Why Most Women Struggle To
Get Their Ex Boyfriend Back

These "Ex Boyfriend Handling" Strategies Have Been PROVEN In Worst-Case Breakup Situations

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As you read on, you'll learn proven strategies for the 12 scenarios all breakups fit into that will quickly get your man missing you and asking you to restart your relationship... no matter how hopelessly "bad" your situation may seem.

You'll also hear firsthand accounts of women who have used these strategies in difficult situations to get their exes back quickly.

Dear Lovely Soul,

When your man – your “one” – won’t come back after a breakup, there is one thing that never seemed more important and “impossible” to do: get him back.

And not just get him back but loving you unconditionally like he did before

Where, he has that “spark” in his eye that says you’re the only one for him and no one else.

I’d like to ask you a few questions, and as I ask them, try to answer with an honest heart as best you can.

Do you have a deep, sinking feeling in your chest or stomach of loneliness, regret & hopelessness over your ex never coming back?

You don’t want the relationship to be over or him to walk out of your life… 

Maybe you even saw yourself spending the rest of your life with him.

But you feel like everything you have tried to get him back hasn’t change his mind, and it feels like there’s nothing you can do to stop it.

Everything you have tried, like:

Doesn’t get through to him to love you and be with you again.

He’s shut down and isn’t open like before when you were so close.

You feel like you’re doing something wrong.

You’re more confused about his feelings than ever and can’t figure out if he still thinks about you or not.

Every time you try to get closer and he shuts you down, you feel a deep sinking feeling of hopelessness.

Here’s another important question:

Is he cold & shut down, & you feel powerless to change his mind?

The more you try to talk with him and hopefully be together again, the more he pulls away.

You’re left guessing what he’s thinking, what to do and why he left because he won’t tell you.

You tried staying friends and assuring him you’ll always be there for him and he’s the only one for you… 

Or you told him  all the different ways that you could “patch things up”.

I bet people around you told you things like “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” or “you deserve better, he was just a jerk.”

But the more you hear that, the more it makes you feel the pain of losing the one guy you really want.

He’s closed to the possibility and keeps drifting further away… and even started doing things that hurt you like hanging out his friends more, or even seeing another women.

You feel like you have no control or power over the situation.

Here’s my last question.

male psychology in relationships

Did the relationship end because of something you did wrong?

You feel there was so much you could have done to prevent this breakup from happening… 

… And many other things you could have NOT did to keep him from leaving. 

But your emotions overtook you and made you do things with him you now regret.

Maybe you focused too much about how much your needs weren’t being met instead of his and later paid the price.

Or maybe you started fights, played games, were overly-emotional or even cheated.

The point is, you feel guilty and like it’s “too late” to fix it.

Did You Answer “Yes” To These Questions?

If you’re like the many women I’ve coached through breakups, you’ve experienced these things in a dramatic way.

But, what’s the most painful part of going through all of this?

Well if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part is having to go through the most agonizing experience of your life ALONE.

Your friends don’t get it.

Your family doesn’t get it.

And the only person who does (him) is no longer there for you.

The most FRUSTRATING part is feeling powerless to get any positive response out of him that LASTS no matter how hard you try or what you do… feeling like you have no control over the situation really makes you pull your hair out (or cut it off in some cases).

And the SCARIEST part is thinking whether he will meet someone new – or that he already has – and if he will be happier than her than you.

I need to be brutally honest with you….

If you don't get control of your breakup immediately, radically change your approach to your ex and learn how to make him remember his love for you and fast, chances are very slim you'll get him back.

Getting an ex boyfriend back isn’t about trying hard.

It’s about having the right information that will give you effortless control over the breakup situation.

You can’t keep doing what you’ve been doing and expect “fate” to make your ex run back into your arms.

That’s because your actions are coming from information you’ve gained in the past.

And if you haven’t gotten him back, it means that information is either wrong or incomplete.

But the more mistakes you make, whether accidental or not, the more work you have to do.

The right information about your ex is what will change this breakup situation from feeling “impossible” to having the door to getting him back suddenly flung open.

Why Most Women's Approach To Getting Their Ex Back Doesn't Work

I’d like to “get you off of the train tracks”, so to speak.

I’ve coached thousands of women.

And I’ve notice a pattern. 

Women who are attached to their old beliefs about how things “should” be rather than how they actually are…

Or aren’t open and coachable… 

Almost never get their ex back.

That’s because their way of getting their ex back is often ineffective or even destructive.

Most women are using their old “emotional strategy” for dealing with REJECTION.


Some women can’t deal with feeling rejected by their ex, so they go into PRIDE.

They go out partying, sleep with guys, post photos on social media showing off how “amazing” life is post-breakup… all the while missing their ex like crazy inside.

Other women go into desperation and are trying to get their ex back from that emotional place… as a way to fill the hole that was exposed by him leaving.

Sure, some women “get lucky” and get their ex back, but this rarely happens by “accident”.

Women who get their exes back stop relying on hope alone that the guy will just magically return.

Women who regain control and get their ex back open themselves up to learning how to make him come back.

I want to reassure you.

No matter how “bad”, unique or messed up your situation is, and no matter how little hope you have left in the tank, if you go about handling him the RIGHT way, there IS hope and you WILL get your man back.

If you do the right things, the right outcome is the only possible outcome.

Understanding His Resistance To Coming Back

The billion dollar question is…  

Why did he really leave, what’s going on in his head and why is does he resist coming back?

This is extremely confusing, because I bet he won’t give you straight answers.

In fact, I bet he’s said something like:

But your intuition sense this is not the full story.

Not to mention he’s cold, distant and acts almost like he never loved you.

It’s like he’s a different person.

What most women I’ve coached can’t help but do in a situation like this is eat all of the ice cream in the fridge… or stop eating and stay in bed for weeks.

Many women over-analyze every little thing that happened with him trying to understand him.

What’s more confusing is in some cases he’s even still telling you “I love you”.

But what’s disheartening is when he says coldly that “it’s over” or “move on”.

It got me thinking… 

What the hell is going on here?

As a guy myself, I’ve said things like that in the past. 

But if you asked me at the time, I wouldn’t have been able to explain what I was thinking or why I said it.

The best I’d have been able to say is “a switch went off”. 

After talking with many guys about breakups, that’s what most guys would say… and it’s NOT for the reasons that you might think.

It’s hard enough going through an excruciating breakup where everything you’re attached to has been torn away. 

But the fact that he’s actively pushing you away makes it ten times worse…

Well, before we go on any further there’s something you should know.

This Breakup Isn't Your Fault

Or really has anything to do with you…

Breakups happen for many different reasons, and many of those reasons aren’t even about you.

No matter how “to blame” you feel or how badly you messed up.

More importantly, I’ve witnessed many women get back their ex boyfriend even if he coldly said that it was over.

After years of researching breakups (sometimes seriously screwed up situations) I found the underlying root causes of why men leave and stay away from women… and what to do about it so that instead of pulling away, he’s running back into your arms.

The answers I found, most women completely overlooked… even so-called “experts” out there. 

But I know these secrets will help YOU with your man right now.

7 Deadly Mistakes Most Women Make That Stop An Ex From Coming Back

There ARE reasons why he is pushing you away, why he “doesn’t care” anymore, and why you can’t get him to come back no matter how hard you try.

After spending years helping thousands of different women get their man back, I noticed something.

What I saw was a pattern of easily avoidable mistakes women were making that prevent men from coming back.

What’s more interesting, most women were unaware they were making these mistakes and often thought these thing were helping

When I show women to stop making these mistakes, their man’s “energy” changed instantly.

It’s like twinkle dust.

If you understand how YOU are making these mistakes and STOP them, you can accomplish the first milestone of getting your man back: stop him from pulling away further.

By the way, if you see any that you’ve been doing and you’re worried it’s “too late” to fix, don’t…. just so long as you stop doing them now there is hope no matter how bad your situation is. Believe me.

1. Calling Too Often

What many women do after a breakup is call, text, email or hang out with their now ex-boyfriend even more.

Logically, it “makes sense” to keep in contact with him so that he doesn’t forget about you. You think if you call enough maybe he will realize his mistake and take you back… not to mention that the feelings of wanting to be around him now are overwhelming.

As much as I’d love to say that increasing your contact with him will bring him back to you, the reality is this is based in an emotionalized fantasy created by the immense pain and rejection you’re going through. In reality, it’s wishful thinking.

The truth is this.

He has broken up with you, which is another way of him saying that he wants his space. The reason for that is because of mistakes you may were making with him throughout the relationship when you were still together.

But the more you start calling, texting emailing or hanging out with him, the more annoyed he’s going to become and the more he’ll want to pull back and not come return.

Sadly, I’ve seen many women ignore this warning and give the man almost NO space after a breakup. They continue calling, emailing, texting, faxing etc. until he can’t take it and makes the break for good.

I’m NOT saying to not contact him at all (and depending on your situation, if you stop contacting him it could be a disastrous move). But if you continue to listen to and act on your irrational, fear-based, painful emotions instead of following a logical, planned out map for your situation that has been proven to work to get men back many times, you can move this breakup into far more dangerous waters.

When you stop this mistake, and you lay off a bit on calling or messaging him, you’re setting yourself up to take the power back in this situation, which is exactly what we want.

2. Talking About The Relationship With Him

A mistake so many women make in a breakup (it’s another one that seems “logical” when you’re doing it) is talking to him about your feelings about the breakup.

Why is this a mistake?

Because in 99% of cases, when you go to talk about the breakup, you have another motive in mind: try to convince him to be with you again.

In a more understanding world where men were more sensitive, this would be a great thing to get him to open up about his repressed feelings towards you.

But sadly, it’s NOT the situation (no matter how “sensitive” he is) and he’s not going to open up in a situation like this, especially if he feels pressured.

It saddens me when I coach women through breakups and they go into denial and think “but he’s different.

Or she believes her “intuition” is accurate in an extremely painful and confusing life event.

I’ve got news for you.

He left and doesn’t want to talk about the relationship anymore.

I know it’s hard to hear, but the more you talk about your feelings with him, the more he will want to get away and not come back, even if he says he wants to talk.

Why?

Because the more you fall into his “version” of reality (you two are over) the more he wins and the more defeated you’ll feel.

If you haven’t been making the right changes, then his version of “a talk” will not help you get what you want.

You must first learn what rebuilds your desirability and attractiveness in his eyes after this breakup (where you’ve lost these things), and talking about the breakup won’t build any desire or attraction.

This is one of those things that I’ve seen many “experts” and books out there say to do, but I can assure you after seeing thousands of women do this unsuccessfully in breakup situations, it just doesn’t work this way.

You must think less “logically” and think more “emotionally”.

Attraction is an emotional phenomenon.

A man never says “Hmm, this woman is a good communicators, has the proper hip-to-waste ratio, and has all these other qualities, so I will decide to be attracted now.”

Nope.

But you always hear men say “I don’t know what it is about this girl, but I can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve been up all night telling myself this will end up bad, but who am I kidding, I can’t stop thinking about her.”

Bingo. Think gut level.

And if you understand what will ATTRACT your man on an emotional level after this breakup enough to make him want to come back, that woman can and WILL be you.

3. Dating Other Men

There’s a common thing that all women share when they are in a breakup.

Immense FEAR of him dating another woman and moving on.

What does this cause most women to do?

They want to go out and find someone BEFORE he does.

So she can feel in control (and secretly to make him jealous and want her again).

I’ll admit, in SOME cases this can work, but most women crash and burn doing this. In most cases there are so many heated emotions that dating another man after a breakup can cause your ex to pull away completely.

Why?

Because chances are in your relationship, you weren’t fulfilling needs he really wanted fulfilled… or you hurt his trust and respect by acting in ways you now regret.

If you start pursuing other men without resolving that, it can cause a severe EGO reaction inside of him that can cause him to either:

1. “Call your bluff”, in which case he’ll show you he’s unaffected, which will devastate you

2. Or he will try to block you out of his life completely

But that’s not a “death sentence” if you’ve already done this.

If you know how to steer the situation correctly, you CAN bounce back, and still win his heart even if you’ve made numerous mistakes with him.

4. Being Too Prideful

A big reason why breakups are so hard is because of one thing: EGO… from one or both sides.

Many women, go into a mode of pride with the man they’ve been broken up by and even insist “He just did it first, but I was going to do it. We didn’t match. I didn’t love him anyway.”

The real truth is, she wants to avoid feeling vulnerable and REJECTED.

She’s afraid to be honest about her feelings that she actually is really hurt. Deep down, she wants to AVOID the feeling of SHAME for missing some guy who broke her heart.

So she tries to show him that she doesn’t need him.

The problem is, this won’t get him to come back!

If he doesn’t want you, triggering an ego battle will prevent him from caring whether or not you want him.

Even if he did want you again, you’ll actually push him away without even realizing that you’re hurting him.

There are three reasons why this is a big mistake:

1. If he already wants to move on, this won’t cause him to want you again… and chances are he’ll know what you’re doing and call your bluff.

2. Pretending not to care can STOP him from coming back even if he was thinking about it because you trigger HIS pride. Then you have an ego-battle blocking the path of his return. 

3. Depending on WHY he broke up, you’re helping him PROVE TO HIMSELF that breaking up was the right choice.

You must give him an EASY pathway to come back to you… and with getting your man back, it’s all about paving the way for his return.

The good news is it’s not too late to fix things.

But you must learn to spark attraction and trust again.

If you truly want him back, and you learn to put aside your ego and do not what you want or think should work but what truly works to make him attracted on an emotional level, you can get him approaching YOU for a relationship again.

5. Acting Needy & Emotional
     With Him

When you’re overly-sensitive and emotionally raw and haven’t accepted the breakup as reality and also ask him to do things like:

And THEN you get deeply upset when he does, you’re not just preventing him from wanting you again, but you’re killing his attraction, trust and respect.

I agree, he shouldn’t do those things out of respect for your feelings.

The problem is by acting this way, you don’t get the respect you deserve, and you can actually lead him to walk all over you and your feelings.

Acting needy and emotional is a big TURNOFF to him right now, and that’s why you’ve probably found he’s pushing you away aggressively and may even be downright rude.

When you feel needy, overly-emotional, and are trying analyze everything about him, you’re simultaneously losing his attraction.

If you lose his attraction, you can’t motivate him to come back to you.

You want him to still be your boyfriend, but now you’re emotionally raw, just want to be with him, and can’t stand to be “just friend”.

What he’s going to find attractive instead  are qualities like unpredictability, femininity, light-heartedness and VALUE.

It’s incredibly EASY to demonstrate these qualities – if you know how.

These are qualities that men UNIVERSALLY find attractive, and a breakup doesn’t change that. In fact, a breakup will only amplify his desire for these qualities in a woman.

If you learn how to make him feel emotional attraction and DESIRE for you again, you’ll put HIM in the place of wanting you as badly as you want him right now.

6. False Optimism

Many women go into deep depression after a breakup… and incidentally get excited any time he makes a step closer thinking it’s a positive sign he’s still interest and is thinking of coming back.

This is a painful mistake to admit to because it involves seeing through a “fantasy” you’re constructing to make yourself feel better.

Seeing the REALITY of his mind is your only chance you have of making him want you again.

The desire to avoid the intense negative emotions manifests this false optimism of seeing things that aren’t there.

Have you ever seen those 3D pictures you have to cross your eyes to see? When you look at the picture normally, it doesn’t look like much more than squiggly lines and bright colors. But once you cross your eyes,  suddenly the picture appears, and you can see a 3D dog flying through the air chasing a hot dog with wings.

But seriously, you have to practice seeing it differently to look past the surface and see what’s really going on.

Why am I going on about 3D flying dogs chasing hot dogs with wings?

If you think he’s coming back, but there’s even the slightest chance you misinterpreted his behaviors and are “talk” to him on the wrong level, you’ll “rat yourself out” & show him you don’t “get” him.

To make him want you again, you must understand what he wants. And if he left you, it’s a clear sign that from the beginning to end of the relationship, you became something he didn’t want.

What’s worse, if you allow this breakup to toy with your emotions and drive you crazy, you can actually do things that make you even LESS of what he wants emotionally.

But there is good news.

If you open yourself up to understanding his true feelings (good and bad), that can lead to getting him TRULY wanting you again and get back that warm, loving, secure connection.

And become the woman he can’t stop thinking about.

7. Demonstrating "Low Value"

A common mistake many women make when after a breakup is demonstrating LOW VALUE… and hoping he “saves” her.

Let me explain.

Do you remember when Brad Pitt left Jennifer Aniston for Angelina years ago?

Before, Jenn was living the high life as an A-lister. But when Brad left, she was clearly shaken, her movie roles decreased and her “value” as a female celebrity plumited and she became the “butt” of many jokes.

Now WHY this happen, only Jenn knows.

But, did Brad feel sorry for her and decide it was time to save her and get back together?

No. They never got back together, and Brad stayed with Angelina.

Men want women with HIGH value… but you don’t need to be sexy, young or a famous movie star.

All you need to know is exactly what he finds “high value” and do those things in a way that he will notice, and those things have exclusively to do with your ATTITUDE.

An example of how some women demonstrate “low value” is when they start going out with their friends frequently after a breakup hoping he finds out and get jealous.

This can actually trigger “alarm bells” inside a man’s head making him see you as desperate, not knowing what you’re doing without him or trying to manipulate him.

I’m not saying don’t go out and have fun, but don’t do it for wrong reasons.

If you’re hoping he’s going to come back because he pities you because of the pain you’re in or how life isn’t going well, you’re going to be disappointed.

The more you demonstrate “lower value”, the more resistant he’ll be to ever seeing you romantically again.

The truth is, NOW he is looking for someone of “higher value” than what he had before with you.

BUT if you know what he is looking for and demonstrate it a way he will notice, that higher value someone can be YOU.

We can feel “stuck” in a negative way of acting in emotionally tough situations.

But there is good news.

Who Is Brandon, & How Can He Help Get Your Man Back?

If you understand him as a man, his psychology, why he left the relationship and the right way to handle this breakup, that will get you feeling CONFIDENT that you CAN turn this around.

You’ll take back the power and make him fall in love with you again quickly and easily… no matter how bad or “different” your situation seems.

I’ve spent years teaching women all over the world how to create and enjoy an amazing relationship where men effortlessly give unconditional love, openness and communication LONG-TERM, in my books, seminars and programs.

It’s my personal mission (and privilege) to help correct many of the travesties and easily avoidable heartbreak that so many women face simply because of a lack of understanding of men, their own psychology, and the truth about making men open up and give love.

After helping women with their relationships for year, I found many women came to me after a breakup and having made mistakes already.

And it made perfect sense. 

A breakup is the the most painful and confusing situation there is. Period.

But with pain comes the MOTIVATION to do whatever it takes to get the love you know you deserve.


I decided to do something.

I found that what most so-called ” breakup experts” had to say did make sense and didn’t work. 

In fact, in many cases it was doing more damage than good.

I myself have never been broken up with by a man…

BUT (and you may hate me for this) in the past I have been the one who to break up with women.

To tell you the truth, I HAVE also felt the unbearable agony of being left (by women). 

And for me, those were the WORST times I can remember in my life.

However, if I hadn’t gone through that pain, I would never have been motivated enough to get the knowledge that would give me what I wanted.

As a relationship teacher, it hurts knowing how many women are in pain simply from a lack of knowledge.

And that they see pain as a block, rather than a gift from god that can motivate them to learn how to live in the bliss and love they deserve.

It affected me, and I wanted to do something.

Many men give off an image that they would rather be single and date many women.

But the sincere reality is, nearly ALL men just want to be with one special woman who fulfills him emotionally.

And it doesn’t matter if he’s been with that woman before and failed with her or not. 

If you know how to trigger his emotional level attraction again, THE PAST DOESN’T MATTERS. 

Because only the NOW moment matters.

All that matter is if you trigger specifics part of your man to respond to you today.

All men WANT this badly but rarely get.

Look I know, it’s embarrassing asking for help.

But I know you want your ex boyfriend back badly.

The truth is, asking for help is the first step to getting what you want, otherwise you’ll keep doing what hasn’t been work.

As they say, the definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again and expecting a different outcome.

Why Most Women Fail To Get Their Boyfriends Back

There are just two simple reasons that literally STOP 99.9% of women from getting their boyfriends back.

This is something I’ve seen every woman who doesn’t get their ex back do and every woman who DOES get their ex back AVOID.

And if you want YOUR man back, you must avoid these two things like the plague.

REASON #1: The first is allowing yourself to feel HOPELESS, sulk about the situation and do nothing.

Thinking that your situation is so bad that you can’t do anything anymore to earn his trust, respect and get him to want a relationship with you… or that he doesn’t want you anymore.

When you think fear-based, negative thoughts (which is one reason that caused this breakup with him in the first place) the fact is you’re you’re living quite far from the reality.

The REALITY is I’ve seen MESSED UP situations where if the woman kept even a drop of hope alive, she was far more likely to get the guy back.

When you think negatively about your situation, not only are you hurting your self-esteem and BELIEF in getting him back, but you also hurt his attraction for you.

Most women miss this point.

REASON #2: The second more dangerous one is acting out of desperation.

When you are emotional or hurt, any action that comes will be the WRONG action. Period. 

That’s because the emotion of despair’s goal is to do anything to stop the feeling.

It’s not a focused emotion.

And despair speaks LOUDER than any action that comes from it.

It’s just like in that classic romantic comedy Breakfast At Tiffany’s.

Audrey Hepburn is paid mucho bucks to have conversations with a jailed mob boss and then deliver his “innocent” messages to the someone on the outside.

What she doesn’t knows is that her messages are NOT INNOCENT. She’s actually delivering coded messages WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT.

She ends up paying the price later by getting arrested, even though she had no idea what she did.

So, why am I going on about this movie?

Because this is EXACTLY what most women are doing after a breakup.

They think their desperation is innocent, but they have no idea the *coded messages* they’re sending their ex boyfriend. 

They don’t know what they are ACTUALLY communicating is turning their man off romantically.

In fact, it’s the only thing he’s paying attention to.

When you act out of desperation, you send so many negative signals to your man that you’d get bored listening to me list them all off.

If you’re doing this, then in reality you are “breaking the love law” and “landing yourself in relationship jail”.

It’s like saying you didn’t take the cookies from the cookie jar, but the smudged chocolate all over your face tells the REAL story… and it’s obvious to everyone except YOU.

The lesson here is STOP acting out of desperation and START acting from a FOCUSED INSPIRED PLAN.

It’s time to start thinking RATIONALLY about your situation, leave your bad feelings behind and start handling your man in a way that is proven to work time and again

Turning The Tables... Make Him Want You As Badly As You Want Him

Your situation needs a DRAMATIC shift.

You must be brought out of darkness and into the light of knowing exactly what to do and say to get him messaging you “I miss you, I love you, I want to be with you”.

You need somebody *cough* me *cough* with clarity to take you by the hand through this confusing time and show you step-by-step how to get him back into his arms… for good.

You need somebody who understands the “coded messages” he’s sending YOU, and what to avoid doing in those key moments that push him away.

I’ve seen miracles with women seeing their men come back and going onto form amazing, loving relationships with the man they love most in their life once again… and now YOU can too.

Taking Back The POWER From Him. .

Over the pas few years of coaching women with their love lives, I had a large number of women come to me wanting to know how to get their ex boyfriend back after a bad breakup.

That was surprising to me at first.

But it started to make sense.

A breakup is the most serious relationship issue there is.

So I decided to create a full length program that shows EVERYTHING a woman needs to know about getting her man back more in love that ever, and exactly how to do it step-by-step for each specific breakup situation.

If you’re ready to get your man back and bask in the love and happiness that is your birthright

And you’re done living in confusion…

I’ve created a program that I’ve researched and worked on for years with all of the answers you need to get your ex boyfriend to come back and stay in love with you for good.

My program is called:
Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back.

This is a one-of-a-kind program that I get deep into the psychology of men in breakups and step-by-step how to get your man missing you, thinking about you, attracted again and begging you back for another chance.

You’ll learn EXACTLY what he’s thinking and what he really wants from you. 

Best of all, you’re going to feel INSPIRED knowing EXACTLY what steps to take to get him in love with you again once and for all.

You’re going to learn how to motivate him to come running back to you, and how to change your approach so that he’s literally begging to be with you and ONLY you forever.

I’ve found that not only do most women not understand their ex’s behaviors at all or WHY he left, but they also have NO PLAN how they’re going to get him back.

 

You must understand what will MOTIVATE him on a gut, emotional level – below his rational mind – to come back after a breakup.

I’ve had too many friends and students NOT do this, and I know what happens… and what happens is nothing.

End The Breakup & Get Back In His arms For Good

There are two parts of “the plan” to getting your man back.

The first is becoming the woman he wants to come back to. 

And the second is, using a proven strategy that will pave the way for his effortless return.

You must learn what triggers him on a GUT level – below his ability to “reason” his feelings – that causes an emotional “chain-reaction” inside him to realize he made a mistake and want another shot.

You do this in a way that avoids risky games and make HIM see it in his own best interest to come back to you without force.

With the powerful information in this program, it’s easier than you think.

You’ll learn how to take this breakup, spin it upside-down, and use it as POSITIVE leverage to get him back and be more loving with you than ever.

This program is like being in a pitch black room and having the lights turn ON… Suddenly you see the space as it is, and you know exactly what to do.

You’re also going to learn get him openly communicating with you so that he never walks on your feelings or hurts you again. 

And most importantly, you’re going to learn how to create a more fulfilling relationship.

This is the program I wish many of my ex-girlfriends had, but sadly in the past nothing like this existed. But today, you don’t have to live in the dark.

As you can see, this program is going to show you EXACTLY what you need to do in every breakup situation, no matter how complicated, “messed up” or beyond repair your situation seems.

That’s called having power and control.

I wish this program was around a long time ago.

What I’ve come to learn is that no matter how specific or “beyond repair” a breakup situation is, there are core issues at the root of every breakup that must be repaired to make him come back.

The surface level “day-to-day” situation is almost irrelevant.

If you want to get rid of a weed in your garden, you target the roots. If you rip the weed out at the surface, but the roots stays, you’ll never conquer the problem.

Proof Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Works (Better Than Anything Else)

You’re probably wondering where’s the proof?

The amount of women who have opened up to me about their personal story, and how they downloaded, listened to and  used my program to get their ex back can’t be understated.

It would take me days, if not weeks to go over all of the emails, success stories and calls I’ve received.

But I’d like to share several great stories of women who got their man back and more in love than ever using this powerful program.

Listen To Kate's Inspiring Story
Of How She Got Her Man Back

Kate is an attractive, 29 year old former beauty queen with a successful career. Many of Kate’s friends and family member were stunned when her man walked out. 

She opens up about her devastation over “getting dumped”, her mistakes, transformation and how she ultimately got her man back with the program.

She speaks candidly about her “post breakup anxiety” about doing simple things like going outside. But then she discovered her power after listening to GYEBB… and, in her words, couldn’t wait to get home from work each day to listen to it, her “comfy blanket” as she puts it.

Success Stories From Women Who Got Their Man Back

Here are some more great stories of women who wrote into me to tell me their success getting their ex back using Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back.

Many emails I get are super long, so I’ve added more digestible ones here  or that I’ve clipped for readability.

"Brandon,

Firstly I need to tell you my quite odd and seriously disturbing story, which I know I already told you but just in case you forgot I'll tell it again. Me and my boyfriend were together for two years and I loved him to death. We were like batman and robin together. but you see he had this ex who was always in the picture, and at the time i thought nothing of it and just decided to let it slide.

Then there came a time nearing the end of our relationship at the time, that we started fighting like crazy. I'll admit, I was the one fighting, and thats because I could just FEEL something wrong. I'm one to really trust my intuition, and I kept having these spells of feeling like I was going to through up out of nowhere. and then the day came wehn it all become clear to me the day he left. He was having an affair with his ex and one day i can home and all his stuff was gone. he had left with his ex to fly to new york and moved there. I was the most shocked, hurt person on the face of the planet. I've been broken up with before, but there was nothing that compared to this.

As it turned out, I had messed up REALLY bad and had it coming. Yes I did. First I pretended like he wasn't cheating on me and was too afraid to say anything about it, secondly, I was way to possessive and obviously was making this girl look like a goddess. And then of course I sent him some pretty nasty emails and just basically made myself look more like an idiot 🙁 oh well.

A few months went by before I contact you and some of the things that you said man, they didn't make any sense to me at first, but I went along with it anyway. You told me that my situtation was bleak and I only had a few option. So after putting the main strategy we talked about into action, he wouldn't even talk to me. Well to cut to the chase as you guys say in LA, a year passes by. I had pretty much gotten over him by now (pretty much anyhow) so I decided to try the reconnecting strategy you recomended. I heard nothing for almost a month after sending htat email, and then all of a sudden out of NOWHERE an email in my inbox saying "I'm in town for a few days, if you're free we should get together for coffee or something".

At first I rejected the bastards request!! And then he sent me back saying something like "ok then maybe the next time around". He was obviously just hurt cuz I said no. So i sent him bakc saying "no need to be coy! I know you're nervous to see me, I'm nervous to see you too" and some other stuff, so we eventually get together and we just reconnect like bam, instantly and he wants to talk about the relationship so we do, and by the end of the night we're holding eachother watching the moon light. That was about two years ago and we've been back together ever since and stronger than ever.

And I'm so glad that YOU are offering an exboyfriend product like this, because I know how valuable your help is first hand.

So I just want to tell all you ladies out there that this guy is the REAL DEAL. He's worked miracles for me and he knows *exactly* what the f*ck he's talking about. He's not one of these other people who obviously don't know what they're talking about. Brandon is a genius ladies (and gorgeous too teehee).
Jordan
Las Vegas, Nevada U.S.A.
"Dearest Brandon,

I got your program and the first thing I need to tell you before anything else it is has worked wonders you don't even know...Ok, a little background. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 1/2 years. During the last half or so of the relationship, he started to totally bail on me. It was like a light switch turned off in him and he just stopped caring. Then the inevitable happened.......he broke up the hell up with me.

To say the least, I was pretty out of commission for a few months (what a bleeping understatement), and oh my god was i doing everything you said not to do like calling him all the time and being really emotional with him and I was even sending him cards in the mail at one point......ouch! Then I finally ran into your program (thank GOD) after trying a few of those other "ex-boyfriend" books (peee yeww), and I started using the strategy for long-term relationships like you say in the program, and honestly I was super freaked out about it (but you were so confident about it saying that I couldn't not try it!)

I was at it for more than a month and honestly I was moving on and then amazing just like you said the call came! And then for the call I did exactly what you said to remain cool and let him lead the conversation, and then we got together for tea the next day and one thing led to another and we were kissing and then he told me he made a mistake in leaving me and he wanted to be with me again!

I feel like I'm dreaming, it seems so unreal I'm on cloud 9 right now. The only thing I have to say to you sir is THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! I can't even put into words how greatful I am to you.

Anyway I don't want to bore you too much by going on and on, so thank you for everything and I will keep you posted!

Love,
Jenny
Columbus, OH, U.S.A
"Brandon really nails how to get back your boyfriend in this program. The program is very detailed, well formatted and easy to listen to and understand. He teaches in a way that is very clear and inspiring at the same time. After just a few weeks of using the program, me and my guy got back together after months of trying to get him back on my own!! Thank you Brandon so, so much for you hard work putting this program together. It has saved my life!"
Betty
Spokane, WA, U.S.A.
"Hello Brandon,

I just wanted to say that after my man left I was shattered. I know that it was only because he left me and to be really honest, I didn't really want to get him back, but I did want to get back what he took from me, which was my dignity...thankfully I did get him back crawling back to me, but by then I realized that I didn't want to be with him anymore. I met a new man!! And we are so happy together. I'll update you about it.

But I just wanted to thank you for this program. It really put me back in the driver's seat of my love life and with boys. I conquered this by myself!! I feel so confident now taking on this new relationship ahead of me.

Thank you soooo, soooo, much Brandon!

With love love loveeee,"
Lydia
Montreal, Canada

I get success emails like these all the time from women who have used Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back and got their ex boyfriend in love again and back in their arms.

Unfortunately, most women will never know this information and will end up losing their ex boyfriend and a little older to try to find another relationship again.

And as the data shows, more and more women are ending up and STAYING single for life.

It’s a sad state of affairs.

But luckily, it doesn’t have to be like that for you.

There may be one more question you have.

Is This Program Right For Your Situation?

I want you to know this program covers what you need to know about your situation.

Firstly, read through the list below and see if you can find your situation. If you DO NOT fit into any of these situations, than this program isn’t for you:

12 breakup situations

If your man is keeping consistent contact with you and is telling you directly that he wants to work things out, then this program isn’t for you.

If he is saying things like “I don’t know why I left, I love you”, then this program isn’t for you.

If your man has come back to you and has STAYED back with you with no indication that he regrets it… and you’re not going through cycles of breaking up and getting back together, this program isn’t for you.

However, there are certain breakup situations feel like gut wrenching agony over a loss of control with someone you deeply love and care about.

Read through the list below, and if you find yourself agreeing with any of one these, then I highly recommend you download this program now.

However, if while reading you find yourself agreeing again and again, I don’t need to tell you that you need to download this program immediately.

The bottom line is if you need this program, you just know it.

Once you learn the type of woman all men can’t stand to be without, and how to DEMONSTRATE you are that woman in a situation where he made up his mind that he’s leaving, he won’t have any choice BUT to come running back to you.

He WANTS to be with you, but he’s afraid.

You just need to demonstrate the right way that you’ve changed before time runs out.

How This Program Is unique

I’d like to quickly show you why this program is different than every other “ex boyfriend” program you may have seen out there.

Reason #1: It’s the first time an audio program has been created SPECIFICALLY to help women get their boyfriend back.

Sure. There are many “get your ex back” books out there, but almost no one is specialized in helping women naturally get a man back, and none of them are in audio format either.

Most of these books are made by “generalists” and not made specifically for women.

They’re made as “get your ex” rather than “get your ex-boyfriend“, and what’s extremely important to understand is male psychology is very different from female, and those broad unspecific programs can land you in a lot of trouble if you’re not addressing his thoughts and concerns as a man, and I’ve seen it happen before.

I personally guarantee you that you will not even come CLOSE to finding anything available like this program.

Reason #2: This program shows you how to get your man back ETHICALLY WITHOUT “TRICKS” OR MANIPULATION.

Let’s face it, we’ve all wanted to use the shortcut “trick” to get someone we love to do what we want (and I’m not saying there’s nothing like this lined up in this program).

The problem is, “dirty tricks” alone never truly get us what we want, because they never go to the ROOT of the problem.

It’s the very same thing with weeds.

A great “trick” to get rid of a weed is just to rip it out of the ground. The only problem is in a few short days the problem weed is going to sprout up again.

That’s because the root of the problem was left completely untouched, and it’s exactly the same with a breakup.

You may get a man back using tricks, MAYBE, but even when you get him back, you’re not going keep him around for very long, even if you think you just want the trick to get him back so you can fix the problem.

I’ve seen this happen many times.

You MUST address the roots to get what you really want.

That’s why this program addresses the ROOTS and uproots the problems you’re going through with this man at the very core.

Reason #3: This program was created by a MAN who specializes in helping women with relationship problems.

If you want something, go to someone who has what you want.

If you want to get a man back, you need to go to a man for help. Period.

You wouldn’t necessarily want to learn from a makeup artist how to smog your car…

I’m a guy with years of experience working with women, coaching women, and dating women.

This program is design with one outcome in mind: to get you back into a long-term relationship with the man you love

And there’s simply no one else out there who can give you the information you need to make this happen.

Reason #4: This is an AUDIO modality, which mean all you have to do is sit back, relax and listen, and you’ll use it more.

One thing I’ve learned over the years is it’s hard to learn with words alone.

When you’re listening to me teach my system, you’ll instantly learn that it’s easier to learn, you can hear the tonality of my voice and you make no effort at all. Listening is the easiest mode of learning because it’s the most relaxed.

Reason #5: I’m going to show you how to be the woman your ex-boyfriend REALLY wants.

Here’s something that will make or break your success with getting your man back: if you want him back, you must become the woman he wants.

Getting your ex boyfriend back requires action, and it requires the RIGHT action.

If you want him back for good, you must learn how to become the attractive woman men want and know how to DEMONSTRATE it.

There are simply no other programs out there showing how to do this.

Once you master the material in “Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back”, you will understand exactly what will make him want to wrap you in his arms again… and you will feel confident and self-assured knowing that he’s thinking about YOU instead of other women.

Let's Break It Down

"Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back" Audio Program Includes

What is having the love of your life back in your arms again this second worth to you?

What price is worth paying to have that feeling of relief and joy back in your life?

Many women spend a lot of money after a breakup.

They spend hundreds of dollars shopping for new outfits and makeup to feel better about themselves.

Some spend hundreds going out to bars on wine, drink service or cocktails all in one night.

Or they’ll spend hundreds for an hour with a therapist (and don’t get much from it).

Some even pay thousands on vacations to get away and “reset”.

But it’s wasted because these things won’t bring back an ex boyfriend.

What will?

Quality information.

And good information isn’t cheap…. because of the intensely valuable experience it can give you.

Let’s Wrap Up

Here’s a simple question.

Would you give $5,000 to wake up tomorrow morning wrapped in his arms, looking deeply into your eyes and softly saying “I love you and ONLY you” and then slowly kissing you like it was the first time?

That might seem like a lot of money to some, but the fact is an experience like that is priceless.

If you had $5,000, wouldn’t it be completely worth?

The answer for many of my students is YES.

What price can you put on getting your LIFE back?

And ending the agony of losing the man you love?

I have students fly out to Thailand for my coaching ($3,000), or they get my diamond phone coaching package ($2,500) to see these amazing things.

Was it worth it? Usually the answer is yes.

Why?

There’s nothing worth more than love.

But it won’t cost $3,000, $2,500, or even $1,000, unless you book my coaching.

I normally charge $199.97 for this audio program.

But because I want to make this decision easy, I’ve priced “Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” at just one easy payments of  $69.97.

Less than half an hour of therapy.

But this program is five hours of me showing you exactly how to get your man back for what amounts to twenty bucks/hour. 

An extreme value.

And I virtually guarantee that you won’t get the power with your ex that this program will give you in therapy, shopping, or vacations.

Try "Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back" Risk-Free

I’m 100% confident that the information contained in this program will empower you to make your man want a relationship again.

I know it’s going to show you how to transform this crazy situation you’re going through and guide you to be the most desirable woman he knows.

But you must take action, and the longer you wait, the worse off you’ll be.

So what I’d like to do is let you try my program risk-free for 7 days.

If you don’t absolutely love my program, I’ll give you a full refund.

I believe fully in this program. I’ve seen it work in “irreversible” situations, and I know it will help you too.

You won’t find a more complete “get your ex back how-to guide”.

Listen to the program 5 times minimum

Don’t just listen to it once and forget about it. Commit to your own success.

My students constantly say that the more they listen, the more they understand men, breakups and feel calmer.

If you follow this program, you will see results… and he will notice.

When you click the button below, you’ll be taken to a secure order form where you can order your audio and then download it.

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ANDROID USERS: This program is downloadable in”.ZIP” format and will need to be extracted. Android users can download the zip file (you will need 300MBs free) and extract the audio files to your music folder. 

IOS USERS: You may need to download the ZIP file to a computer first, extract and transfer to iPhone. However, you can try it all on your phone by tapping and holding the download button on the download page and select “Save Linked File”. Download the .ZIP file. You will then need to download a free app called Winzip or iZip. Find the .ZIP file in the folder “Document Browser” and extract the files.

Listen To A 10 Minute Sample Of The Program

Realistically, I can’t promise your man will come running back an hour after you purchase this program.

It has happened (in certain cases) where a woman used this material and got her man back the same day, but each situation is unique. It may take longer or shorter depending on the unique nature of your situation.

However, with the knowledge in this program, I can virtually guarantee you will get your ex-boyfriend back as quickly as the situation will allow… instead of unknowingly putting roadblocks in the way of that will draw the situation out even longer. You are going to feel like a brand new woman.

And you won’t have to wait long, because very rapidly you’ll start to see 6 major improvements. You are going to notice:

And there’s something else you’re going to see too.

I can’t say exactly when, but I know you WILL see it down the road. It may happen as soon as you finish the program, or it may happen a little later on.

But you are going to see…

Your Dream Come True. . .

It’s your dream come true because you’ll see exciting changes happen in your life, but you’ll pinch yourself because you won’t quite believe it’s happening.

When it happens… you suddenly find yourself awe struck at what is happening to you in your life. You stop what you’re doing. You all of a sudden notice that the vice that has been clenched around your heart is gone. And cry out of joy.

Why? For this many reasons.

First, any doubts or skepticism you have about getting your man being completely in love with you disappear.

And second, for perhaps the very first time in your life, you see an incredibly bright future full of love and happiness and lacking any negativity unfolding in front of you.

The dream may come true when your phone starts ringing, and you look at the caller ID and see that he is calling YOU and wants to talk to YOU… and he wants to make up with you and be with you again.

Or maybe it will happen when your at lunch with the girls… and the entire conversation at lunch is them probing for information on how you got back the love of your life… because they just aren’t used to seeing you have that much power and control with men and are happy for you… but secretly jealous.

Or maybe you’ll realize it when you’re out at dinner with him at your favorite place… and he looks over at you with that smile and those eyes that say in a thousand and one ways that he loves YOU and only you.

You’re one of the few people in the world who has gotten what they truly want. And the love, joy and colors in your life are brighter and more wonderful than they ever have been. No one else sees it happening, or the abundance of love and ease with your man that is taking place…

Or perhaps when you wake up in the morning with his arms wrapped around you… and all he wants to do all morning (or a day) long is hold you in his arms… that says YOU are the only woman in the entire world for him. Maybe that’s when you’ll realize it…

I want you to experience your dream, and turn this situation you’re in into the exciting love affair it’s supposed to be.

And now it’s only up to you to make it happen…

Don't Wait Until You Lose Him For Good

Make the decision right now to give yourself the amazing gift of love and happiness… with the man that you love and belong with.

Don’t wait until your window of opportunity has slammed shut.

The more I talk to women in breakup situation, the more I realize that there’s a direct connection to the amount of time you wait to ACT and the likelihood you’ll get your man back.

I’ve seen too many good hearted women like yourself miss their opportunity to get their man back simply because they waited too long.

Make your chances as HIGH as you can possibly get them to getting him back.

Whatever path you take to getting your man back, you’re going to need as high of chances and as much luck as possible, so I’m wishing you the best of luck.

Click Here To Order Your Audio Program Now!

Thank you for reading and I’ll talk to you again soon and good luck.

Your Friend and Coach,

Your Friend and Coach,

Brandon

P.S. Don’t wait until it’s too late. Now is the time to stop being depressed or confused, and to take your power back into your own hands now… before the man you love gets out of reach. The sooner you act and start putting the right strategies into place, the sooner you’ll get back into the love of your life’s arms, and STAY there for good. I can’t tell you how many women I’ve seen lose the man they love for good after a breakup simply because they didn’t take the right action at the right time… and I also can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this material bring the man they love back to them after a breakup.

P.P.S. I know that after going through this material, you’re going to wake up with your boyfriend’s arms wrapped around you again. You’re going to look into his eyes and see that smile for you again. You’re going to feel the love coming off of him towards you and only you again. Or you can decide that it’s time to move on and possibly start a new relationship, or begin dating again. The choice is yours. But whatever you choose for yourself, know that you HAVE a choice.

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