotions and millions of years of evolution don’t care about what society says “should” be right.

Here's the trick...

If you learn to increase what I call “Yin feminine” energy, you can become addictive to men on a psychological level.

The great news is, any woman can learn how to do this.

It doesn’t matter how men (or a specific man) have seen you in the past.

With your understanding of male psychology about dating, you can change how men perceive you today and make a man fall deeply in love with you – if you start making the right changes.

Male Psychology Secret 2: Why Men Stay in Love with Some Women & Not Others

I’m about to tell you a secret about male psychology in relationships and dating that flies in the face of what most women believe about men.

Most women don't understand a man's thought process when choosing to be in a relationship. Many women believe men choose women based on their looks, age or social status.

Many women believe men choose women based on their looks, age or  social status.

And there’s some truth in that..

Yeah, men can be dumb idiots sometimes.

But we often find that quality guys end up going for women without the best looks or status.

Why?

Here’s a hidden male psychology secret about love that you probably didn’t know about.

I’ve come to understand that men have a subconscious “screening process” for who they stay in love with and who they don’t.

 

I say “subconscious” because typically it’s below his awareness… In other words, it’s not something he thinks about… it’s something he just feels.

Many women fail this screening process because they don’t understand the psychology of men falling love. And this is a big reason why many of today’s men choose the single life over a relationship.

 

Men stay in love for THIS reason...

Most men are looking for a specific, ongoing emotional experience with a woman.

When a woman gives him this experience, he will cross oceans to be with her. It doesn’t matter if he’s busy, not “ready” for a relationship or has life drama.

When a woman fails to give him this specific emotional experience, that’s when you see men “check out”, pull away, or stop giving attention.

If you want to learn the secret of how to give a man this ongoing emotional experience, sign up for my free “Male Psychology Secrets” eLetter below.

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  • Inside the male mind & sparking LOVE
  • 3 MISTAKES that make men pull away
  • Why men quit giving AFFECTION
  • How to get his mind OBSESSED with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 2 qualities that tell men you're "the one"
  • 6 SECRETS that inspire men to open up

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4 Expert Secrets to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Quickly & Effectively

“My boyfriend broke up with me and I want him back!”

 

A breakup with the man you love is one of the most confusing, frustrating and devastating situation a woman can go through.

 

It seems like no matter what you do or how hard you try, you can’t get your ex-boyfriend back.

 

He seems to have lost the feelings he once had for you and there’s no chance of getting it back.

This type of situation can APPEAR hopeless.

But there is GOOD news – there is a way you can get him running back to you in a heartbeat.

I’ve spent more than 10 years coaching thousands of women from all around the world to successfully get their ex-boyfriends back. I have shared my expert knowledge with numerous women about how to get an ex boyfriend back.

I’ve researched the psychology behind breakups, why men leave relationships, why men choose certain women and not others, and what a woman can do to make her ex thirst for a relationship again… even if she’s really screwed up in her situation.

I spend my life coaching women in their relationships, dating and breakups and give them the “key” to lasting love with men.

Learn How to Get Your Guy Back

I need to tell you something right now...

I don’t “B.S.” or console too much about how hard it must be.

Regardless of however much you whine, “my boyfriend broke up with me and I want him back,” don’t expect me to coddle you.

We both already know you’re in a heart-wrenching situation and you need help badly.

We need to get down to business and talk about exactly what you need to do to get your ex-boyfriend back.

We need to get down to business and talk about exactly what you need to do to get your ex-boyfriend back.

Sound good?

Great!

Learn How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend

Inside you will learn...

  • Why men really leave relationships
  • Why men really leave relationships and 7 big mistakes women make after a breakup
  • 2 SECRETS that will cause him to come running back to you
  • How to make him want you as badly as you want him
  • How to make him REMEMBER his loving feelings for you

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The fact is that it is possible to get him running back to you.

 

It’s easier than you may believe to make him feel that “spark” again and want to be with you… even after he’s said something as brutal as “I don’t love you anymore”.

 

I’ve seen it happen with my own eyes many, many times… often in not normal circumstances.

You just have to change your approach to your situation.

 

You must understand and accept that at some level, you’re valuable enough for him to have once chosen to be with you.

And you’re an intelligent, driven woman with admirable qualities because you’re here seeking answers from people with different perspectives to yours and your friends to achieve your goal of getting your ex back.

And he could just as easily choose you again if you demonstrate the right qualities.

So with that in mind, it’s completely possible to get your ex boyfriend back if you know how to do it.

Look…

Men experience love in a completely different way than you do as a woman.

It’s important to learn what your ex-boyfriend wants and what causes him to fall in love – that’s how you get him running back to you.

This misunderstanding is the source of all of your pain and frustration right now.

When you have the right understanding and knowledge, your actions will follow automatically.

The reason, by the way, why men say things like “I don’t love you anymore” or “I don’t want a relationship with you” has nothing to do with how he really feels.

This is his logic speaking.

 

But if you can target his EMOTIONS instead, you can surprise even him about how his feelings for you.

 

You have to avoid the “traps” that most women fall into that prevent men from coming back after a breakup, and you also have to know what to do to spark his interest again.

 

These techniques I’m about to share with you about how to get your guy back are very powerful, so please use them carefully.

 

Most importantly of all, if you actually want to stand any chance of getting your ex-boyfriend back in your arms again one day, you have to take your level commitment from interested to committed to doing whatever it takes to bring him back.

 

You won’t get far with a half-hearted effort.

 

Let’s get into it.

Men experience love in a completely different way than you do as a woman.

1. Target His Subconscious Desires

Men subconsciously desire challenge, and it’s such a deep and powerful process that it goes below his awareness into his subconscious mind.

 

After years of studying psychology, I’ve found that on some deep subconscious level, he never wants to “win” completely. He always subconsciously wants some sort of gap.

 

Why?

 

It’s basic male psychology that men VALUE that which is harder to achieve.

 

If you ask a man directly if this is true, he may tell you “no”.

 

Many men believe that they want an easy, relaxed life, and while there’s nothing wrong with having a relaxed life, men don’t always respond to a woman who he doesn’t have to do much to achieve.

 

That’s his LOGICAL side talking, not his emotional side… and if you watch what men SAY they want and what they ACTUALLY respond to, you will find two very different things.

 

If he knows that he has you completely, he’s very likely to immediately lose interested, ESPECIALLY in a breakup situation because he’s already decided he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

Here's what he REALLY wants...

He wants the chase, the mystery, the excitement.

 

That’s why it’s important to plant the seed of doubt in his mind.

When he knows that you want you him and you can’t live without him, there is no challenge or mystery left.

 

Not only that, but you’re also allowing him to feel COMFORTABLE with the breakup.

 

It’s much easier for him to leave when he knows that you can’t live life normally without him.

 

If you begin to become slightly less available to him, you will start noticing a BIG difference in his attitude towards you.

 

BUT… you have to pull it off in the RIGHT way or you could end up hurting the situation, and add to the fact that it can be tricky to pull this off in a breakup situation given the fact that you two probably have much more limited contact now.

 

In my free “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” eLetter I’m going to help you with the details of the “how to’s” of how to pull this off correctly.

2. Be Unpredictable In A Breakup

Men become bored, passionless and “commitment-phobic” when they know what’s going to happen.

 

Just the opposite is true.

 

 

When a man doesn’t know what a woman’s next move will be, he becomes alive, alert and suddenly drawn in.

Why do you think guys wish to bring women into their lives in the first place? Am I right?

 

 

A man brings a woman into his life in the hopes that she will bring adventure, excitement and unpredictability into his life (if you don’t feel like you have these qualities, don’t worry it’s very easy to create this).

 

 

In the context of this breakup, being unpredictable can create a sort of OBSESSION around you in his mind.

 

That’s because he doesn’t know where you are, what you’re doing, if you like him or don’t like him, and you’re acting differently than he’s used to.

 

 

Psychologically speaking, men become obsessive about something when it’s unpredictable and they can’t control it.

 

 

But you must understand how much is needed for your situation. Too much and you can upset him, not enough and you won’t spark any fire in him.

 

 

You must find the BALANCE – that’s how you get him running back to you.

 

 

Again, that’s what my “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” eLetter helps you do.

3. Make Him Uncertain Of Your Feelings

One of the biggest mistakes most women make with getting their ex-boyfriend back is letting you know that YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM…

 

Now listen, I know that you love him. And I know you want to be with him, and you DESERVE to be with the man you love.

 

The problem is on an EMOTIONAL level, telling him you want to be with him gives him a sense of COMFORT for breaking up with.

 

Please read the above sentence again so it really sinks in… I’ll wait….

 

He may be a great guy, but even so in the back of his mind he knows he’s always got you in his back pocket if things don’t work out for him so he’s free to move as far away from you as he wants.

 

It’s essential if you want your man back to take this feeling of comfort away.

 

You have to give him a feeling of uncertainty to get him running back to you.

 

And it’s not difficult with the tools I will give you in my “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” eLetter.

4. He Wants A Girlfriend Who Is Non-Needy

One of the most attractive traits you can possess is truly not needing a man… ESPECIALLY if a man has broken up with you.

 

When you have an abundance mentality, you’re unafraid of losing him, and you have a positive mentality that things WILL work out for you in the future, that’s when you will be MOST LIKELY to get this man.

 

It’s this attitude that captivates his interest.

 

Right now, you’re probably very afraid of losing him and all sorts of fears are running through your head…

For example…

  • "Does he still love me?"
  • "Is he going to find someone else?
  • "Am I going to be alone forever?"

You must do yourself a favor and stop thinking in this way and think more POSITIVELY.

 

When he starts to get the feeling that you could take him or leave him, and he starts getting the sense from you that you know you deserve love and you can have someone very special, he will start trying to get YOUR attention instead of the other way around.

 

Your attitude trickles into your actions:

a. In all of your interactions with him you're now relaxed, happy and carefree... instead of tense, worried and holding on.

Men are attuned to female energy.

 

On a subconscious level, we INSTANTLY recognize a woman’s energy… even if her words contradict it.

 

If you want to stand any chance of getting this man back, you must be spontaneous, unpredictable, happy, light-hearted, feminine and have a sense of humor.

 

You can’t be those things if you are afraid to lose him and are attached to the outcome. You might even end up losing him.

b. You're allowing him to truly rethink things.

At this point, I’m willing to bet he hasn’t thought about things AT ALL.

 

You’ve sort of pressured him too much to think about the relationship. Perhaps not even with anything you’ve said directly, but your “energy” has said it for you.

 

The more you have “relationship” on your mind, the more you’re going to stop him from truly rethinking things.

Instead he will leap to conclusions and become stubborn about his decisions.

 

It’s the same thing when a child asks for a toy over and over again and the parent keeps saying “no” over and over again.

 

Soon all the child has to say is “can I-” and the parent shouts “ugh, No!”

 

It becomes a reflex. The parent isn’t even thinking about WHY they are saying “no” anymore.

 

The child will get the toy INDIRECTLY by being good and accomplishing goals.

 

Just how you will get the relationship back by going about it indirectly by exhibiting all of those qualities I mentioned above… But not directly.

 

So you might be thinking “HOW do I show him all of this?”.

 

That is what my best-selling audio program “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back” is for.

 

Inside, I show exactly what to do in each breakup situation (no matter how unique the situation appears on the surface, there are only about 9 situations all breakups fall into) and how to get your guy back.

There are root causes that all breakups fit into, and I go through each of those situations in detail and show you exactly what to do to get him back, including (but not limited to):

  • Long Term Relationships (4 months +)
  • Short Term Relationships (Less than 4 months)
  • Marriage and Divorce
  • Long Distance Relationships
  • Issues with cheating, jealousy and flirting
  • and much more...

My eLetter is completely free, and inside I will show you strategies and insights into your breakup that you won’t get anywhere else that will get you results with getting your man back.

 

I will illustrate how you can get him running back to you and falling head over heels in love with you again.

Learn How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back Now

Inside you will learn...

  • Why men really leave relationships
  • 7 BIG MISTAKES women make after a breakup
  • 2 SECRETS that will cause him to come running back to you
  • Turning The Tables: Make him want you as badly as you want him
  • How to make him REMEMBER his loving feelings for you

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Brandon Martin's 4 Secrets To How To Save A Relationship Quickly...

I’m about to share with you four powerful secrets to save a relationship and get the love, respect and appreciation you deserve from a man.

I’ve shared my tips and secrets with thousands of women around the world. Secrets like how men think, why men do things like pull away or shut down… and what a woman can do to spark deep levels of love and affection, and commitment.

What I’ve learn after coaching everyone from students to surgeons is that no matter what walk of life you’re from, men can cause pain and frustration if you don’t handle them properly.

When you’re with a man who stops appreciating you and starts acting like a jackass…

That’s about the time that most women give up and lose at love and start asking the question “what am I doing so wrong? How do I save this relationship?”

If you’re like the many women I’ve coached over the years, you’ve experienced this.

But fortunately I have really good news for you today.

After years of investigating relationship dynamics and meeting with experts, I’ve found that 99% of bad situations with men can be turned around. You can get more love, affection and intimacy from your man than you thought possible and have your dream relationship if you know these secrets.

It’s actually quite simple to do just by making a few simple adjustments to the way you approach men and relationships. Unfortunately, most women will know how to save a relationship.

Men start acting stupid for specific reasons, and if you understand why, you’ll get the love and admiration you’ve always wanted.

Exclusive Male Psychology​

  • Inside the male mind - & how to get his LOVE
  • 3 MISTAKES that make men pull away
  • Why men quit giving AFFECTION
  • How to get his mind OBSESSED with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 2 qualities that tell men you're "the one"
  • 6 SECRETS that inspire men to fully open up

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1. Men Experience Love & Relationships Differently Than Women

After spending years coaching different women, I noticed a mistake women commonly make that prevents them for saving a relationship.

It’s an innocent mistake…

This mistake leads men to feel misunderstood and frustrated, which causes men to pull away, lose attraction and even fall out of love… and start acting like a jackass.

I’m willing to bet you are doing it too.

If you stop doing this you can save your relationship, REVERSE damage with your man, and see instant positive changes in his energy towards you.

The mistake is most women tend to assume that men think about and experience love, attraction and relationships the same way they do as a woman.

Women tend to value things like openess, affection, intimacy, sharing, trust, commitment and security in a relationship.

These are all fantastic things. The problem is men tend to prioritize equally beautiful things that are different.

A few things that men tend to value (on a list of hundreds) are things like unpredictability, independence, respect and challenge.

This (helps) explains the male fascination with fast cars, football and video games…

Do you see a pattern here?

Men have different expectations for a relationship than women.

Men are secretly hoping for a girlfriend who is unpredictable, independent, who they respect and who will challenge them to grow to the next level of their personal evolution.

When men end up unfulfilled, things start unraveling.

Then you will see guys not returning your phone calls, not putting in effort or playing too many video games or being a jerk.

If you are make the wrong assumptions about how men “should” be… not how they actually are, chances are you’ll run into big problems.

If you aren’t fulfilling what men need at their core, you’re going to find that guys pull away, shut down and lose interest in you.

You just need to learn how to properly challenge men, be unpredictable, and learn what causes a man to RESPECT a woman.

2. Why Men Lose Attraction & Fall Out Of Love

I get asked all the time “Brandon, why do men get into relationship and then lose interest and fall out of love?”

The fact is, in almost every case, it’s 100% possible to stop a man from losing attraction, save a relationship and start making him feel deep love, respect and attraction for you.

One big challenge that causes many women to lose love and attraction with men is women simply don’t understand men’s love and attraction mechanisms.

This has a lot to do with what women are told as girls about how men are “supposed” to be.

Men are more complicated than most people realize… including men themselves.

The old notion that men “only want one thing” has been passed over, and today we know that men have a deep, widely misunderstood complexity.

If you’re neglecting his needs and emotions as a man, you’re bound to see him lose attraction, act distant and even fall out of love.

The trick to saving a relationship is to understand what he truly needs, not what you think he needs.

Where the fog gets thicker is what men say they want and what men actually respond to emotionally are often completely different things.

A man may say he wants a big breasted skinny blonde… It’s hard to imagine that man has actually landed on the moon.

But the truth, is he may be far more happy and in love with a more or less “average” women if she pushes the right emotional buttons in him.

What are those women doing that most others aren’t?

Men can be insensitive assholes… but if you learn what men universally need at their emotional core to feel satisfied by a woman, you can save a relationship situation.

At the end of this article, I’ll explain how you can get my detailed secrets on male psychology for free.

3. Most Of What You've Been Taught About Men Is Wrong

Television, romance novels, gossip magazines, and other women have done a fantastic job at royally confusing most women on how to save a relationship.

Why don’t boyfriends act the way everyone says they are supposed to?

Women are more confused about men and love than ever, and more than ever women are asking “what the hell do men want?”

Men don’t behave, think or respond to the things that most people SAY they do.

What I’ve found after years of sifting through misinformation on men is that most “advice” out there is either outdated or inaccurate.

How do men really feel about love and relationships?

After years of talking with guys on the subject, I’ve come to some answers.

Men LOVE love and relationships.

In fact, most men want to find one woman who they can spend their life with and be in love with forever.

The problem is… many men aren’t finding the type of woman that truly inspire them.

How you save a relationship is by bringing forth those qualities that initially inspired your man to be with you in the first place.

4. When You Have A Problem In Your Love Life, Ask For Help

I’ve seen too many good women do this… 

Go on for too long in terrible circumstances in their relationships without getting real help.

They’re not getting the love, affection, connection, intimacy and romance they DESERVE and are going through a very painful, dark, confusing nightmare alone.

I offer a completely free Relationship Advice and Male Psychology eLetter eLetter, and I’d like you to sign up today to start getting my most powerful secrets about men and relationships and save your relationship.

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Inside, I will share with you thinks like:

  • The inside "secrets" of male psychology, and exactly how to get your man's unconditional love
  • What men really want and how to fulfill a man's needs easily
  • Why most women fail with love, and what you can do differently to succeed where most women don't
  • Specifically why men pull away or shut down in a relationship, and how to quickly spark a connection with him again
  • The subtle mistakes that most women make that cause a relationship to fail, and how to avoid them

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

All you have to do is enter your first name and a valid email in the box below, and I’ll start sending you all of these powerful secrets for free, and I’ll give you access to tons of my other secrets about men a relationships.

Turn things around today. Your love life depends on it.

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  • Inside the male mind & sparking LOVE
  • 3 MISTAKES that make men pull away
  • Why men quit giving AFFECTION
  • How to get his mind OBSESSED with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 2 qualities that tell men you're "the one"
  • 6 SECRETS that inspire men to open up

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Learn Brandon's Advice For How Communication In Relationships With Men Works

The “Great Wall of China” has nothing on the wall a man can surround himself with when it comes to communication in relationships.

 

Why is it so difficult to communicate with a man in a relationship… on a psychological, emotional and even physical level?

 

How do you get him to listen to your feelings? And get him telling you his feelings and connect on a deeper, spiritual, “us against the world” level?

 

Are most men just broken in this department?

The answer is… not most.

But seriously…

Most men are perfectly capable of communicating in a relationship…they just decide not to.

One reason why relationship communication stops (or never starts) has a lot to do with a man’s past relationship experiences.

 

But there’s another special thing most women fail to make happen when creating communication lines with a man. 

 

We’ll talk about that in a second.

 

Here’s the reality if your man is not communicating in your relationship. 

 

If he is not communicating and opening up with you, you could lose him.

 

It has little to do with something going on outside of the relationship.  

 

It’s not because of his job or his friends or family or anything else going on in his life.

Limited or no communication in a relationship is a symptom of a deeper problem.

Usually when a man is not open or communicating in a relationship, it’s a sign of something going on inside the relationship.

 

Nine times out of ten it has to with this special ingredient that most women don’t know how to create in a relationship.

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  • Inside the male mind - & how to get his LOVE
  • 3 MISTAKES that make men pull away
  • Why men quit giving AFFECTION
  • How to get his mind OBSESSED with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 2 qualities that tell men you're "the one"
  • 6 SECRETS that inspire men to fully open up

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That ingredient is emotional trust.

 

When I say “trust”, I don’t mean your fidelity.

 

The literal translation of the word trust is reliance on the integrity, strength, ability of a person or thing (pulled from dictionary.com).

 

Now, let me ask you a few questions, and try to be really honest with yourself.

 

Do you ever get overly-emotional, upset or needy with him?

 

Have you ever demanded things of him?

 

Do you feel the desire to control your relationship… that things will fall apart if you don’t?

 

Can you truly say that your man feels a deep sense of reliability in your integrity, strength and ability to handle him?

 

Does he honestly believe that he could reveal his deepest darkest secrets to you and nothing would happen to the relationship except that a deeper connection would form with you?

 

These are tough questions to answers.

 

We both know that you would absolutely, without thought, be his “rock”, but does he know that?

 

Communication in relationships goes both way.

 

Chances are, if he’s not communicating with you in the relationship, then the answer is “no”.

 

Where most women go wrong is assuming that he “should” just know that because she loves him.

 

But more often than not, men are not what you would call “mind readers”.

 

And they’re usually not relationship communication experts either…

In fact, most men can be a pretty dense.

 

Truth is, most women never learn HOW to communicate in relationships or demonstrate their trustworthiness to a man in a way that he understands and opens up.

 

The way MEN understand communication in relationships is much different than woman.

 

You have to talk to a man like a man, or he won’t get your messages.

You do that by understanding male psychology, emotions and heart.

 

If your man isn’t communicating openly in the relationship with you, then it’s time to start building trust with your man (before it’s too late) by understanding his PSYCHOLOGY.

 

A distant, non-communicative boyfriend is a sign that a relationship is in danger and quick actions is needed.

 

The question is, how do you make a man trust you so much so that he WANTS to communicate in the relationship openly, and even allowing himself to unleash his “inner dork” with you?

 

The “trick” is to create an atmosphere of trust with him so that he feels absolutely SAFE being around you.

 

When your man has a DEEP level of for trust for you, he will open up to you on his own.

When he starts communicating with you, you have to be ready to talk with him the right way so that he continues to open up and even deeper.

If you handle a man’s truth in the wrong way like most women do, you risk slamming the door shut on his communication for good.

 

No matter how much both you and I know that you’re a trustworthy person deep down, it’s more about communicating this to him in the right way so that he understands.

 

You must learn how to bridge your “female world” with his male world.

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Have you ever been with a man who you really enjoyed and who enjoyed you, but when the time came to take things to the “next level”, you were willing move up, but he wasn’t?

Maybe he even gave you nice excuses like “I’m not ready for a committed relationship.”

Or…

“I need my freedom.”

But somehow, you knew that there was something else going on?

Why is getting a guy to COMMIT to one woman an insurmountable task?

Why are so many guys commitment phobes?

I’m about to expose to you IN DETAIL everything you’ve ever wanted to know about getting a man to commit…sound good?

Honestly, this is not a subject that needs addressing.

This is an insignificant challenge if you follow me on all of the other things I go on blathering about.

But, there’s too much pandemonium around this topic, so much that I absolutely must give you the straight facts on this situation.

First…

The Key Difference Between Men And Women…

  • Women Worry About The Long-Term
  • Men Worry About The Short-Term
Many women I teach are very comfortable with the “now” moment. They love living in the present, with all of the emotions, excitement, rush and sometimes drama that happens.

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But women worry about their future.

Here’s a fact.

The most future oriented woman doesn’t come close to the least future oriented man. Most women worry about their future, much more than men.

But men are the opposite.

Men are more comfortable with their future plans and ambitions and worry more about right now. The most “present” man is nowhere close to the least present focused woman. Men actually have a much harder time playing and enjoying, much more than women.

Women are natural partiers…men are natural planners. That’s what we feel most comfortable with.

Let me explain.

When a woman hears about a social event that she must go to, she doesn’t think twice about preparing herself, getting dressed and made up to go.

When a man hears about the same things, he stumbles around and “weighs his options”.

A girl feels more uncomfortable with their future while guys end up more uncomfortable with the celebration of right now.

Women celebrate constantly. Compared to guys, girls celebrate ALL OF THE TIME. Make no mistake.

It may not seem like it, but a man’s world is entirely different.

A woman can look at her entire life as a celebration, she can look at everything with “serendipity”. Everything is occurring as a long celebration.

Men only celebrate when invited to celebrate. And even then, many men find it hard to open up to it. They only manage to get a few minutes of celebration in before they feel uncomfortable. Even while celebrating he is somehow looking for a goal!

This is among the reasons why men like women and women like men. Men bring women a future and women bring men celebration.

Point to be learned?

Women Worry About The Long-Term While Men Worry About The Short-Term

Girls have the impending fear of growing older. It seems to always be lurking there in the back of her mind.

Because of the fear, she makes the most of right NOW. She’s young, vibrant and wants to celebrate it. The future, to her is some far off thing. And she is respected the most by society when she is YOUNG.

Feminine youth is celebrated to an incredible extent.

Men are not at all respected when they are young. Men are seen as sex addicted punks. Men only become respected when they mature and age and BECOME respectable.

Men ripen with age. Women decay with age.

By the time a woman hits a certain age, she is thrown out, rejected by society. She is no longer valued.

If you’ve ever wondered where the feverish restlessness comes from for needing so badly to get married and needing to secure her future before it falls out from under her, this is where it comes from.

Even from the beginning, girls are already thinking about marriage at the age of five!

They have their barbies and fantasize about marrying prince charming…which doesn’t happen as easily as she hoped for.

This is the whole “polarity” of men and women. A woman wants a man to be able to secure her future a man wants a woman to help him enjoy his life right now.

Women enjoy love, men enjoy freedom.

So the question is, how do you get a guy to want love?

This all leads to a fear of commitment in the long term for a man.

His “youthfulness” is rejected and he begins to obsess about, in the same way a woman’s “oldness” is rejected and she obsesses about it.

Make sense?

To handle ANY kind of commitment objections, take your relationships and dating experiences with him as a TODAY EVENT ONLY. You simply tell him “Our relationship/dating/whatever is a today event only, and if we should be together again tomorrow, then that is how it will be. But as long as we are together right now, I want to be with you completely.”

It’s not hard to do this!

A man wants freedom, so you simply give him what he thinks he wants! We love the people we love because they give us what we need, so give him what he needs.

The words aren’t as important as the energy behind the words. If you can be calm and playful with this, he’ll think you are the coolest woman alive.

You must let go of the fear of losing him. This is a basic pillar of relationships that needs to be taken care of immediately. In my world, it goes without saying!

Let me say it again.

*You must let go of the fear of losing him*

The fear of losing him only pushes him away, so drop the idea.

The thought of saying something like the above quote automatically strikes fear into the heart of many women I teach.

Why?

Because they’re “needy” for the man. They want to possess him and make sure he will never leave her.

I’m all for making miracles happen, I’ve seen MANY CRAZY things happen in relationships that are almost unbelievable, but this is not something that can make a miracle happen.

90% of women fear their man leaving them…and you know what?

90% of these women are left by the man…and they start wondering “What did I do wrong?”

The fear actually makes him pull away.

Most relationships today are VERY possessive.

Here, I teach you to allow him to be free.

Remember, he has come to you out of his own freewill because he felt GOOD around you and wanted to stick around you to continue the good feelings. If he wishes to stay, he should do so out of that same freedom.

Here’s the twist.

Allowing his freedom causes him to STAY.

Would YOU want someone around who wants to possess you?

Probably in most circumstances you’ve been in with men who became needy, you began to need more and more “space”. It might have even repulsed you.

It’s the same thing for a guy too.

And when you begin to look at relationships in this way, the relationship itself is able to BREATH. It gets a shot of adrenaline and is resuscitated.

Just like having all of the windows in your house open and allowing a fresh breeze to come in.

But you enjoy that breeze so much that you shut all of the windows to close it in. But soon, very soon, that air turns sour.

But, you didn’t realize your joy of it came from it’s freedom!

The freedom of that breeze to pass in and out of your house is what made it so cool, gentle, relaxing as it moved freely across your face.

Once you tried to possess it by closing all of the windows, it turned warm, stale and smelly.

See what I mean?

We can always plan for tomorrow, but we really never know what it will bring until it’s here. People get into marriage prepared to commit their entire lives together, and do you know what happens? More than 50% fail and the other 50% are miserable. They are absolutely miserable, don’t fool yourself into believing otherwise.

There are only a few exceptions, and they are the ones who get and follow what I’m saying here.

Most marriages are unhappy, angry, fight, bicker, cheat, lie all the way until death do they part.

But, love thrives on this moment only!

You can’t say for certain that you will love someone in 40 years time

All you know is that right NOW you feel like you can spend the rest of your life with this person. Right NOW. And let that be as beautiful as it wants to be.

There’s something else that needs to be said.

This thing psychologists go on about waiting two years before you getting hitched because that’s when the hormones die  and you can think more clearly about your decision is a CROCK. Whether its two hours, a day or five years, the future is STILL uncertain.

I’ve had many couple come to me after being together for a day who have the same problems as a couple that has been together 16 years.

Some are together for a week, get married and live happily ever after. Some are together 14 years, get married and regret it the 15th year.

From the many women I’ve coached in relationships, the happiest, most successful couples have dropped the idea that they will be with someone forever.

They come to me with an illusion of how they want things to be like that even THEY know is hollow.

That’s when it becomes a possibility. But it is not a possibility as long as you hold onto the belief. You give your relationship it’s best source of nourishment, freedom and love only when you become free yourself.

True love eludes most women because the second it comes into their life, they try too hard to keep it from leaving, but the very effort kills the love. Love is very fragile, and just like the guy himself, love must be given its freedom.

The same possessiveness that destroys the feeling of love is the same feeling of possessiveness that drives men away.

The “Paradox” Of Relationships With Men

But, this fear of insecurity causes many problems. Love is insecure. Love comes and goes as it pleases, and we try to hold onto it for as long as possible, until our tight grip squeezes it slowly to death.

Love, relationships, dating is a very gentle thing. It’s just like a flower. Even the slightest bit too much pressure on a flower can crush it and make the beautiful petals start to fall off until it looks more like a weed. A marriage puts massive amounts of pressure on both lovers to hold up to impossibilities that can’t be attained by the heart, by love.

Marriage wants commitment, but love is a free thing. marriage is cold, but love is warm. Marriage becomes boring, but love is always entertaining.

One with too much commitment of the unknown future will cause not death to the relationship, but death to the happiness of the individuals that make up the relationship.

Do you want a relationship to avoid loneliness to actually be happy and in love?

Somedays you will be unloyal to your lover and will want to do things a different way than he does. Some days you will not love. Some days you will love. There is no telling, but marriage does not account for that.

If you want a man to marry you and commit to the long term, you simply give him the option of making that choice. You want the man to commit, it has to be his choice to do so.

There is a need for room to breath, gentleness and no possessiveness. This is a very subtle mechanism that MUST be understood.

And the absolute irony is when we begin to look at it this way, the relationship THRIVES. And when the relationship thrives, it goes down the most ideal direction: a relationship filled to the brim with love and happiness. What more could you want?

When the pressure is taken off, all of a sudden, instead of feeling backed into a corner, he suddenly feels a freedom to choose. The pressure on both of your shoulders is suddenly lifted. And if the love is there, the choice will be absolutely clearly for love.

But you are afraid of giving him his freedom and finding out that the love is not there. The fact is, if you follow what I tell you – non-possessiveness, freedom, love, vibrancy, relaxation etc. etc. – you will automatically know why he is with you, out of love.

And these are not things that can be faked, games that can be played. No. They must come straight out of your authenticity. Only then will you know he is there for love out of YOU, not the game playing mask you put on. You mustn’t be afraid to shine your cryptic Dracula-like innards out into the light.

The relationship is allowed to breath and grow. We begin to accept this lover for exactly who they are, and it becomes a sheer delight.

Worry disappears. It just disappears like morning overcast in the sun.

But, the second you trick yourself into possessing him, you’re heart becomes broken. He cannot be possessed, and you know it. He is just as free as you are.

To get a guy to commit to you, you simply stop asking commitment of him!

Very risky indeed… but there are two possibilities:

  • Allow him and yourself to be free
  • Possess him and strike the fear of commitment into him

Men adore a laid back woman who doesn’t ask the impossible of him, who doesn’t pressure him. Drop female competition. Some is cute, too much is a nightmare for a guy.

Men love a woman who is relaxed and vibrant, not restless.

And then when you get rid of the possessiveness, and it’s as simple as unplugging a power cord, and become relaxed about your future and confidently believe and expect things to workout for you in it’s due time, all of the crisis falls away.

You can be in a committed relationship, but remember that each and every day it is a relationship, not by the years down into the untold future.

Whether you believe it or not, this is the reality.

When you live out of line with that truth, that’s when all of the pressure begins to build and the commitment problems arise like a typhoon.

When you live in line with this truth, all of the anxiety in the relationship turns into gratitude for having such a wonderful lover in your life today.

With honor,

Brandon

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How Can A Woman Make Men Magnetically Attracted To Her?

If you want men to be magnetically attracted to you, you must create what I call “polarity”.

Polarity is the magnetism, the passion, the “spark”, the attraction that happens between a man and a woman.

My article 12 Things a Woman Does That Men Find Irresistible caused a lot of commotion.

But there was something thing tons of women were missing that I noticed from many discussions, blogs and boards.

Most women don’t understand essentially WHAT attracts men to women.

And it doesn’t really surprise me, but this is one of the main reasons why many relationships today fail.

The answer is the energy that is created from two polar energy coming into contact… the same way that when positive and negative ions come together in the atmosphere, the result is lightning.

Polarity is when a woman assumes her yin femininity in a relationship and a man assumes his yang masculinity.

The deeper the polarity, the more opposite the energies, the more intense the attraction. 

The more “yin” feminine a woman is, the more high quality attractive men will be MAGNETICALLY attracted to you.

Another was: “This stuff is common sense!”

Common sense is dangerous  because once it’s “common sense”, you can become less critical of that idea, which  could turn out to be completely wrong.

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Then times change and new information becomes available but you don’t change with it.

You become stale and stiff like a corpse.

Relationships would be easy if they were common sense.

Instead, most women live their love lives in FEAR, not love. And the first item of “non-common sense” I’d like to bring to you is that a woman living in fear makes men lose polarity with her.

I wouldn’t call it common sense, but I would say it’s supposed to be natural and effortless.

You know, It’s crazy what people can get away with saying on the internet. A 759 pound balding hermit physically glued to his chair with no authority on a subject can give his opinion on weight loss and hair growth.

VERY IMPORTANT: The core of the masculine is fundamentally OPPOSITE from the core of the feminine.

While femininity rides on play, fun, love, feeling, and emotion, relationships, masculinity runs on confidence, meditativeness, strength, direction, purpose, understanding.

And everyone has their own balance of masculine/feminine inside, but you are either more masculine or more feminine.

If you want to see polarity in action, visit a high school football game.

The dainty cheerleader and the macho quarterback just can’t resist each other. It’s like some force “hypnotizes” them to pull towards each other. That force is so undeniably powerful.

That force is polarity.

Opposite energies attract.

Instead of accepting and embracing this idea, many women become jealous, disguised and anger when they see a couple with polarity. But all the negativity makes it impossible to see past the cloud of anger to see what is really going on.

Polarity is more important than having common interests. It’s odd but true in my experience with coaching many women around the world.

A man and woman can have NOTHING in common, but if they have strong polarity, they can’t resist each other, even if everything else isn’t working.

I just recently heard about Ryan Reynolds and Alanis Morissette divorcing and thought “How were they even together in the first place?”

It seems like they have nothing in common.

Ryan is the Frat Boy preppy type and Alanis is the man hating rebel with an attitude, yet still they managed to have a relationship for some time.

If you have the frame of polarity and masculine feminine energy, you can see the secret.

When you are laughing, you are vulnerable. You are feminine for a second and not masculine.

When you a focused, you are unemotional and masculine in that second. For a man, the feminine qualities come AFTER he gets all his “manly man” stuff taken care of, other
wise he’ll be out of whack.

Now remember in my article The History of the Sexual World, Part 1, I explain that the sexes are in a phase of revenge conscious against each other.

In today’s world, more and more women are taking up the “masculine role”.

Women have become more dominant and men become more submissive (more on this in my post The History of the Sexual World, Part Deux! for more on this). Women have been repressed for centuries, and now post 2nd wave feminist movement, post sexual revolution, they have become more free… and more pissed off.

Watch an average TV sitcom today and you’ll see that men mess up everything.

50 plus years ago it was women who were “screwing up” everything in Hollywood.

Just take a look at the classic sitcom “I Love Lucy”.

The times have moved on from men repressing women to a post sexual revolution world… one that involves revenge against men.

The “polar roles”, instead of macho men being dominant to their submissive housewife, have become more equal.

Perfect, finally everybody is finally happy… aren’t they?

On the surface it’s a great thing, but look deeper and you will see that relationships are DYING.

There’s endless arguing, bickering, cheating, lying, hatred etc. etc.

Today’s relationships are a worse disaster than Hurricane Katrina, no joke.

In an episode of Sex and the City, Samantha ends up in a lesbian relationship which fails… Maria: You call this a relationship?

Samantha: Well, it’s tedious and the sex is dwindling, so from what I’ve heard, YES!

Most dead relationships are rooted in dead polarity, and dead polarity causes relationships to become tedious… and… well… dead.

Polarity is what you need to cause the spark of passion.

Did you ever use to play with those little circle magnets the size of coins? What happens when you have two of those little circle magnets with an equal charge? They would just sit there. They wouldn’t do anything like push away from each other or suck together. There’s no MAGNETISM.

And when you have the same charge, + and + for instance? They push away from each other. Two leaders together are repelled by each other. Two followers do a little better but there’s still something missing.

When you flip one over to -, and the other is still + they suction together.

Positive wants negative, masculine wants feminine.

But on the other hand, most men have never been so terrified of women!

Women should just loosen up and relax with their Yin nature instead of always trying to accomplish what comes unnatural to them. And men should find their confidence and find their yang nature.

The polarity, the attraction, the passion, the absolute magic comes rushing in when the polarity is right. If you’ve hear of the Law of Attraction, this is it at work.

Now if we want polarity, one person in the relationship has to be the leader and the other the follower, otherwise you will find endless power struggle.

Now listen, I’m not saying we go back to the 1950’s. The 50’s are long over. The relationships of the 50’s were totally unconscious. The relationships of today are unconscious. So, we move forward.

We move relationships into CONSCIOUSNESS.

We take what we’ve learned from history and move out of domination, revenge, possessiveness and move towards that thing that relationships are supposed to be about…

Relationships are mostly about two things, love and growth. Everything else comes second.

Even polarity is just a stepping stone along the way to love.

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What makes men feel a woman is psychologically and emotionally irresistible?

Why do many women today experience men suddenly becoming disinterested, pulling away or shutting down… and what can you do about it?

After more than 10 years coaching thousands of women...

And years researching relationship dynamics, I’ve discovered “secrets” about what makes a woman desirable and what men find irresistible, which most experts aren’t talking about.

Secrets that cause a psychic-spiritual “spark” that make men feel irresistibly attracted to a woman.

Thing is, being irresistible is not what most women think it is: youth, beauty, success or being an independent woman.

What men find irresistible is the ongoing emotional & psychic-spiritual experience a man has with you.

If you’ve had trouble keeping a guy interested, you’re likely either making one or more common mistakes that take from his emotional experience, or you’re not doing enough of the right things to create it.

It’s important that you learn how to be irresistible to men in today’s competitive dating world.

Being in the top 5% of women will change your love life and make men effortless to deal with.

Unless you understand how to be irresistible to men, you’ll likely deal with men losing interest, falling out of love or avoiding commitment. Learn about how to be irresistible to men by reading on!

Being irresistible to men has to do with the ongoing emotional & psychic-spiritual experience a man has with you.

If you’ve had trouble keeping a guy interested, you’re likely either making one or more common mistakes take from his emotional experience, or you’re not doing enough of the right things to create it.

It’s important that you learn how to be irresistible to men in today’s competitive dating world.

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How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 12:

The "Energy" All Men Find Irresistible

I've observed this interesting little trap many women fall into...

Many women already believe they know what men find irresistible and what makes a woman desirable.

For example, most women believe men want a young, beautiful girlfriend.

But if this is true, why do we find so many decent guys end up with “average” looking women? Why do men find these women irresistible and not others?

I’ve discovered that most women don’t truly understand male psychology or emotions and what men find irresistible… even when they think they do.

This can lead to frustration and not getting love or interest from men because a woman is attached to an idea of what you think he wants.

Who could blame women? Men aren’t exactly “open books” about their inner world.

After years talking to guys about women, love and what men find irresistible, I discovered an odd quality that most men instantly respond to…

Men universally find child-like energy irresistibly attractive.

Why?

Most women get “burnt out” from their bad past experiences with men.

It’s tough for women in today’s dating climate, and this can cause stress, heartbreak and fear towards men.

Problem is, no matter how much you and I know this, men tend to lack feelings of interest for a woman who is afraid, stressed, or cynical.

Listen carefully.

What makes a woman attractive is childlike, playful, innocent energy. This is of the reasons why men will choose one woman over another.

A girl playing on the playground hasn’t been used, betrayed or burdened by stress yet.

She simply plays in the sand, swings on the swings and counts the grains of sand she can hold in her hand. She is alive and living in the now. That’s what men find to be irresistible in women.

I’m always amazed when I see 18-year-old girls who seem like they’re 48, and then when I see 48-year-old women who feel 18.

It’s a matter of learning what “energy” men respond to in a woman and how to make a man feel emotional attraction.

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How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 11:

How To Handle His Cold Attitude To Create Trust

What I’ve found after observing thousands of women interact with men is that when men do stupid things like not call/text back or not give attention, many women react emotionally.

Men often do hurtful and brainless things.

Reprimanding them out of spite and hurt can cause men to pull away suddenly, act distant and cold.

Then many women find themselves in frustrating situations where they are:

  • Trying to logically "convince" a guy to feel love
  • Giving him a "taste of his own medicine"
  • Trying to control his behaviors through emotional manipulation

Most men are dense don’t realize when they have hurt you, so these things often cause men to feel like they can’t make that woman happy.

But most men will simply see an emotional woman who they don’t know how to handle, and that scares them.

Men universally crave light-heartedness, humor and relaxation in women … ESPECIALLY when things get rough.

That’s what makes a woman desirable. Unfortunately, this is rare for men to find. Unfortunately, this is rare for men to find.

The combination of humor and light-heartedness is like a billboard mounted to a woman’s forehead that says, “I’m the one”. The combination is what makes a woman desirable to men. If you lead with a sense of humor when things don’t go well, it can instantly turn a situation around and spark emotional, irresistible attraction in men.

If you’re in a situation with a man like this, you need to learn how to reverse this and become irresistible to him before things get worse.

If you’re in a situation with a man like this, you need to  learn how to reverse this and become irresistible to him before things gets worse.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 10:

Inspiring Trust & Respect

When men do stupid things like getting distant, not call/text back or other hurtful things, most women let their emotions build up and lash out.

You and I know many women don’t mean to do this. But something as simple as this makes men start to lose trust, respect and attraction and distance themselves emotionally.

It took me a long time to understand that that emotions scare men and cause them to close up out of fear.

Expressing positive emotions in the right way has the power to get a man literally addicted to you.

has the power to get a man literally addicted to you. Emotional strength and independence are what men find irresistible.

Ultimately, what makes a woman desirable is emotional independence. All men secretly hope to meet a woman who adds emotional value to his life.

It just takes a meaningful readjustment of the way you approach men and relationships to be irresistible to men.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 9:

How to Create Irresistible Comfort With Men With Men

Let’s face it, many of today’s women have an A.D.D. situation going on…

But seriously, that can be cute to some guys at first. I find it hilarious and love to make light-hearted fun of women like this. But impatience can turn into unnecessary frustration and emotional aggression when things don’t happen fast enough.

What I’m talking about is relaxing more and being more open to going with the flow with him. This is the same attitude that rockstars have, and rockstars male or female are some of the most irresistible people on the planet.

What makes patience an important quality for a woman to be desirable? Because it’s RARE and sub-communicates confidence and desirability.

Here’s a clue to being irresistible to men that most women will never know.

Men are purpose and goal-oriented. Men value the vision they want to create in life above all else. It could be that he wants to start a family, travel the world, build a business… it could be anything.

The point is when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax with his path. If she does he will literally feel that she completes him.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 8:

Irresistible Body Language Secrets

Behavioral psychologists recently found this…

Body language accounts for 55% of all communication between people, while vocal tonality accounts for 38%.

If this is true, it means… words are only 7% of all communication.

It’s possible that 93% of the signals we give socially are based on body language and vocal tonality alone.

Many women ask me “what do I say to him to make him want me?”

Instead of focusing on just 7% of communication, I’d like to suggest that you can get more leverage with men by focusing on the other 93%.

Body language is a fascinating subject to me, and I’d like to give you what I consider to be a “magic formula” for body language that subconsciously tells men you’re irresistible and you know it. Learn about body language and how to be irresistible to men:

a. The first part of the puzzle is to lead your body with your hips.

You may have mixed feelings about her (I’m not her biggest fan), but Paris Hilton is a master of this and has irresistible body language.

Walking this way conveys sexuality, confidence and feminine swagger. Simply walking like this can instantly get a respectable guy’s attention.

b. Next, consider arching your lower back to allow tension off your upper-back and shoulders. 

Your shoulders can be sub-communicate many things to men. When you use them correctly, you can emulate what men find irresistible.

Hunching sub-communicates low self-confidence, which is not what many high-quality men look for.

Shoulders should be rolled back a bit as to not hide your chest (no matter the size) and to avoid hunching. 

c. Raise your chin.

A chin up in the air conveys self-confidence instantly.

This will also help focus your body to stand straight up, as if you’re laying vertically on a bed.

d. Most importantly, smile!

What makes a woman desirable is a winning smile. A woman who smiles tells men on a gut level that you’re open, confident and feminine while no smile makes him wonder if you’ll be difficult to please.

This body language is irresistible to men on a subconscious level… beyond their conscious control.

When you have powerful body language, it’s as close to “magic” as it gets to seeing men respond instantly with irresistible attraction.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 7:

Sparking Irresistible Physical Attraction

Are most high-quality guys really looking for “supermodel” good looks?

I’ve learned that most guys are not looking for a supermodel.

Physical attraction is created simply by a man seeing that you care about your presentation.

If a man is “talking” to you, it means he’s physically attracted enough to you to be in a relationship with you.

Beauty, healthy hair, good-looking skin, well-done makeup, healthy weight; these are the superficial things men adore.

Where many women get tripped up is believing that external beauty is everything… it is not.

Have you ever stopped to think… what is beauty?

It’s a question I like thinking about.

I believe beauty is the outward expression of femininity. men are attracted to like NOTHING else.

But it’s against femininity to be obsessed with looks, or you become an insecure rollercoaster seeking approval from men. When you chase after validation, you can’t be irresistible.

Here’s what I believe makes a woman desirable:

Balance.

The fact is inner is just as important as outer.

There is a way to spark internally beautiful to men in a way that makes men respond like crazy.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 6:

Create Irresistibly Attractive "Energy" With Him

I know something about you...

You are a goal driven, intelligent woman. 

I know because you’re seeking answers to this essential area of life called “love”.

However, many smart women get tripped up thinking too much… usually about the past or worrying about the future. 

The problem is, getting stuck in your head kills attraction with men.

A woman who is “here now” is sharp, responsive, alive, witty and keeps a man on his toes.

Men can look into her eyes and see that she is with him here and now and not over-thinking and allow him to fall in love.

A woman who is in the “now” is completely attractive and irresistible to men.

Most men never find this woman, so when she does come, well let’s just say, have you ever heard of those stories about guys proposing after dating for three months?

There is a way to cultivate this aspect of yourself, and I believe you have this ability inside you… you just have to learn how.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 5:

Stop Being "Needy" & Get Passionate Instead

Many smart women fall into this tricky trap….

Confusing neediness for love.

I’ve come to discover that neediness can disguise itself as “love”.

Let me explain…

I think we can agree that true love is when we think about the other person’s happiness before our own.

Neediness is a fixation on how our own needs are not being met.

Love is courageous and feels blissful… while neediness is fear-based and feels painful.

Many guys sense neediness the more time they spend with a girl, which can cause them to slowly pull away.

When a woman starts to get emotionally attached to a guy and hopes that he gives her more love and attention, men often pull away because this is not what men want in a girlfriend. It is far from what makes a woman desirable in their eyes.

What most men find irresistible and want is a woman who LOVES them rather than needs them.

Need is not being able to live without a man, while love is wanting him to be an addition to your life.

A woman who has the confidence to love and desire gets the love from the man she wants. Women who are overly-attached, on the other hand, will find it difficult to acquire the love they want.

It is possible to develop high levels confidence with men – this is what men find irresistible.

If you deal with neediness everyday and want to become confident and free of fear, anxiety, neediness, self-doubt or jealousy, then check out my emotional balancing tips.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 4:

Nurture Him

Most men enjoy independence, but I’ve found that men secretly want to feel taken care of as well.

To many women this comes naturally. The problem is when men do hurtful things, many women pull back this quality out of fear, insecurity or anger.

The Indian mystic Osho once said “a man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother.” Profound stuff.

Could you imagine what would happen if you were able to make him feel the happiness he once felt in his mother’s womb?

Is it even possible?

There are ways to make him feel this way that I don’t have time to get into now (you can learn more in my products and programs).

It’s a basic female, motherly instinct to nurture.

Most guys do want a tiny bit of mommy in the woman they’re spending their time with.

But because of society, “responsibilities” and the resentment many women subconsciously feel towards men, many women end up losing touch with this part of themselves. Instead, they reprimand their man for not being able to wear the pants in the relationship.

If you’re not nurturing to a man, there’s a good chance that he will feel a level of distrust in your ability to fulfill him emotionally.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 3:

How To Be Irresistible To Men In The Bedroom

There's no denying it...

Sex is a powerful, emotionally bonding event.

And mastering the bedroom can trigger a man’s heart to open up to you and massively change how a man feels about you.

Many magazines come out with “tricks” for the bedroom.

But there’s something simpler and more effective you can do to be irresistible to men in the bedroom.

It comes down to this…

You must know how to create a relaxed environment in the bedroom. Most women create tensed environment in the bedroom by worrying about how they look or if they’re “pleasing” him.

That all you need to start making men feel irresistibly in love and attracted to you in the bedroom.

This simple shift can cause a man to feel that you are different from other girlsIt’s easier than you might think to master the bedroom with men, you just have to know how and then act.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 2:

Be An Expression Of Love

There are women who live in fear, and women who live in love.

In my experience, most women live in fear.

Many women:

  • Fear being left
  • Fear not being loved
  • Fear pain
  • Fear being cheated on/used
  • Live with bitterness/regret over the past
  • Worry about the future

The list goes on.

Fear can kill a man’s attraction because men are universally drawn to women who live in love, positivity, joy, creativity.

Unfortunately, most women live in constant worry, self-judgment, guilt or anxiety due to not knowing how to get what they want from men.

On the other hand, what makes a woman desirable is choosing to love over fear. When you base your actions with men off of love-based thoughts, you act in ways that attract love from men.

A woman who sees dance, celebration and music wherever she goes is one of the most desirable qualities a woman can have.

Love is, in fact, the most powerful energy in the universe.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 1:

Be Irresistible to Men by Having Integrity

I’d like to ask you an obvious yet powerful question…

Why do so many women fail to make men irresistibly attracted to them?

Some women would say a lack of confidence or not being pretty enough.

Well, the truth I’ve found after coaching women around the world for over 10 years is most women aren’t irresistible to guys because they lack integrity.

Unfortunately, many women simply do whatever they think will get them the results they want… even if that means dishonest behavior or games.

Ironically, this is exactly what robs women of their power with men.

Some women feel “entitled” to act this way because of how they have been badly and unfairly treated by men in the past.

What makes a woman desirable is having admirable love-centered values.

When a man knows a woman can be swayed to dishonesty to get what she wants, he will lose trust and may leave because he knows one day, it may be him at the business end of her sword.

A woman who stands up for love and won’t play games is a beacon of light to men.

This can and often does inspire men out of their own B.S.

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