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If you could take all the perfect body language of women who men find incredibly attractive because of their body language from across the planet and put it into one person, Paris Hilton is the closest you will come.
There have been women who have given the female sex a “better name” (like Susan B. Anthony or Angela Davis for instance), but one thing Paris Hilton can give you is beautiful body language that men find HIGHLY attractive on a gut level. It’s not something a man has to think about, it’s something that is triggered in his subconscious.
Have you ever thought about what “body language” actually is anyway, and what it has to do with sparking the emotion of attraction in a man?
There is a longstanding, unspoken rule for women: “I must be pretty or I don’t stand a chance being attractive to men.”
How much truth is there really that men only want women for their looks?
We all know that most men become dumb as a stump in the presence of an attractive woman, but is this all they pay attention to?
Men understand that they want a beautiful woman. Men ARE attracted to physical beauty.
Yeah, that is true… but there is also other specific criteria that if a woman posses, men will be attracted to, and men don’t necessarily understand “why”.
And I don’t mean this in that faux “fairy-tale ending” I-don’t-care-what-you-look-like kind of way…
A man, just like many women, doesn’t truly know exactly what he wants. He knows he want certain things, physical beauty, perhaps a woman with a strong career for instance, but he also doesn’t realize that physical beauty is not the only criteria that triggers men’s attraction.
There are inner qualities that a woman can posses that will blow a high quality man right over with high levels of attraction.
Many women find it hard to believe what I’m about to say, but the truth is these specific inner qualities far outweigh physical beauty.
But women who posses these quality are rare.
I know many women who dream up an ideal “perfect man” in there head only to find themselves falling in love with a man who is completely different from that image. The same thing applies to men.
I know many, many men who set out looking for a hot bombshell woman, what we can call an “average looking” woman… and not often not because he’s “settling”.
That woman sparks something special in him he has never felt from any other woman.
So, you might be wondering by now what these mysterious special qualities are that can take a man off the physical beauty conveyer belt.
These 12 things are a good start. If you haven’t read it, you gotta check it out right now.
But, there is something more to it.
What turns a man’s head to a woman even if she isn’t physically attractive to him?
What makes a man want a woman even if she isn’t his most physically attractive type (and when I say “not physically attractive”, I mean that she is at least keeping herself in shape as best as she can). “There is no such thing as an unattractive woman, only a lazy one” to quote a past girlfriend.
So, what causes a light bulb to actually flicker in his head and say “hmm, there is something about this woman… I just can’t explain it”?
The truth is it would take me a while to explain what men truly want beyond what billion dollar makeup companies want you to believe.
But we can start with one thing: your own Yin femininity.
Yin femininity is one of the most attractive quality a woman can have.
Yes, your very own natural femininity. If you think about it, physical beauty is just an extension of femininity. Femininity is the whole tree.
Personally, I have chosen to be with women who weren’t the most physically attractive to me in the past, but I could look past it because they shined, they emanated something from within.
There was a light in her eyes, and there was a specialness to her personality.
An “unattractive women” who see herself as such has lost that light. She has become hopeless and has lost touch with her femininity, her very silo of attractiveness.
She gets down on herself and worries constantly. She has the femininity there, but it gets covered up by negative thoughts and emotions.
This can eventually lead a woman to become more and more masculine as a subconscious protection device.
Many men do not find masculinity in women attractive, and this is a core problem of relationships and dating today for women.
Many of today’s women are acting more and more masculine.
In other words, they are forfeiting their softness, trusting, sensitivity, creativity, peace, light and joy in favor of strength, independence, cynicism, hard headedness, being rigid, and coldness.
I know from experience that a physically gorgeous woman with nothing else to offer can become exhausting and a burden.
Many men will break up or leave physically stunning women if this happens.
In other words, beauty alone isn’t enough to captures a man’s imagination.
I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve wanted to take this kind of woman by the hair and belt and toss her out a window (metaphorically speaking of course). And I know a few women who have wanted to do that with the men they date!
Women with nothing more to offer than looks are not interesting to most high quality men with options.
A guy will instantly be attracted to a beautiful woman, sure, and maybe even spend an evening or two with her, but soon after he will be dying to press the “eject” button if there’s nothing else within her that’s intriguing to him.
I don’t mean to sound like “if you’re beautiful, you’re not good enough”, but I’m saying this if you have been focusing of physical beauty to try to get a man.
Being beautiful truly isn’t enough for a quality guy.
Physically beauty is a small piece of the “male attraction” puzzle.
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We gravitate to a woman who has that spark of pure Yin femininity in her eye and heart… This is what polar attraction for you means. This sparks a man’s interest.
He wants someone who is going to be strong to take on the world with him and someone soft enough to give him feminine life.
Physical beauty may seem like the “be all end all”, but who you are as energy is the real be all end all… and the good news is you have complete control over it.
When you come to your confident femininity, this causes men to respond to you in a completely new way than what you are used to. He opens up to you, and he takes you under his wing.
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If you want men to be magnetically attracted to you, you must create what I call “polarity”.
Polarity is the magnetism, the passion, the “spark”, the attraction that happens between a man and a woman.
My article 12 Things a Woman Does That Men Find Irresistible caused a lot of commotion.
But there was something thing tons of women were missing that I noticed from many discussions, blogs and boards.
Most women don’t understand essentially WHAT attracts men to women.
And it doesn’t really surprise me, but this is one of the main reasons why many relationships today fail.
The answer is the energy that is created from two polar energy coming into contact… the same way that when positive and negative ions come together in the atmosphere, the result is lightning.
Polarity is when a woman assumes her yin femininity in a relationship and a man assumes his yang masculinity.
The deeper the polarity, the more opposite the energies, the more intense the attraction.
The more “Yin” feminine a woman is, the more high quality attractive men will be MAGNETICALLY attracted to you.
Another was: “This stuff is common sense!”
Common sense is dangerous because once it’s “common sense”, you can become less critical of that idea, which could turn out to be completely wrong.
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Then times change and new information becomes available but you don’t change with it.
You become stale and stiff like a corpse.
That force is polarity.
Opposite energies attract.
Instead of accepting and embracing this idea, many women become jealous, disguised and anger when they see a couple with polarity. But all the negativity makes it impossible to see past the cloud of anger to see what is really going on.
Polarity is more important than having common interests. It’s odd but true in my experience with coaching many women around the world.
A man and woman can have NOTHING in common, but if they have strong polarity, they can’t resist each other, even if everything else isn’t working.
I just recently heard about Ryan Reynolds and Alanis Morissette divorcing and thought “How were they even together in the first place?”
It seems like they have nothing in common.
Ryan is the Frat Boy preppy type and Alanis is the man hating rebel with an attitude, yet still they managed to have a relationship for some time.
If you have the frame of polarity and masculine feminine energy, you can see the secret.
When you are laughing, you are vulnerable. You are feminine for a second and not masculine.
When you a focused, you are unemotional and masculine in that second. For a man, the feminine qualities come AFTER he gets all his “manly man” stuff taken care of, other
wise he’ll be out of whack.
In my article The History of the Sexual World, Part 1, I explain that the sexes are in a phase of revenge conscious against each other.
Instead, most women live their love lives in FEAR, not love. And the first item of “non-common sense” I’d like to bring to you is that a woman living in fear makes men lose polarity with her.
I wouldn’t call it common sense, but I would say it’s supposed to be natural and effortless.
You know, It’s crazy what people can get away with saying on the internet. A 759 pound balding hermit physically glued to his chair with no authority on a subject can give his opinion on weight loss and hair growth.
IMPORTANT: The core of the masculine is fundamentally OPPOSITE from the core of the feminine.
While femininity rides on play, fun, love, feeling, and emotion, relationships, masculinity runs on confidence, meditativeness, strength, direction, purpose, understanding.
And everyone has their own balance of masculine/feminine inside, but you are either more masculine or more feminine.
If you want to see polarity in action, visit a high school football game.
The dainty cheerleader and the macho quarterback just can’t resist each other. It’s like some force “hypnotizes” them to pull towards each other. That force is so undeniably powerful.
In today’s world, more and more women are taking up the “masculine role”.
Women have become more dominant and men become more submissive (more on this in my post The History of the Sexual World, Part Deux! for more on this). Women have been repressed for centuries, and now post second wave feminist movement, post sexual revolution, they have become more free… and more pissed off.
Watch an average TV sitcom today and you’ll see that men mess up everything.
50 plus years ago it was women who were “screwing up” everything in Hollywood.
Just take a look at the classic sitcom “I Love Lucy”.
The times have moved on from men repressing women to a post sexual revolution world… one that involves revenge against men.
The “polar roles”, instead of macho men being dominant to their submissive housewife, have become more equal.
Perfect, finally everybody is finally happy… aren’t they?
On the surface it’s a great thing, but look deeper and you will see that relationships are DYING.
There’s endless arguing, bickering, cheating, lying, hatred etc. etc.
Today’s relationships are a worse disaster than Hurricane Katrina, no joke.
In an episode of Sex and the City, Samantha ends up in a lesbian relationship which fails… Maria: You call this a relationship?
Samantha: Well, it’s tedious and the sex is dwindling, so from what I’ve heard, YES!
Most dead relationships are rooted in dead polarity, and dead polarity causes relationships to become tedious… and… well… dead.
Polarity is what you need to cause the spark of passion.
Did you ever use to play with those little circle magnets the size of coins? What happens when you have two of those little circle magnets with an equal charge? They would just sit there. They wouldn’t do anything like push away from each other or suck together. There’s no MAGNETISM.
And when you have the same charge, + and + for instance? They push away from each other. Two leaders together are repelled by each other. Two followers do a little better but there’s still something missing.
When you flip one over to -, and the other is still + they suction together.
Positive wants negative, masculine wants feminine.
But on the other hand, most men have never been so terrified of women!
Women should just loosen up and relax with their Yin nature instead of always trying to accomplish what comes unnatural to them. And men should find their confidence and find their yang nature.
The polarity, the attraction, the passion, the absolute magic comes rushing in when the polarity is right. If you’ve hear of the Law of Attraction, this is it at work.
Now if we want polarity, one person in the relationship has to be the leader and the other the follower, otherwise you will find endless power struggle.
Now listen, I’m not saying we go back to the 1950’s. The 50’s are long over. The relationships of the 50’s were totally unconscious. The relationships of today are unconscious. So, we move forward.
We move relationships into CONSCIOUSNESS.
We take what we’ve learned from history and move out of domination, revenge, possessiveness and move towards that thing that relationships are supposed to be about…
Relationships are mostly about two things, love and growth. Everything else comes second.
Even polarity is just a stepping stone along the way to love.
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