If you’re like many good women I’ve coached through devastating breakups, you’re feeling shattered and alone.
And you feel like your ex boyfriend is pulling away further with every text you send.
He’s your “one and only” and means everything to you.
But for some reason he’s becoming distant emotionally, physically and spiritually.
You’re blanketed in a fog of confusion trying to figure out:
Some women regret their actions with their ex and feel to blame for the breakup.
They feel he rejected her and it’s “impossible” to get him back.
You may have found that when you talk about the relationship or try to “convince” him to give you another chance, he shuts down.
Maybe you’ve had the misfortune of being at end of his dagger-like words, like:
You end up broken from repeating his words in your head for days, months or even years.
And petrified at the thought of him finding a new woman.
But all of that is about to change.
After reading this article in it’s entirety, you’ll feel crystal clear about his feelings and what you must do to be in his loving arms again.
If you have been blaming yourself for this breakup, you don’t have to. The post-breakup “soup” you’re in is the result of many factors.
There is nothing wrong with just wanting a little love and enjoying connecting with the one you love.
But the good news is, I’ve coached literally thousands of women in sometimes nasty situations to successfully get their boyfriends back and in love like the beginning when they first met.
Who am I?
My name is Brandon.
I’m the founder of Yintegrity.com.
I may look young, but for the past 14 years I’ve taught women around the world how to get their ex-boyfriends back.
Even if he isn’t returning texts…
Is cold and distant…
Or even if he’s met someone new.
I don’t mean to “toot my own horn” BUT…
I’ve learned it’s possible for ANY woman to get a man crawling back for another chance –
Even in messed up or unique breakup situations…
With the right information.
I’ve traveled the world teaching women these secrets to filled rooms.
And have seen amazing transformations by women regaining control of a breakup and getting their man back in their arms for good.
You don’t have to believe me yet.
Just keep an open mind
Before we go on, there’s a secrets about your ex that you MUST know.
The secret is:
Your ex-boyfriend still loves you.
How could I possibly say that given that he’s left you all alone, isn’t returning texts often and is cold?
But I can virtually guarantee it’s true.
Firstly, I already know you’re an intelligent and desirable woman simply because you’re here seeking answers.
Secondly, this has to everything to do with male psychology in breakups.
Most men think the same exact things in breakups.
No matter the “uniqueness” of the situation.
Most men never let on that they actually miss their ex girlfriends and want to be with her again.
Appearances can be deceiving.
The problem is, behavioral scientists have recently discovered that men repress their emotions far more than women.
Not that we needed scientists to tell us that…
But seriously, he’s trying to push his love down.
The problem is, if you try talking to him about it directly, he’ll push you away.
So the question is, how do you get him back if he’s closed off emotionally?
The answer is this.
But there is a RIGHT way and a WRONG way to do this.
Most women unknowingly text their exes in a way that sub-communicates she’s not “girlfriend material”.
I’ve discovered this after years of talking to guys about how they feel about different texts after a breakup. There are qualities men universally find attractive in women post-breakup and qualities they find universally unattractive.
This is true even for the most caring men.
Look, if he broke up with you, there was a loss of emotional attraction and connection happening in him.
And many women make their post-breakup situation worse by texting specific things that kill his attraction, interest and love even more.
Let me give you an example of a typical conversation many women have with their exes.
Where are you?
What the hell?! I’ve been texting you all day and you didn’t reply to me at all!
I’m so sorry, I shouldn’t have said that, i’ve just been stress about my mom and x, y z
What are you doing? I miss you.
Omg i’m so angry you are being like this!!!! You are a jerk.
I’m so sorry
Oh hi. Sorry been busy.
If you’ve had an exchange like this, it’s excruciating trying so hard to make things work and he acts like he doesn’t know you exist.
You must avoid becoming overly-emotional with him after this breakup because this kills his attraction.
It does NOT make him feel sorry for you or feel like he’s still connected with you or that he should start things over with you.
When you talk to your ex, you MUST AVOID coming off desperate, needy or angry or you will end up creating a negative emotional experience for him…
Which is partly why the relationship ended in the first place.
Before I give you the exact “script” to send to him, we need to talk about HOW to text him.
When you text your ex-boyfriend, you must avoid the “emotional hangups” that caused the breakup in the first place.
For most women, this means avoiding getting overly-emotional, angry, jealous or needy.
You must communicate with him in a way that shows you are a desirable woman.
Most women have an idea of what “desirable” means. But to men, that definition is something completely different.
Here’s my very best tip to make this work.
I believe you must start SLOWING DOWN your conversations with him.
It’s likely you message him on rapid fire.
But now is the time to start slowing things down.
And no, he’s NOT going to forget about you if you don’t message him enough.
In fact, just the opposite will start happening.
He’s going to start THINKING about you more.
He’s used to towing you around by the nose.
But right now will be the moment you remember as the point in which you took your first step in taking your power back and things shifting into YOUR favor.
Here is the “bulletproof” texting strategy to get him back.
This message might be out of nowhere, but i’d like to level with you. This breakup has been hard on me as you can see. But I’m ready to let go of fear now. I love you unconditionally, whether we are together or not. I’m sorry for [if have never apologized for your mistakes, make sure you apology briefly here] I would like it if we can be friendly to each other.
So, what’s so special about this text, and should you really send it?
Some women think they need a magical, jealousy triggering text that’ll make his jaw drop.
This is a classic mistake some women make in breakups that end up making her lose him for good.
Gentle is best because now his attraction, trust and respect for you is hanging by a thread if you’ve been acting overly-emotional with him.
This text simply says how things are now going to be and levels the power dynamic.
He sees that you understand him, what he wants and that you love him even if he has someone new, which will make him feel on one hand good, and on the other hand nervous and curious.
That’s because you are taking back you’re power, but being nice about it.
He’s likely never been told “I love you unconditionally” by any other woman (excluding mom). This is a very powerful statement.
Most women never do this and make the mistake of giving their power away, acting desperate and getting consumed by FEAR.
And notice how I said “friendly”. He won’t think you want to be only friends! He will think you simply want to be nice to each other, which believe me, is what you need to get him back.
You must know what to do next to handle him in a way that makes him start to miss you.
I’d love to keep talking about texting templates and copy, pasting and sending.
But the truth is this:
Texts alone aren’t enough to get him back.
It will help.
But what you really need is a full education of male psychology and emotions in breakups.
AND what will emotionally inspire your man to run back and wrap his arms around you as fast as possible.
What I’d like to do is send you a special report I’ve created called:
Inside Your Ex-Boyfriend’s Mind.
This is completely free, my gift to you.
Inside you’ll learn how to make your ex miss you…
And avoid mistakes 99% of women make in breakups that stop men from coming back.
Unfortunately most “experts” aren’t talking about these secrets.
All you have to do to get this very special report is tap the pretty pink button & enter your name & email.
Then you’ll be taken to a page where I’ll show you the 7 deadly mistakes that will kill your chances of having your ex come back to you.
After seeing how the pieces fit together, your fear, confusion and pain will vanish.
You’re about to know exactly what you need to do to get him back once and for all.
It just takes 2 seconds.
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