Why Most Women Struggle to Keep Men Devoted…
Here’s How to Make Men Insatiably in Love, Forget About Other Women, and Commit Forever
Read on to learn how to get your man head-over-heels and lovesick for you, creating an unbreakable bond he’ll want forever.
Dear Lovely New Friend,
Being with a man who has stopped giving love is not just frustrating; it’s truly painful. I feel the raw emotion from my students who share their experiences of men becoming cold, distant, or simply pulling away.
Many women come to me with the same burning question:
“Brandon, how can I be irresistible to men long-term?”
“How can I make men love me and to give me all of their the attention and connection I need without feeling like I’m forcing him?”
To address these important questions, let’s take a moment for some honest reflection.
Have you ever had a man suddenly get distant?
He stopped showing clear interest in you, and the attention and affection you need in a relationship seemed to vanish. That feeling of panic can be overwhelming, especially when no matter how hard you try, nothing seems to bring him closer. His calls and texts dwindle to infrequent, two-word replies, leaving you in the dark about what he’s thinking or how to change the situation. You started fearing the worst, that he didn’t love you anymore.
Have you ever gotten overly emotional with a man?
He stopped giving you the attention and security you truly wanted. After obsessing about his unloving behavior for a while, you finally voiced your problem. Instead of reassuring you, he became defensive or acted like you were a “nag.” You ended up “lashing out” emotionally, causing him to pull away. You felt let down, as if the love you desired wasn’t possible.
Did you feel instant love with a guy who got “hot & cold” after sleeping together?
He initially showered you with love and attention… but soon, what you feared might happen did happen: he became distant. You wouldn’t hear from him for days or weeks, then he’d reappear and act like nothing happened. You felt lonely and powerless over what was happening. You loved him, but whenever you got close, he pulled away and said, “I’m not looking for anything serious.” You couldn’t figure out how to make him want to be exclusive.
Have you ever dated a man who began acting “hot & cold”?
One minute, you’d be in bed together sharing amazing love, and the next, you wouldn’t hear from him for several days or weeks. Then he’d reappear and talk as if nothing had changed. This left you feeling torn. You liked him (or even loved him), but when you tried to express your desire to see him regularly, he seemed uncomfortable. You couldn’t understand him or how to make him want to be exclusive with you.
Have you ever wanted to move to the next level with a man, but he was resistant?
You wanted to become more exclusive: post photos together on social media, move in together, or even get engaged, but he never brought up these conversations… or even avoided discussing them when you did. When he finally did say something, he used phrases like “I need more time” or “I’m just not ready.” You were left feeling stuck in no man’s land, unsure of your future.
Have you ever tried making a man jealous to get his attention?
You were always told that guys respond to looks and that playing “hard to get” is the way to go when he’s pursuing you. You also heard that making him jealous was the best strategy to keep his interest. But in those instances when you tried that, you received weird, angry, or even violent reactions from him, which sometimes caused him to walk away. You were left wondering, “Why does everything that ‘should’ work on men not work?”
Has a man ever lost the “spark” in his eyes when he looks at you?
When you started dating him, you’d catch him gazing at you with smiling eyes, like he was proud of you. But at some point, he stopped giving you the love you truly wanted. You felt unattractive to him. The amazing sex became less frequent, and you worried he was growing “bored.” You tried to reignite that “spark” of love, but things only seemed to get worse. You felt alone.