I get hundreds of emails a day from women asking me about male psychology in relationships and dating.
There’s no doubt about it…
The psychology of women when it comes to relationships and dating is complicated and confuses most women… from meeting, to starting a connection, falling in love, to staying in love.
As much as women know what they know about men, most women don’t understand male psychology when it comes to situations about love and dating… or why men do things like pull away or lose interest.
Many women want to know how to increase a man’s psychological attraction and love so she can enjoy the ecstasy of love.
But I’ve found that many women fail to reach this goal because they believe they already understand male psychology – especially when it comes to dating and love.
So today, I’m going to share with you two secrets about the psychology of men and falling in love. I will demystify men and make men EASY to interact with. But I ask that you keep an open mind as you read.
You will learn the basics of psychology – what drives men, how they start falling in love, how to make them stay, and how to control your interactions with a man.
If you’re like many of the thousands of women I’ve coached over the years, you want to know how to:
So, let’s jump right in.
Men fall in love for different reasons than women fall in love.
The male psychology about love is different from female psychology. Most men split women into two categories in their mind.
1. Women who they would consider falling in love with
2. Every other woman
So, what causes men to want to date certain women and avoid others?
The biggest difference between female and male psychology when it comes to dating is that most women fall for a man’s masculine qualities, like confidence, strength or dependability.
But most men fall for a woman’s feminine qualities, like softness, open-heartedness and even dorkiness.
Most of today’s women have an overabundance of masculine qualities, like leadership, control and independence.
In the public eye, most will tell you that these are good qualities for a relationship and men “should” like them.
But the reality is, what most people SAY men should want, and what men respond to emotionally are two different things.
Psychology, emotions and millions of years of evolution don’t care about what society says “should” be right.
If you learn to increase what I call “Yin feminine” energy, you can become addictive to men on a psychological level.
The great news is, any woman can learn how to do this.
It doesn’t matter how men (or a specific man) have seen you in the past.
With your understanding of male psychology about dating, you can change how men perceive you today and make a man fall deeply in love with you – if you start making the right changes.
I’m about to tell you a secret about male psychology in relationships and dating that flies in the face of what most women believe about men.
Many women believe men choose women based on their looks, age or social status.
And there’s some truth in that..
Yeah, men can be dumb idiots sometimes.
But we often find that quality guys end up going for women without the best looks or status.
Here’s a hidden male psychology secret about love that you probably didn’t know about.
I’ve come to understand that men have a subconscious “screening process” for who they stay in love with and who they don’t.
I say “subconscious” because typically it’s below his awareness… In other words, it’s not something he thinks about… it’s something he just feels.
Many women fail this screening process because they don’t understand the psychology of men falling love. And this is a big reason why many of today’s men choose the single life over a relationship.
Most men are looking for a specific, ongoing emotional experience with a woman.
When a woman gives him this experience, he will cross oceans to be with her. It doesn’t matter if he’s busy, not “ready” for a relationship or has life drama.
When a woman fails to give him this specific emotional experience, that’s when you see men “check out”, pull away, or stop giving attention.
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