NOTE: You can find part 2 of this post at History of the Sexual World, Part Deux!
What I’m going to show you today is going to be very in depth, so if you’re not prepared to get your brain fried today you might want to skip over this post.
Most men and women don’t have a clue as to why they live in the relationship circumstances that they do… I’m talking about things like jealousy, cheating, anger at men, anger at women etc.
All of this stuff wasn’t as prevalent as it was just a few decades ago.
What has changed?
To understand the relationship and dating world of today, you must know where it came from.. Yes, there are reasons that deal with specifically you and your partner, but there’s also a very important historical reason.
Let’s get this first point straight away: Men have been dominant over women since the dawn of mankind.
Yes it’s terrible, but it’s a fact you must accept.
Women have always been subservient to men, and in many respects still are today.
And the fact is that out of THAT, everything in our current dating ==> relationship ==> marriage structure has been built around.
Man has always had a sick desire to own and control women.
In the middle east women STILL wear veils over their faces to show they are owned by a man, in the west, women wear a nice giant diamond ring.
It’s similar to luring a bear into a trap by sitting jars on top of jars of honey over a leaf covered pit. 😀
So, finally after CENTURIES of being miss treatment, brutalized and burned at the stake for witchcraft, women got their payback.
The first women’s movement came rolling along and gave women more power, rights and privilege than they had ever known before.
But this wasn’t that impactful on the state of relationships.
The first women’s movement had more to do with BASIC human rights.
It wasn’t until the 60’s and 70’s and the second wave feminist movement that things started changing in a DRASTIC way.
This was the SEXUAL revolution and many women were tired of being housewives.
Women started becoming the sexual equal to men.
They no longer wanted to get married at 19 years old and they started enjoying promiscuous sex.
And what did this do to men?
They freaked out.
They either tried to go with it, freaked out or clung on for DEAR LIFE to their old traditions. Men had it a certain way for so long that they didn’t even know how to keep it that way.
It was unconscious.
It just “was”. Now, women were free… and PISSED at men.
Even if it wasn’t conscious, the majority of the second wave feminist movement was fueled with revenge.
You can still see some of those front-liners today with their grown out beards, undyed hair, armpit bushes and jungle-like unshaven legs.
These women were pissed off and finally their time had arrived.
Look, there are 3 phases that relationships have historically gone through.
1. Macho Jerk/Housewife Phase: This is dominance that we just went through and the stage that men during the sexual revolution wanted to hold onto.
2. Equals Phase: This is the point we just got to – the second wave feminist movement where women gained equality with men.
So women finally became equal to men and started getting a breath of fresh air.
They moved into the work force, starting going to school in greater number and even started serving in the armed forces.
Things were finally getting set on the “right track”… or were they?
As the next 30 years rolled along from the 70’s to now, women as a collective hit a debuoyancy point.
“Debuoyancy” is a term used in free diving when you dive so deep that the water over you becomes so heavy that you no longer float back up to the surface like normal.
The weight of the water starts pushing you down.
It’s just like when you’re a kid and you can swim in a pool as deep as you want because you know you can come back up pretty easily.
Women were floating along free, enjoying their new found freedom to dive as deeply as they wanted now… but they didn’t expect there to be a point where they would not be able to come back up so easily to where they used to be… they would have to fight that terrific pressure all on their own.
The pressure was that of the state of the relationship culture.
From the time relationship when on from phase 1 to phase 2, relationships lost all polarity and structure and stunk. Men were no longer acting like MEN, and women were no longer feeling like a woman.
It was almost as if the roles had reversed in an unnatural process.
So, if you ever feel feelings come up that you don’t feel as much like a woman as you want, take a look at this.
Men and women were MEANT to be polar opposites with each other, positive and negative, yin and yang.
The polarity is what cause the magnetic attraction with you and a man.
But now it was positive and POSITIVE.
You know how when you try to force two of those little round magnets together… if you put them on one side they cling together and the opposite they want to push away from each other.
Well, what happened with relationships is women flipped over to + just like men and when you try to push two of the same charges together, they want to PUSH AWAY.
The third phase is:
3. Heart Conscious Polarity Phase: When both men and women consciously choose the polarity of the first phase with the consideration of the second phase and the love of this third phase.
Thing is, love is a very rare thing.
Everyone always talks about love, all of the schools and churches talk about love; everyone talks about love.
But, if there was as much love in the world as we go on blathering about, the world would have turned out to be a much different place.
Fear and anger wouldn’t be there and suffering would be a thing of illusion, but this is not so.
Fear, hatred and suffering wait for you right around every turn.
The whole HISTORY of men and women has anger and fear in every nook and cranny.
It’s one of the biggest reasons why you have faced so many problems with men – fear and hatred.
Fear is the complete opposite of love and hatred is love flipped upside down. If love were there, there would have been no need for the feminist movement.
Love is the cure for the diseased climate of our relationship world.
But as you’ve probably found, it’s quite easy to fall out of love.
He does just one thing to trip over your trust and all of a sudden the love is now deep anger.
But look, where I want you to be at the third phase. This is the most POWERFUL phase and where everything I teach you is geared to get you to.
You are looking for some MASCULINITY in your man today… and he is looking for love, where as before women were looking for love and men were looking for a “real woman”… which is a really bizarre thing!
The second phase helped give you two a taste of empathy for each other… IF you have the eyes to see it.
Thing is love very easily can turn to hate, and no one has every properly taught you what love is and what to do with it.
Instead hatred is encouraged in wholesale amounts.
It’s almost like men are supposed to hate women and women are supposed to hate men… it’s insane.
It’s EASY to love when you’re younger right?
But as you grow up with everyone around you telling you to get a job, a career, your friends teach you to trick and manipulate men, you’re starved of love from the very beginning with cold parents… you become more and more corrupted by the world and lose touch with that innocence… and innocence is definitely NOT a bad thing believe it or not.
Love is one of the most innocent and pure things. Doesn’t that just make sense?
It’s more of a process of dropping all of the garbage around it. The garbage is something that both the power hungry men and the hairy feminists have been living and breeding in.
All of this has accumulated to give you the present circumstances of the sexual world and why you are dealing with the exact problems you are.
The thing is, you have individual choice to make your love life the way you WANT.
Now that you have a taste in your mouth of the history, you can start making the choices a lot more easily.
p.s. you can find part 2 of this post here.