The “Great Wall of China” has nothing on the wall a man can surround himself with when it comes to communication in relationships.
Why is it so difficult to communicate with a man in a relationship… on a psychological, emotional and even physical level?
How do you get him to listen to your feelings? And get him telling you his feelings and connect on a deeper, spiritual, “us against the world” level?
Are most men just broken in this department?
The answer is… not most.
One reason why relationship communication stops (or never starts) has a lot to do with a man’s past relationship experiences.
But there’s another special thing most women fail to make happen when creating communication lines with a man.
We’ll talk about that in a second.
Here’s the reality if your man is not communicating in your relationship.
If he is not communicating and opening up with you, you could lose him.
It has little to do with something going on outside of the relationship.
It’s not because of his job or his friends or family or anything else going on in his life.
Usually when a man is not open or communicating in a relationship, it’s a sign of something going on inside the relationship.
Nine times out of ten it has to with this special ingredient that most women don’t know how to create in a relationship.
That ingredient is emotional trust.
When I say “trust”, I don’t mean your fidelity.
The literal translation of the word trust is reliance on the integrity, strength, ability of a person or thing (pulled from dictionary.com).
Now, let me ask you a few questions, and try to be really honest with yourself.
Do you ever get overly-emotional, upset or needy with him?
Have you ever demanded things of him?
Do you feel the desire to control your relationship… that things will fall apart if you don’t?
Can you truly say that your man feels a deep sense of reliability in your integrity, strength and ability to handle him?
Does he honestly believe that he could reveal his deepest darkest secrets to you and nothing would happen to the relationship except that a deeper connection would form with you?
These are tough questions to answers.
We both know that you would absolutely, without thought, be his “rock”, but does he know that?
Communication in relationships goes both way.
Chances are, if he’s not communicating with you in the relationship, then the answer is “no”.
Where most women go wrong is assuming that he “should” just know that because she loves him.
But more often than not, men are not what you would call “mind readers”.
And they’re usually not relationship communication experts either…
In fact, most men can be a pretty dense.
Truth is, most women never learn HOW to communicate in relationships or demonstrate their trustworthiness to a man in a way that he understands and opens up.
The way MEN understand communication in relationships is much different than woman.
You have to talk to a man like a man, or he won’t get your messages.
You do that by understanding male psychology, emotions and heart.
If your man isn’t communicating openly in the relationship with you, then it’s time to start building trust with your man (before it’s too late) by understanding his PSYCHOLOGY.
A distant, non-communicative boyfriend is a sign that a relationship is in danger and quick actions is needed.
The question is, how do you make a man trust you so much so that he WANTS to communicate in the relationship openly, and even allowing himself to unleash his “inner dork” with you?
The “trick” is to create an atmosphere of trust with him so that he feels absolutely SAFE being around you.
When your man has a DEEP level of for trust for you, he will open up to you on his own.
When he starts communicating with you, you have to be ready to talk with him the right way so that he continues to open up and even deeper.
If you handle a man’s truth in the wrong way like most women do, you risk slamming the door shut on his communication for good.
No matter how much both you and I know that you’re a trustworthy person deep down, it’s more about communicating this to him in the right way so that he understands.
You must learn how to bridge your “female world” with his male world.
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