There is a longstanding, unspoken rule for women: “I must be pretty or I don’t stand a chance being attractive to men.”
How much truth is there really that men only want women for their looks?
We all know that most men become dumb as a stump in the presence of an attractive woman, but is this all they pay attention to?
Men understand that they want a beautiful woman. Men ARE attracted to physical beauty.
Yeah, that is true… but there is also other specific criteria that if a woman posses, men will be attracted to, and men don’t necessarily understand “why”.
And I don’t mean this in that faux “fairy-tale ending” I-don’t-care-what-you-look-like kind of way…
A man, just like many women, doesn’t truly know exactly what he wants. He knows he want certain things, physical beauty, perhaps a woman with a strong career for instance, but he also doesn’t realize that physical beauty is not the only criteria that triggers men’s attraction.
There are inner qualities that a woman can posses that will blow a high quality man right over with high levels of attraction.
Many women find it hard to believe what I’m about to say, but the truth is these specific inner qualities far outweigh physical beauty.
But women who posses these quality are rare.
I know many women who dream up an ideal “perfect man” in there head only to find themselves falling in love with a man who is completely different from that image. The same thing applies to men.
I know many, many men who set out looking for a hot bombshell woman, what we can call an “average looking” woman… and not often not because he’s “settling”.
That woman sparks something special in him he has never felt from any other woman.
So, you might be wondering by now what these mysterious special qualities are that can take a man off the physical beauty conveyer belt.
These 12 things are a good start. If you haven’t read it, you gotta check it out right now.
But, there is something more to it.
What turns a man’s head to a woman even if she isn’t physically attractive to him?
What makes a man want a woman even if she isn’t his most physically attractive type (and when I say “not physically attractive”, I mean that she is at least keeping herself in shape as best as she can). “There is no such thing as an unattractive woman, only a lazy one” to quote a past girlfriend.
So, what causes a light bulb to actually flicker in his head and say “hmm, there is something about this woman… I just can’t explain it”?
The truth is it would take me a while to explain what men truly want beyond what billion dollar makeup companies want you to believe.
But we can start with one thing: your own Yin femininity.
Yin femininity is one of the most attractive quality a woman can have.
Yes, your very own natural femininity. If you think about it, physical beauty is just an extension of femininity. Femininity is the whole tree.
Personally, I have chosen to be with women who weren’t the most physically attractive to me in the past, but I could look past it because they shined, they emanated something from within.
There was a light in her eyes, and there was a specialness to her personality.
An “unattractive women” who see herself as such has lost that light. She has become hopeless and has lost touch with her femininity, her very silo of attractiveness.
She gets down on herself and worries constantly. She has the femininity there, but it gets covered up by negative thoughts and emotions.
This can eventually lead a woman to become more and more masculine as a subconscious protection device.
Many men do not find masculinity in women attractive, and this is a core problem of relationships and dating today for women.
Many of today’s women are acting more and more masculine.
In other words, they are forfeiting their softness, trusting, sensitivity, creativity, peace, light and joy in favor of strength, independence, cynicism, hard headedness, being rigid, and coldness.
I know from experience that a physically gorgeous woman with nothing else to offer can become exhausting and a burden.
Many men will break up or leave physically stunning women if this happens.
In other words, beauty alone isn’t enough to captures a man’s imagination.
I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve wanted to take this kind of woman by the hair and belt and toss her out a window (metaphorically speaking of course). And I know a few women who have wanted to do that with the men they date!
Women with nothing more to offer than looks are not interesting to most high quality men with options.
A guy will instantly be attracted to a beautiful woman, sure, and maybe even spend an evening or two with her, but soon after he will be dying to press the “eject” button if there’s nothing else within her that’s intriguing to him.
I don’t mean to sound like “if you’re beautiful, you’re not good enough”, but I’m saying this if you have been focusing of physical beauty to try to get a man.
Being beautiful truly isn’t enough for a quality guy.
Physically beauty is a small piece of the “male attraction” puzzle.
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We gravitate to a woman who has that spark of pure Yin femininity in her eye and heart… This is what polar attraction for you means. This sparks a man’s interest.
He wants someone who is going to be strong to take on the world with him and someone soft enough to give him feminine life.
Physical beauty may seem like the “be all end all”, but who you are as energy is the real be all end all… and the good news is you have complete control over it.
When you come to your confident femininity, this causes men to respond to you in a completely new way than what you are used to. He opens up to you, and he takes you under his wing.
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