12 Things A Woman Does That Men Find Irresistible

Make Him Fall In Love Forever

Brandon Martin
Author of "Relationship Goddess"

Follow Brandon's 12 Heart-Centered Tips To Being Irresistible To Men

What makes men feel a woman is psychologically and emotionally irresistible?

Why do many women today experience men suddenly becoming disinterested, pulling away or shutting down… and what can you do about it?

After more than 10 years coaching thousands of women...

And years researching relationship dynamics, I’ve discovered “secrets” about how to be irresistible to men, which most experts aren’t talking about.

Secrets that cause a psychic-spiritual “spark” that make men feel irresistibly attracted to a woman.

Thing is, being irresistible is not what most women think it is: youth, beauty, success or being an independent woman.

Being irresistible to men is really about the ongoing emotional & psychic-spiritual experience a man has with you.

If you’ve had trouble keeping a guy interested, you’re likely either making one or more common mistakes that take from his emotional experience, or you’re not doing enough of the right things to create it.

It’s important that you learn how to be irresistible to men in today’s competitive dating world.

Being in the top 5% of women will change your love life and make men effortless to deal with.

Unless you understand how to be IRRESISTIBLE to men, you’ll likely deal with him losing interest, falling out of love or avoiding commitment.

Being irresistible to men has to do with the ongoing emotional & psychic-spiritual experience a man has with you.

If you’ve had trouble keeping a guy interested, you’re likely either making one or more common mistakes take from his emotional experience, or you’re not doing enough of the right things to create it.

It’s important that you learn how to be irresistible to men in today’s competitive dating world.

Being in the top 5% of women will change your love life and make men effortless to deal with.

Unless you understand how to be irresistible to men, you’ll likely deal with men losing interest, falling out of love or avoiding commitment.

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  • How to get his mind OBSESSED with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 2 qualities that tell men you're "the one"
  • 6 SECRETS that inspire men to fully open up

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How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 12:

The "Energy" All Men Find Irresistible

I've observed this interesting little trap leads many women fall into....

Many women already believe they know what men want or find irresistible. 

For example, most women believe men want a young, beautiful girlfriend.

But if this is true, why do we find so many high quality guys end up with  “average” looking women? Why do men find these women irresistible and not others?

I’ve discovered that most women don’t truly understand male psychology or emotions and what men want… even when they think they do.

This can lead to frustration and not getting love or interest from men because a woman is attached to an idea of what you think he wants.

Who could blame women? Men aren’t exactly “open books” about their inner world.

After years talking to guys about women and love, I discovered an odd quality that most men instantly respond to…

Men universally find child-like energy irresistibly attractive.

Why?

Most women get “burnt out” from from their bad past experiences with men.

It’s tough for women in today’s dating climate, and this can cause stress, heartbreak and fear towards men.

Problem is, no matter how much you and I know this, men tend to lack feelings of interest for a woman who is afraid, stressed, or cynical.

Listen carefully.

Childlike, playful, innocent energy is one of the reasons why men will choose one woman over another.

A girl playing on the playground hasn’t been used, betrayed or burdened by stress yet.

She simply plays in the sand, swings on the swings and counts the grains of sand she can hold in her hand. She is alive and living in the now.

I’m always amazed when I see 18-year-old girls who seem like they’re 48, and then when I see 48-year-old women who feel 18.

It’s a matter of learning what “energy” men respond to in a woman and how to make a man feel emotional attraction.

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  • 3 mistakes that make men pull away & quit giving affection
  • How to make men obsessed with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 6 secrets that make a man open up and show him you're "the one"
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How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 11:

How To Handle His Cold Attitude To Create Trust

What I’ve found after observing thousands of women interact with men is that when men do stupid things like not call/text back or not give attention, many women react emotionally.

Men often do hurtful and brainless things.

This can cause men to pull away suddenly, act distant and cold.

Then many women find themselves in frustrating situations where they are:

  • Trying to logically "convince" a guy to feel love
  • Giving him a "taste of his own medicine"
  • Trying to control his behaviors through emotional manipulation

Most men are dense don’t realize when they have hurt you, so these things often cause men to feel like they can’t make that woman happy.

But most men will simply see an emotional woman who they don’t know how to handle, and that scares them.

Men universally crave light-heartedness, humor and relaxation in women … ESPECIALLY when things get rough.

Unfortunately, this is rare for men to find.

Humor and light-heartedness is like a billboard mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m the one”.

If you lead with a sense of humor when things don’t go well, it can instantly turn your a situation around and spark emotional, irresistible attraction in men.

If you’re in a situation with a man like this, you need to  learn how to reverse this and become irresistible to him before things gets worse.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 10:

Inspiring Trust & Respect

When men do stupid things like get distant, not call/text back or other hurtful things, most women let their emotions build up and lash out.

You and I know many women don’t mean to do this. But something as simple as this makes men start to lose trust, respect and attraction and distance themselves emotionally.

It took me long time to understand that that emotions scare men and causes them to close up out of fear.

Expressing positive emotions in the right way has the power to get a man literally addicted to you.

All men secretly hope to meet a woman who adds emotional value to his life.

It just takes a meaningful readjustment of the way you approach men and relationships to be irresistible to men.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 9:

How To Create Irresistible With Men

Let’s face it, many of today’s women have an A.D.D. situation going on…

But seriously, that can be cute to some guys at first. I find it hilarious and love to make light-hearted fun of women like this. But impatience can turn into unnecessary frustration and emotional aggression when things don’t happen fast enough.

What I’m talking about is relaxing more and being more open to going with the flow with him. This is the same attitude that rockstars have, and rockstars male or female are some of the most irresistible people on the planet.

Why is patience so valuable to become irresistible to men? Because it’s RARE and sub-communicates confidence and desirability.

Here’s a clue to being irresistible to men that most women will never know.

Men are purpose and goal-oriented. Men value the vision they want to create in life above all else. It could be that he wants to start a family, travel the world, build a business… it could be anything.

The point is when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax with his path. If she does he will literally feel that she completes him.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 8:

Irresistible Body Language Secrets

Behavioral psychologists recently found this…

Body language accounts for 55% of all communication between people, while vocal tonality accounts for 38%.

If this is true, it means… words are only 7% of all communication.

It’s possible that 93% of the signals we give socially are based on body language and vocal tonality alone.

Many women ask me “what do I say to him to make him want me?”

Instead of focusing on just 7% of communication, I’d like to suggest that you can get more leverage with men by focusing on the other 93%.

Body language is a fascinating subject to me, and I’d like to give you what I consider to be a “magic formula” for body language that subconsciously tells men you’re irresistible and you know it.

a. The first part of the puzzle is to lead your body with your hips.

You may have mixed feelings about her (I’m not her biggest fan), but Paris Hilton is a master of this and has irresistible body language.

Walking this way conveys sexuality, confidence and feminine swagger. Simply walking like this can instantly get a high quality guy’s attention.

b. Next, consider arching your lower back to allow tension off your upper-back and shoulders. 

Your shoulders can be sub-communicate many things to men. 

Hunching sub-communicates low self-confidence, which is not what many high-quality men look for.

Shoulders should be rolled back a bit as to not hide your chest (no matter the size) and to avoid hunching. 

c. Raise your chin.

A chin up in the air conveys self-confidence instantly.

This will also help focus your body to stand straight up, as if you’re laying vertically on a bed.

d. Most importantly, smile!

A woman who smiles tells men on a gut level that you’re open, confident and feminine while no smile makes him wonder if you’ll be difficult to please.

This body language is irresistible to men on a subconscious level… beyond their conscious control.

When you have powerful body language, it’s as close to “magic” as it gets to seeing men respond instantly with irresistible attraction.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 7:

Sparking Irresistible Physical Attraction

Are most high-quality guys really looking for “supermodel” good looks?

I’ve learned that most guys are not looking for a supermodel.

Physical attraction is created simply by a man seeing that you care about your presentation.

If a man is “talking” to you, it means he’s physically attracted enough to you to be in a relationship with you.

Beauty, healthy hair, good-looking skin, well-done makeup, healthy weight; these are the superficial things men adore.

Where many women get tripped up is believing that external beauty is everything… it is not.

Have you ever stopped to think… what is beauty?

It’s a question I like thinking about.

I believe beauty is the outward expression of femininity. men are attracted to like NOTHING else.

But it’s against femininity to be obsessed with looks, or you become an insecure rollercoaster seeking approval from men. When you chase after validation, you can’t be irresistible.

Here’s what I believe is needed:

Balance.

The fact is inner is just as important as outer.

There is a way to spark internally beautiful to men in a way that makes men respond like crazy.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 6:

Create Irresistibly Attractive "Energy" With Him

I know something about you...

You are a goal driven, intelligent woman. 

I know because you’re seeking answers to this essential area of life called “love”.

However, many smart women get tripped up thinking too much… usually about the past or worrying about the future. 

The problem is, getting stuck in your head kills attraction with men.

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A woman who is “here now” is sharp, responsive, alive, witty and keeps a man on his toes.

Men can look into her eyes and see that she is with him here and now and not over-thinking and allow him to fall in love.

A woman who is in the “now” is completely attractive, and irresistible to men.

Most men never find this women, so when she does comes, well let’s just say, have you ever heard of those stories about guys proposing after dating for three months?

There is a way to cultivate this aspect of yourself, and I believe you have this ability inside you… you just have to learn how.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 5:

Stop Being "Needy" & Get Passionate Instead

Many smart women fall into this tricky trap….

Confusing neediness for love.

I’ve come to discover that neediness can disguise itself as “love”.

Let me explain..

I think we can agree that true love is when we think about the other person’s happiness before our own.

Neediness is a fixation on how our own needs are not being met.

Love is courageous and feels blissful… while neediness is fear-based and feels painful.

Many guys sense neediness the more time they spend with a girl, which can cause them to slowly pull away.

When a woman starts to get emotionally attached to a guy and hopes that he gives her more love and attention, men often pull away because this is not what men want in a girlfriend.

What most men want is a woman who LOVES them rather than needs them.

Need is not being able to live without a man, while love is wanting him to be an addition to your life.

A woman who has the confidence to love, to desire, and not be attached gets the love from the man she wants.

It is possible to develop high levels confidence with men.

If you deal with neediness everyday and want to become confident and free of fear, anxiety, neediness, self-doubt or jealousy, then check out my emotional balancing tips.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 4:

Nurture Him

Most men enjoy independence, but I’ve found that men secretly want to feel taken care of as well.

To many women this comes naturally. The problem is when men do hurtful things, many women pull back this quality out of fear, insecurity or anger.

The Indian mystic Osho once said “a man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother.” Profound stuff.

Could you imagine what would happen if you were able to make him feel the happiness he once felt in his mother’s womb?

Is it even possible?

There are ways to make him feel this way that I don’t have time to get into now (you can learn more in my products and programs).

It’s a basic female, motherly instinct to nurture.

Most guys do want a tiny bit of mommy in the woman they’re spending their time with.

But because of society, “responsibilities” and the resentment many women subconsciously feel towards men, many women end up losing touch with this part of themselves.

If you’re not nurturing to a man, there’s a good chance that he will feel a level of distrust in your ability to fulfill him emotionally.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 3:

How To Be Irresistible To Men In The Bedroom

There's no denying it...

Sex is a powerful, emotionally bonding event.

And mastering the bedroom can trigger a man’s heart to open up to you and massively change how a man feels about you.

Many magazines come out with “tricks” for the bedroom.

But there’s something more simple and effective you can do to be irresistible to men in the bedroom.

It comes down to this…

You must know how to create a relaxed environment in the bedroom. Most women create tense environment in the bedroom by worrying how they look or if they’re “pleasing” him.

That all you need to start making men feel irresistibly in love and attracted to you in the bedroom.

This simple shift can cause a man to feel that you are different from other girlsIt’s easier than you might think to master the bedroom with men, you just have to know how and then act.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 2:

Be An Expression Of Love

There are women who live in fear, and women who live in love.

In my experience, most women live in fear.

Many women:

  • Fear being left
  • Fear not being loved
  • Fear pain
  • Fear being cheated on/used
  • Live with bitterness/regret over the past
  • Worry about the future

The list goes on.

Fear can kill a man’s attraction because men are universally drawn to women who live in love, positivity, joy, creativity.

Unfortunately, most women live in constant worry, self-judgment, guilt or anxiety due to not knowing how to get what they want from men. 

When you base your actions with men off of love-based  thoughts, you act in ways that attract love from men.

A woman who sees dance, celebration and music wherever she goes is one of the most desirable qualities a woman can have.

Love is, in fact, the most powerful energy in the universe.

How To Be Irresistible To Men Secret 1:

Be Irresistible To Men By Having Integrity

I’d like to ask you an obvious yet powerful question…

Why do so many women fail to make men irresistibly attracted to them?

Some women would say a lack of confidence or not being pretty enough.

Well, the truth I’ve found after coaching women around the world for over 10 years is most women aren’t irresistible to guys because they lack integrity.

Unfortunately, many women simply do whatever they think will get them results… even if that means dishonest behavior or games.

Ironically, this is exactly what robs women of their power with men.

Some women feel “entitled” to act this way because of the bad ways men treated them in the past.

But most men have deep admiration for a woman who has love-centered values.

When a man knows a woman can be swayed to dishonesty to get what she wants, he will lose trust and may leave because he knows one day, it may be him at the business end of her sword.

A woman who stands up for love and won’t play games is a beacon of light to men.

This can and often does inspire men out of their own B.S.

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  • 3 mistakes that make men pull away & quit giving affection
  • How to make men obsessed with only you & stop his "wandering eye"
  • 6 secrets that make a man open up and show him you're "the one"
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